Gaby Hinsliff
@gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
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Guardian columnist & writer, author of Half a Wife, sometimes on telly/Guardian Politics Weekly podcast. No, I didn't write the headline. Event host & speaker https://www.specialistspeakers.com/?p=2705
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gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
sure, but there are probably some parallels with stuff we do have experience with.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
sort of, but it's very clearly aimed at people who present a deadly threat to others. I think the closest thing is more like the feeling you're losing a family member to a cult.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
true, except when it's mixed up with mental health (as you suspect in a lot of cases it is) that's a lot to expect a partner to just deal with on their own.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
yup. Not at scale nor in individual cases. But it shouldn't be impossible to learn.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
it's weird that we are so mental health aware in some ways, learning what to do or say if a friend or colleague depressed/traumatised/struggling with being neurodivergent etc, but absolutely no clue where to start with this one which is becoming a thing in a lot of families/marriages/friendships
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
This but also: there's a gaping hole in *useful info if you're just a person whose partner/friend/dad etc has gone off the deep end and don't know how to talk them out of it* ie both a public health/deradicalisation strategy on a national level & a relationship level one.
jamesdaustin.bsky.social
Everyone knows at least one person (normally, but not exclusively, a guy) whose gone properly mental due to net rabbit holes.

We see public figures regularly go mad and destroy themselves.

And we have, at a policy level, just decided to put our fingers in our ears and go nahnahnah
alastairmeeks.bsky.social
Last night I heard of another friend of a friend who has been lost to a rabbit hole of online propaganda. We need to start treating this as a serious public health concern.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
i'm banking on his ability to believe whatever suits him at this point tbh
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
what would worry me most as a parent is the security of the database backing up that digital id, plus all the same concerns as adult id (what use a future govt puts it to).
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
yes, but as a parent who is all in favour of smartphone free childhoods) I'm not sure it's realistic to say 14 or 15yos should be phone free, especially as (like I said) it's not the phone itself that is addictive, it's what you're accessing on it. Id wouldn't be compulsory at that age either.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
For the love of God just tell Trump the Nobel Peace Prize is only ever awarded to people who have left office, ideally midterm and in a hurry, why are we wasting this golden opportunity
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
Sure, but Google & Apple have steadfastly resisted that, no? Like I said; I think digital id is problematic. But if you were wanting to sell it to parents of teenagers that’s how you would do it, given at 13 it’s not the phone itself that’s the problem but accessing adult social media via it
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
To be fair if you live in the country in winter, mud is the predominant feeling
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
The obvious use for digital id for 13-15s is to gatekeep access to social media though? (If you are potentially thinking 16 as age limit for social media). I have reservations about digital id generally, and would for teens, but that’s the use case
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
(this week it's me on where party conference season leaves us, plus Victoria Beckham's Netflix documentary and other matters of state)
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keithwdickinson.bsky.social
Today is a day when arts degrees are worthless, but the product of those degrees is so valuable it would kill an entire industry if they were made to pay for it.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
it's also a degree that a lot of journalists do (guilty as charged etc) which practically guarantees you a media backlash. Then again that is very much the Kemi way.
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
Anyway good luck to everyone who’s gone full circle from ‘everyone must read Dryden’ curriculums (Gove 2010) to ‘bin English degrees’ (Badenoch 2025), hope the years of rote learning poetry felt worth it
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
Fascinating marker of how far the Tory target voter has shifted from ‘middle class parents wanting their kids to go to uni’ to ‘old people who didn’t go and don’t see what anyone else should either’. (Obv there’s a solid case for apprenticeships, but not convinced that’s what this is about)
timeshighered.bsky.social
Tory leader Kemi Badenoch is expected to announce plans to cut the number of UK university places by about 100,000 annually by reintroducing student number controls, reports Patrick Jack #edusky
https://www.timeshighereducation.com/news/badenochs-number-caps-plan-would-cut-100000-university-places
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
It’s a terrific piece and I’m glad you wrote it
gabyhinsliff.bsky.social
‘Working class girls don’t read’? Jesus wept.