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Munsi 🏳️‍⚧️
@munsi.bsky.social
Your nonbinary wine aunt! They/Femme, and I tweet about writing, transition, lefty politics, old indie bands, X-Men, and depression!

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Nonbinary, but in a "everyone over 50 in my life assumes I'm a dude doing something with gender that they don't understand, and everyone under 25 assumes I'm a transwoman who doesn't give a shit about passing" way.
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So anyway, at work today the first mate of the barracuda, a pirate ship crewed solely by women pretending to be men in order to do piracy, handed me a fake beard and press-ganged me into joining their crew!
December 5, 2025 at 3:44 AM
So anyway, at work today the first mate of the barracuda, a pirate ship crewed solely by women pretending to be men in order to do piracy, handed me a fake beard and press-ganged me into joining their crew!
December 5, 2025 at 3:44 AM
This is a self-care checkpoint.

Post your favorite selfie that makes you feel good about yourself.
December 4, 2025 at 10:34 PM
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The 50-something gent I spent my shift tonight talking to about how we get our nails done asked my pronouns when I came out for bows, asked several follow up questions, then hastily changed the subject when I asked theirs in return.

And that's beautiful. Good for you, bud! Go at your own pace!
December 4, 2025 at 9:46 AM
The 50-something gent I spent my shift tonight talking to about how we get our nails done asked my pronouns when I came out for bows, asked several follow up questions, then hastily changed the subject when I asked theirs in return.

And that's beautiful. Good for you, bud! Go at your own pace!
December 4, 2025 at 9:46 AM
Accountability post: My burlesque act goes up by the end of February!
December 3, 2025 at 5:54 AM
Why has The Onion written an article about me in my 20s?
December 2, 2025 at 11:44 PM
Bloodwork: Taken!!!!

That’s right, a trans person who is working class and involved in the arts has received basic medical care! Take that, the philosophical underpinnings of Western Civilization!!!
December 1, 2025 at 10:21 PM
This has happened again, tonight. I should maybe get the courage up to drop an email to our artistic director about it?
My whole section, once more, is made up of season ticket holders, who are very insistent that I play Bea Arthur in our Golden Girls show in March.

Which, again, is lovely, but again, I have zero control over that 😅
December 1, 2025 at 9:07 AM
Mean Girls, but instead of being hit by a bus, Regina George has her spine pulled out by a Predator.

The last 1/3 of the movie is survival horror.
November 30, 2025 at 10:28 PM
I should wear antlers more often…
November 29, 2025 at 11:43 PM
My whole section, once more, is made up of season ticket holders, who are very insistent that I play Bea Arthur in our Golden Girls show in March.

Which, again, is lovely, but again, I have zero control over that 😅
November 29, 2025 at 3:01 AM
And here we are! 3 years since I began hormone therapy, 4 since coming out, and 5 since my egg first cracked, back in the heady days of 2020, an extremely popular time for a gal to sit at home being confronted by terrifying questions that they/she had spent a lifetime desperately trying to avoid!!!
November 28, 2025 at 11:49 AM
So I'm up in my feels about this, so I'm going to share the story...
Transition year 1: …but I still do play boys on stage, I’m not sure audiences would need to know.

Transition year 3: *brings in a Blahaj to chase people around whilst the Jaws theme plays*
November 27, 2025 at 8:41 AM
Transition year 1: …but I still do play boys on stage, I’m not sure audiences would need to know.

Transition year 3: *brings in a Blahaj to chase people around whilst the Jaws theme plays*
November 27, 2025 at 2:23 AM
Ten years, hey?

Huh. Maybe I do look different…
November 26, 2025 at 9:58 PM
This bitch booked her laser, mammogram, AND bloodwork, because she gives a shit about herself and it’s time for her to act that way!!!!
November 26, 2025 at 9:47 PM
I'm watching Good Boy, the horror movie written from the dog's POV, while my actual dog rests on my legs, and he is FASCINATED by this whole situation. He's never paid closer attention to a movie.

And that, my friends, is why representation matters.
November 26, 2025 at 1:39 AM
...I did worry, as I was starting transition, as to how the audience would accept my new branding, ESPECIALLY on senior's matinee.

What I didn't realize was how soft and adorable I would become. If anything, they love me more than ever now! ☺️
November 26, 2025 at 1:38 AM
I’ll never be pretty, but I’m seeing a human face in mirrors now, and that has to be good enough.

I totally got this.
November 24, 2025 at 11:26 AM
One of my tables last night spent the whole evening calling me Kermit, because a year and a half ago I thought it would be funny to play Kermit the Adult Human Being, do the voice, and refuse to acknowledge the existence of the Muppet Show.

Weird character to have that kind of impact, but yay!
November 24, 2025 at 9:21 AM
Meta needs to start paying me $250k a year to be their marketing director immediately!
Threads! You'll be weirdly ashamed about using it, and won't want your friends to know!!!

Not the best branding.
November 24, 2025 at 7:59 AM
Well I didn't manage to flirt with the tall, thickly built muscle mommy with blue hair and just SO MANY tattoos in my section, tonight, but in spite of that I think it was a pretty good work day!
November 23, 2025 at 7:50 AM
…one way to ensure you get hotter as you age is to gain a bunch of weight and then transition.

Not a strategy I’d recommend for everyone, but it worked for me!!!
November 22, 2025 at 8:50 PM
Hah! One of the queer high schoolers in my section asked my pronouns at the end of the night with the force of someone who'd CLEARLY spent the whole night speculating behind my back.

As I left, he told his friends "I'm obsessed with her!"

Godspeed, 17 year old transman, you're doing great...
November 22, 2025 at 10:39 AM