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kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 22m

good news I already chipped the new screen protector, so order has been restored to the universe (ie, glass in my fingers)

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 12h

That’s nearly there! Especially as no one is ever more than 95% packed :)

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 1d

Bear with my generalisation, but Valhunds developed from a very old breed type & those dogs probably introduced the dwarfism gene into the corgi gene pool! Corgis just doubled down on the gene (literally). It’s not specific to cattle herders, although the attitude is all cow dog, for sure!

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 2d

I finally got around to replacing the screen protector on my phone and it is quite nice to scroll without being stabbed by tiny slivers of glass?

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 3d

the problem with anxiety is that occasionally it’s like living in a building where all the alarms are going off abruptly, sometimes for several days. And even recognising that there is no reason for the alarms, as the alarms are in fact faulty, does not stop the alarms.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 6d

The only dog I’ve had who made no effort to avoid peat was Bo, but he was a thrill seeker who thrived on physical challenges and would just brute strength his way through. He did need micromanaging, and still had to haul him out more often than I liked.

A red tri Australian shepherd dog covered in peat mud, sat on a grey rock with a scattered green moorland surrounding him. White fluffy clouds dot a blue sky overhead.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 6d

However, the best way for the dogs to learn is experience. I don’t micromanage; they inevitably fall in a tiny bog next to the path first time out, where they can discover how difficult it is & I can help them out, so they actively avoid in future. It’s also why I only take adult dogs up the moor!

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 6d

If they fall in, the dogs have to worm their way out, which takes a lot of effort. If they were alone in a large boggy section, they’d get so exhausted that they’d eventually drown, even though they’re not underwater. I ensure this does not happen!

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 6d

More people saw this than I expected & so I want to clarify: our local moorland is peat blanket bog, which is not open water but damp spongy expanses of vegetation with small pockets of exposed peat. When the girls fall in peat bog, it’s not muddy water, it’s liquified soil (more like quicksand).

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 6d

Horrible stinky creature and perfect angel baby (one of these dogs had previous experience with peat bogs and one did not. Lessons were learned.)

Two black tri herding dogs sit on a stone path that winds away behind them, with heather and reeds on either side. The dog on the right is wet but mostly clean. The dog on the left appears entirely black apart from the white stripe down her face, but this is a deception, as she is actually just covered in wet peat up to her chin.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 6d

Horrible stinky creature and perfect angel baby (one of these dogs had previous experience with peat bogs and one did not. Lessons were learned.)

Two black tri herding dogs sit on a stone path that winds away behind them, with heather and reeds on either side. The dog on the right is wet but mostly clean. The dog on the left appears entirely black apart from the white stripe down her face, but this is a deception, as she is actually just covered in wet peat up to her chin.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 7d

preemptive grief is terrible, but it does make that final day a gentler day, because you’ll know you and she made the most of every moment before it ❤️

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 9d

Please don’t give the BC further ideas 😭

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 9d

It could have been worse! I also hope I heal fast … my weekend social plans could get shelved if not 😬

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 10d

*if you count flyball as a poor life choice, then yes I have! This black eye was caused accidentally by a border collie headbutt (a dog I don’t own).

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 10d

Took the dogs for a walk, forgetting that I currently look like I’ve been making really poor life choices*. I can’t adequately describe this without a rare photo of my face.

White woman with dark hair and a blue/brown striped woolly hat sporting a VIVID black eye

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 10d

Service animals should only be provided by a recognised external organisation who can assess and advocate for the animal throughout its life.

Zach Weinersmith @zachweinersmith.bsky.social · 14d

Do you have any extremely niche, but serious, ethical stances?

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 11d

I got to cuddle a puppy today! One of those magical puppies who is just incredibly self-possessed from the start. She did not need any of us, but she was happy for the company & politely willing to entertain our nonsense. She was so calming for the soul.

A red and white border collie puppy looks at the camera. She appears quite serious, her little paw gripping the green fleece sleeve of the person holding her.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 13d

The problem with being efficient — OR with linear time??? — is that making croutons for soup later just means I have eaten the croutons now.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 17d

I did make an error in the original skeet - the insurance company paid the wrong vet practice. I had even less to actively do with this situation than I thought, and yet I’m still paying for it (in both literal and figurative ways). I’m so TIRED.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 17d

so remember when this happened on august 5th? My dog is dead now but I’m still dealing with everyone else’s fuckups, but it’s okay, Medivet have forwarded my complaint to be dealt with in 10-14days so that’s something to look forward to, right?

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · Aug 5

News just in: Ri’s insurance company also fucked up! And paid the vet instead of me! Guess who has more phone calls to make!

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 18d

That looks verrry good!

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 20d

I am still so happy to have seen this film, and in such a delightful way. Very much looking forward to seeing it again.

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 21d

Yikes, what a waste of resources and money

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 22d

What a great evening, love the BFI for allowing special screenings outside of London. 11/10 for Pictureville for their hosting too (& no spoilers!)

kayanem @kayanem.bsky.social · 24d

That sounds positive! What an awful situation for everyone, I hope you’re all okay