jamler.bsky.social
J
@jamler.bsky.social
Reader, lifter, poser, dog dad.
A place for photos and musings.
📍SoCal.
🔞 and semi-ephemeral.
My posts are my own
Profile photo by David Zimmerman.
The tux is timeless
December 6, 2025 at 7:11 PM
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The Mage & The Prince - 2023
January 27, 2025 at 9:32 AM
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Dear AIDS… #WorldAIDSDay
December 1, 2025 at 11:20 PM
Time for cozy reading. 📚 🤓
December 1, 2025 at 4:12 PM
Black Friday gaming day, idly enjoying the cuties showing off and the deals across the skyline. If you've got any recommendations on either I'll take em. 😁
November 28, 2025 at 7:54 PM
The Gift of Therapy by Dr. Irvin Yalom is a cornucopia of helpful insights for both sides of the therapeutic relationship (and for living a good life in relationships). I ended up buying a hard copy for reference, but Don Hagen's narration was a great introduction to it.
November 27, 2025 at 11:18 PM
LAN party playing Risk of Rain 2 in PJs. Romance 💕
November 27, 2025 at 7:12 AM
Saving for later...
November 27, 2025 at 5:53 AM
Feeling cozy with it all chilly out.
November 22, 2025 at 1:06 AM
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Jurgen Wittdorf (1932–2018) holds a special place in gay cultural history because he quietly created some of the most empathetic, coded & emotionally charged images of gay young men in East Germany, at a time and place where open queer expression was dangerous or outright prohibited.
#gay #art #men
November 17, 2025 at 2:10 AM
Timeline cleanse
Fancy Donut has the right idea. Her snoring is my Saturday morning vibe.
November 9, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Finished Sarah Beth Durst's The Enchanted Greenhouse! A lovely return to this world, I was smitten with the various wonders of the greenhouse and the story of those left behind creating a unique family that blossoms beautifully.
November 8, 2025 at 9:56 PM
It's hard to have grown up gay in the south in the 90s and know what that's like and have the scars, only to be told that gay spaces are passe and no longer needed.
November 8, 2025 at 1:11 AM
Duck life.
October 30, 2025 at 3:24 PM
My favorite reading buddy
October 29, 2025 at 6:09 AM
Care to share a ⚰️🧛‍♂️?
October 27, 2025 at 2:19 AM
Happy Sunday!
October 19, 2025 at 7:05 PM
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Sneak peek of performance look tonight! Gonna leave the audience spellbound! 🧛🪄
October 18, 2025 at 8:32 PM
Sneak peek of performance look tonight! Gonna leave the audience spellbound! 🧛🪄
October 18, 2025 at 8:32 PM
The Family Crucible was a nice time trip back to the adolescent era of Family Systems Theory's development. It was lovely to see some systemic thinking in psychotherapy and to hear the adventure of this family.

(The bygone era of the pipe-smoking therapist sounds so charming.)
October 5, 2025 at 11:34 PM
Fancy Donut has the right idea. Her snoring is my Saturday morning vibe.
October 4, 2025 at 3:39 PM
Guess who got accepted to grad school for psych?! This guy!
September 20, 2025 at 3:22 AM
Just finished The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. Sister and I are book clubbing it (her choice). Altogether, this is hard to take seriously - an under researched combination of ideas in the shape of the "manifest it and it'll happen". This is not a book for me. Not recommended.
September 16, 2025 at 8:10 PM
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July 29, 2025 at 3:15 AM
Almost show ready!
September 13, 2025 at 10:34 PM