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ogracemay.blacksky.app
@ogracemay.blacksky.app
30. Blk/Af-Am. AuDHD. AroAce. Dyke. LC. Gluten-free. Somewhere between conscious & feminist. She/her, but not a woman.

Interested in: patterns; disability; gender; music; astrology; sustainability; art(s & crafts); nature.
AND I just love the night. I love the quiet.
So tired around 8pm and then I stay up anyway grrrr
December 4, 2025 at 6:29 AM
So tired around 8pm and then I stay up anyway grrrr
December 4, 2025 at 5:50 AM
I love wearing long skirts in a dyke-y cunt way. 😜😜
December 3, 2025 at 2:40 AM
I fucking hate that when I came out being a lesbian felt so taboo. The Gen z girlies are rly doing their big one. I love this for them though!!! 😭😭😭
December 3, 2025 at 2:35 AM
This in addition to my raynauds… existing hurts rn. I’m done forgetting my meds. I kinda think it’s the change in weather too..
December 2, 2025 at 11:07 PM
I’m realizing how much my headphones were an accommodation… yes, I called them a game changer last year, but I’m still shocked at how much I’m struggling without them.
I broke my noise cancelling headphones :(
December 2, 2025 at 11:07 PM
I’m realizing how much my headphones were an accommodation… yes, I called them a game changer last year, but I’m still shocked at how much I’m struggling without them.
I broke my noise cancelling headphones :(
December 2, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Just realized I can take some ibuprofen on top of my meds... still learning to honor my body's needs.
Why do I feel like shit? Oh, I haven’t taken my meds in two days :(
December 2, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Why do I feel like shit? Oh, I haven’t taken my meds in two days :(
December 2, 2025 at 8:48 PM
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As Ocean Vuong also put it: “Being queer saved my life. Often we see queerness as deprivation. But when I look at my life, I saw that queerness demanded an alternative innovation from me. I had to make alternative routes; it made me curious; it made me ask, ‘Is this enough for me?’”
Det deiligste med å skeiv er at så mange regler om kone-firebarn-knappefabrik ikke gjelder. Man kan lage sine egne tradisjoner og veier i livet.
August 11, 2025 at 11:07 AM
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When Ocean Vuong said “Queerness, in a way, saved my life” he was so right. It did save my life, & in so many ways. I love queerness. I love being queer. I love queer love. I love the queer community. I love queer joy. I love queer resilience. I love queer perseverance. I just love us so so much
September 2, 2025 at 9:24 PM
Being queer saved my life, or whatever ocean vuong said 💛💛💛💛
December 2, 2025 at 4:43 AM
It’s been over 6 years since I realized I’m queer and I feel like I’ve finally moved on from making it my whole personality lmao. Most of the media I read/watch/listen is queer as well as the spaces I find myself in… but mostly I feel a lot more integrated.
December 2, 2025 at 4:42 AM
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Undiagnosed autism is everyone thinking you're a complete weirdo

Diagnosed autism is telling people you're autistic and everyone being confused because you look "completely normal"
December 2, 2025 at 3:35 AM
Revisiting this book since first opening a copy in the kinda South. I’ve since purchased my own copy. Here’s to feeling a little less alone and a little more whole.
December 2, 2025 at 3:33 AM
I’m always going to think age gap relationships are weird when ppl are below 40.
December 2, 2025 at 3:12 AM
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World AIDS Day. We remember.
December 1, 2025 at 1:19 PM
I could really go for a hug.
December 1, 2025 at 4:46 PM
It’s December. Wow.
December 1, 2025 at 3:19 PM
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just a quick holiday psa because it's almost december and i see people make this mistake in their festive art every year without fail
November 26, 2024 at 10:02 PM
Sans imperialism, I enjoyed watching Red Tails, it the first time I’ve seen it since it was in theaters over a decade ago.
December 1, 2025 at 2:51 AM
November 30, 2025 at 9:53 PM
I just made a blt. Tmrw it’s gonna be a tuna blt. I’m so excited.
November 30, 2025 at 4:40 AM
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Blue Green Yellow Orange Red by Ellsworth Kelly, 1966
https://botfrens.com/collections/212/contents/137719
November 30, 2025 at 3:39 AM
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Browsing museums, galleries, libraries, bookstores have been some of the best hours of my life, but yes, its not instant gratification and its designed to take time
The death of browsing is part of the reason art is the way it is now. Our opinions are largely fed to us by algorithms. Spending a spare 15 minutes wandering around a bookstore or comic shop or video rental place was how you found stuff you wouldn't ordinarily pick up and thereby expanded your taste
Bookselling is like the most "people go to the store and buy what looks cool to them without a particular agenda" type business left, and your purchases have a huge influence on what is ordered, what is displayed, and what is recommended.
November 29, 2025 at 7:07 PM