Stu
@farrendahl.bsky.social
Does the world need another 40's bald gay guy having a NSFW account...we'll soon find out
Recently described as "Soft Dom meets supportive Dad" which I'm not angry about
Recently described as "Soft Dom meets supportive Dad" which I'm not angry about
Eurgh, I've been hit by this bloody cold and flu bug doing the rounds, less than ideal when it's a busy time at work and on the run up to Christmas and weekend plans with family.
So today we work from home and try and rest up to get this thing shifted as quickly as possible.
So today we work from home and try and rest up to get this thing shifted as quickly as possible.
December 11, 2025 at 8:06 AM
Eurgh, I've been hit by this bloody cold and flu bug doing the rounds, less than ideal when it's a busy time at work and on the run up to Christmas and weekend plans with family.
So today we work from home and try and rest up to get this thing shifted as quickly as possible.
So today we work from home and try and rest up to get this thing shifted as quickly as possible.
Three little fun bits of ink added. My local studio was doing their annual Tatts4Toys charity drive today, so I couldn't not. 3 kids will now have a present to unwrap on Christmas day and I get stickers YAY!!
The mandala will be added to in the new year with some black work, and shading
The mandala will be added to in the new year with some black work, and shading
December 7, 2025 at 4:40 PM
Three little fun bits of ink added. My local studio was doing their annual Tatts4Toys charity drive today, so I couldn't not. 3 kids will now have a present to unwrap on Christmas day and I get stickers YAY!!
The mandala will be added to in the new year with some black work, and shading
The mandala will be added to in the new year with some black work, and shading
Iceland gave us one last leaving gift.
December 3, 2025 at 10:47 PM
Iceland gave us one last leaving gift.
Booo hiss, I don't want to come home, I mean I have to, but I don't need to be happy about it.
December 3, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Booo hiss, I don't want to come home, I mean I have to, but I don't need to be happy about it.
We have had such a brilliant time, I also don't think we've been photographed together so much since our wedding day lol
December 1, 2025 at 9:35 PM
We have had such a brilliant time, I also don't think we've been photographed together so much since our wedding day lol
We'll be doing the Blue Lagoon tomorrow evening, it's our end of holiday treat
December 1, 2025 at 8:06 PM
We'll be doing the Blue Lagoon tomorrow evening, it's our end of holiday treat
Greetings from Iceland....I don't want to come back to the UK Wednesday night, don't make me
December 1, 2025 at 8:05 AM
Greetings from Iceland....I don't want to come back to the UK Wednesday night, don't make me
Okay, like I say never any expectation to use it, but it is there if you want or need to x
November 24, 2025 at 9:37 AM
Okay, like I say never any expectation to use it, but it is there if you want or need to x
It's okay bear, don't beat yourself up over it, like I've always said, you need to do what's right for you, but I also know that it will be frustrating the hell out of you.
More ink though is also self care, which is a damned good thing, roll on January and a new arm piece for me x
More ink though is also self care, which is a damned good thing, roll on January and a new arm piece for me x
November 24, 2025 at 7:45 AM
It's okay bear, don't beat yourself up over it, like I've always said, you need to do what's right for you, but I also know that it will be frustrating the hell out of you.
More ink though is also self care, which is a damned good thing, roll on January and a new arm piece for me x
More ink though is also self care, which is a damned good thing, roll on January and a new arm piece for me x
You've got this bear, go forth and lift heavy shit :) x
November 24, 2025 at 7:00 AM
You've got this bear, go forth and lift heavy shit :) x
Three working days to get through. Early start today as the car is going in for its service (35000 in a year)
Pre holiday headshave has already occurred and with the weather changing we move to cosy flannels.
Monday, today you are my bitch.
Pre holiday headshave has already occurred and with the weather changing we move to cosy flannels.
Monday, today you are my bitch.
November 24, 2025 at 6:57 AM
Three working days to get through. Early start today as the car is going in for its service (35000 in a year)
Pre holiday headshave has already occurred and with the weather changing we move to cosy flannels.
Monday, today you are my bitch.
Pre holiday headshave has already occurred and with the weather changing we move to cosy flannels.
Monday, today you are my bitch.
YAY, missed him, happy to see he's back :)
November 22, 2025 at 11:23 AM
YAY, missed him, happy to see he's back :)
This time next week I will be in Iceland, I need the next 5 days to go by super fast and without any issues. Then it's smooth sailing a day in Manchester then early flight to Reykjavik on Friday. Will and I have not needed a break as much as we need this one for so long
November 22, 2025 at 10:19 AM
This time next week I will be in Iceland, I need the next 5 days to go by super fast and without any issues. Then it's smooth sailing a day in Manchester then early flight to Reykjavik on Friday. Will and I have not needed a break as much as we need this one for so long
Because it's black and white, it's art, and not just smut π
November 16, 2025 at 1:52 PM
Because it's black and white, it's art, and not just smut π
I clearly posted this too early for most to see, so please kindly objectify Daddy, he made a shit ton of effort for 3am lol
November 14, 2025 at 2:31 PM
I clearly posted this too early for most to see, so please kindly objectify Daddy, he made a shit ton of effort for 3am lol
Okay Glasgow, if I have to be up and on the road to you this early, I'm going to make an effort to look hot as hell while doing it, and you know what, I think I might have pulled it off today.
November 14, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Okay Glasgow, if I have to be up and on the road to you this early, I'm going to make an effort to look hot as hell while doing it, and you know what, I think I might have pulled it off today.
Without downloading any new pics, describe your gender
November 13, 2025 at 6:18 PM
Without downloading any new pics, describe your gender
Other half dropped of at his dungeons and dragons day, now how to amuse myself?
Housework I guess it is lol
Will the excitement ever end?
Housework I guess it is lol
Will the excitement ever end?
November 9, 2025 at 12:27 PM
Other half dropped of at his dungeons and dragons day, now how to amuse myself?
Housework I guess it is lol
Will the excitement ever end?
Housework I guess it is lol
Will the excitement ever end?
I'm going to the wrong gym clearly
November 8, 2025 at 7:09 PM
I'm going to the wrong gym clearly
Unanticipated Glasgow visit next week, and in something of a rarity for a work visit...I'm staying over on a Friday night!?!? So do I be sensible and then drive home early on the Saturday morning, or so I do something out of character for me and go out Friday night?
November 8, 2025 at 9:23 AM
Unanticipated Glasgow visit next week, and in something of a rarity for a work visit...I'm staying over on a Friday night!?!? So do I be sensible and then drive home early on the Saturday morning, or so I do something out of character for me and go out Friday night?
You have to do what feels right for you Bear, it's hard and so often it feels like you can't (kinda the whole reason I've been so quiet recently) but those who care, we're not going anywhere and are here if you need us even if it is just at the other end of a screen x
November 8, 2025 at 9:17 AM
You have to do what feels right for you Bear, it's hard and so often it feels like you can't (kinda the whole reason I've been so quiet recently) but those who care, we're not going anywhere and are here if you need us even if it is just at the other end of a screen x
Why am I up so early on a day off when I could still be in Bed? Because my body is a douche that's why.
Coffee, shower and then to the gym it is then
Coffee, shower and then to the gym it is then
November 8, 2025 at 7:16 AM
Why am I up so early on a day off when I could still be in Bed? Because my body is a douche that's why.
Coffee, shower and then to the gym it is then
Coffee, shower and then to the gym it is then
Well unless I decide to not drink on the 13th December that's my Birmingham visits for 2025 done. The 13th is the Christmas do but as work won't cover a hotel for the night and even the easyhotel wants Β£155 for the night I won't be attending. Next trip is provisionally Glasgow on the 20th
November 6, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Well unless I decide to not drink on the 13th December that's my Birmingham visits for 2025 done. The 13th is the Christmas do but as work won't cover a hotel for the night and even the easyhotel wants Β£155 for the night I won't be attending. Next trip is provisionally Glasgow on the 20th
