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Nicky

Nicky

@nickycdr.bsky.social

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Bi feminist, she/her

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Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 1h

Ask Judith why she thinks it's OK to help herself to my child's records, when we refused access and make decisions to forcibly detransition him without ever bothering to meet him or have a discussion with us. If she can do it here, she will do it over there.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 1h

My son is caught up in this investigation, is it OK to message you?

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 1h

The media refuse to tell our story. Our MP's won't get involved. I wish I could share the horrific stories of the impact it's having on all the children, but it's not my story to tell. But know this, these children are suffering and no one is talking about it, no-one wants to know.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 1h

Thank you for all the kind words and support. Can I please ask a favour? Can you spread this story as far and wide as you can. Share it with people you know, forward it to your MP's, anyone in the public eye that might be supportive. This is unbelievably horrific, and no one knows about it..

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 19h

My son is on blockers legally from before the ban and we did everything they told us to do and now we are being threatened with social services if we don't allow them to "safely withdraw" medication. They admit that the impact will be "stark" for our kids but they are going to do it anyway.

Sophie Molly @sophiemolly.co.uk · 1d

"Laura fears all will be lost if ICB Sussex forces her child off the medication.

If ICB Sussex get their own way in a matter of weeks and they force detransition, Olive may well take her life."

northwestbylines.co.uk/news/health/...

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 16h

No one believes us. My own family don't believe how bad it is. I have the evidence too.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 17h

This is awful, im so sorry you had to deal with this. How did you manage to stay so calm? Obviously, they wanted you to provoke you.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 17h

Thank you.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 17h

Yes, we put it off for as long as possible because my son doesn't want to leave. I promised him we would only go when there is no other choice. We are at that point now. But it's not all bad, he will have a better life, and he is going to have parents who are not constantly stressed.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 17h

Or they believe what they read online or hear from the government. Their is no outcry about because people believe that blockers are bad. When they do it those kids, they will find themselves in the same boat. Years of demonising trans people mean that people just don't see what's happening as bad.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 17h

All our kids are well documented too. We did everything by the books. Everything is in his medical records. They were absolutely clear that our kids should remain on blockers, until overnight it all changed. They will do the same to those kids too. No one believes us or cares when we tell them...

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 18h

I can understand why you are frightened. I really hope things turn around but we are moving abroad, they won't stop coming after us.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 18h

Those 200 kids will be next. They aren't stopping at us.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 18h

For now. My child is on them legally and we followed all the rules. We found a GP to prescribe as we were told to and now they are treating us like abusers for doing so. They are saying no GP can prescribe and the gender clinics will not take over the prescriptions. This is forced detransition.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 18h

I try all the time to reach out to journalists, I can't get them to report it.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 18h

I'm shocked they even acknowledged the harm. The risk assessment was also clear that this is horrific but they don't care. They have people going through our kids records creating treatment plans that will just be presented to us, without even talking to us.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 18h

We have been living with this for months and it still shocks me when I stop and think about it. We have help thankfully.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 18h

The only way left is to leave the country. We are moving abroad. Even if we managed to stop it, they won't stop coming after us.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 19h

Exactly. The head of the investigation admits that the outcome for our children is "stark" yet they are doing it anyway.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 19h

My son is caught up in this, what's worse is the head of the investigation has admitted the outcome for our children is "stark" but they are doing it anyway.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 19h

My son is on blockers legally from before the ban and we did everything they told us to do and now we are being threatened with social services if we don't allow them to "safely withdraw" medication. They admit that the impact will be "stark" for our kids but they are going to do it anyway.

Sophie Molly @sophiemolly.co.uk · 1d

"Laura fears all will be lost if ICB Sussex forces her child off the medication.

If ICB Sussex get their own way in a matter of weeks and they force detransition, Olive may well take her life."

northwestbylines.co.uk/news/health/...

NHS threatens GP practice over trans care

A GP practice in Brighton and Hove is currently under investigation for legally providing gender affirming care to trans teens

northwestbylines.co.uk

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 19h

them privately or if we refuse to take him to the gender clinic for "safe withdrawal" of meds. The head of the investigation admits the outcome for these children is "stark" but is going to do it anyway. They know that children are going to die and they are doing it anyway.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 19h

My son is caught up in this. They are forcibly detransitioning children who started blockers before the ban. No GP in the UK is allowed to continue prescribing for any under 16 year olds. We are being threatened with social services if we get...

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 8d

Hopefully. I have always wanted to do this, but the difference is being forced. Doesn't feel so good.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 8d

I can't face settling down somewhere else and having to do this again so we are going travelling for a year. Luckily, my husband works around the world, so we are just following him for a while. I hope that wherever you are going is safer and you can have a happier life.

Nicky @nickycdr.bsky.social · 8d

This pisses me off and is the same in the UK. The rich at the top make huge amounts of money, shareholders get huge dividends, and the people doing all the work can't afford to feed their children on the pittance they earn and the tax payers have to prop up the wage bills of the rich.