Mina Harkness
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Mina Harkness
@deshmiriai.bsky.social
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In my #feelings; the death and wasted opportunity, #relationships that kill, I had to let go and turn around. They won't change, I tried so hard. #toxic and #cruel for no benefit, it ended with my #disgust, because the truth was too hard? Whatever, they can rot.
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I just watched #Crush (2022) and it is such a beautiful #love story! It was also wonderful to see #RowanBlanchard get her high school years that I missed when #GirlMeetsWorld ended. I love her acting and #MeganMullally is a #queen! I appreciated the development and friendships, just wonderful.
Today i realized 3 things. A partner wants to grow with you, love brings peace not pain, and our exes were creepy fucking weirdos and we would have left sooner. Helping someone who kills you inside daily isn't worth it. #narcissisticex #abuserecovery #relationships #healing #doingbetter
Orpheum tonight served! Dead On A Sunday and Bridge City Sinners gave the flavor tonight! They were so good and had the crowd in their hands! #goth #music #DeadOnASunday #BridgeCitySinners #concerts #transjoy
But I have them the chance. Now the cord is thoroughly cut and they're dead to me. Firmly in my mind. I cannot tell you how much lighter I feel! Omg, this was so good for me! The gaslighting gang are thoroughly washed from me. #CutTies #relationships #drama #toxicEx #abuse #healing
So I took the day, arguing with myself, trying to decide if the dream counted. I couldn't sleep. I just kept thinking, "Do not disappoint Lilith." So I did it. I sent Ex#3 a message just as described.

The response was just as expected. I was not surprised at the lies, the avoidance. Pathetic
Gods I feel so much better! This past weekend was so wonderful that I was inspired to commune with Lilith.

So I made an agreement. If I had a dream that night with Ex#3 and it was positive, I would reach out. I even gave a framework for what I would say. I had the dream.
#Lilith #dreams #toxicEx
Still buzzing from Absolution Fest Night 2! Dildox burned the room down. Dead Cool had us all enthralled. Dancing Plague was pure chaos and passion. Creux Lies with dark elegance and a cover of “Cuts You Up.”, and Qual brought aggrotech chaos. 🖤
#AbsolutionFest #Goth #Darkwave #CommunionAfterDark
Just got back from Absolution Fest Night 1 at Crowbar in Tampa. Incredible night, but I fell completely in love with Alice — hypnotic, haunting, and utterly unforgettable. 👑 It is known. #AbsolutionFest #Goth #Darkwave #Crowbar #CommunionAfterDark

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Pride is a protest
rise of the oppressed
pick a side are you peaceful or possessed
imitation game operation minced meat
algorithm making sure eyes dont see
#BambiThug #REDRUM #Pride
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You could still be what you want to be
What you said you were when you met me
You could still be what you want to
What you said you were when I met you
#relationships #healing #becoming #yourself #again #emotions

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Still vibrating from The Orpheum last night—Lead Into Gold, Clock DVA, and then Front Line Assembly feeding my soul. 🔥 Black Widow cider, bass shaking the bar, flirting with strangers & vibing with friends, Communion. 🖤

#FrontLineAssembly #Industrial #Goth #EBM #ClockDVA #LeadIntoGold
An amazing start to the weekend! The local farmers market, boiled peanuts, fresh lemonade with passion fruit and mango popping boba, local raw honey that is the best I've ever tasted, and fresh baked sourdough bread with apple and one with pumpkin!
#bearssfarmersmarket #locallygrown #supportthearts
The highlight of my night, I just pierced two friends! One, it was their first piercing! #piercing #cool #moments only a little #blood
Dear Ex Whatever,
I see you for what you are.
A #narcissist, so #Polyanna is helping me heal from our #relationship and the #trauma I endured. This is part of my #healingjourney, as I scream into the #void that I won't take #toxic behavior ever again.
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If your peace depends on everything going right, it's bit peace, it's control. Learn to be steady in uncertainty.

That's real growth.
I don't rant here very often, so if you've stumbled upon my last post, I'm sorry but that was therapeutic.
As for them, my kink is karma. I had 2 moments of weakness before surgery, but this new me they haven't touched. My scars are fading to badges of honor. I shine. I'm a proud woman who has remembered who she is.

Walking with goddesses. A light, a healer, a #witch.
They can have what they deserve for what they did to my mind and my heart. Hecate sees me. Inanna knows me. Lilith walks with me. My surgeries are amazing and almost done. My new piercing brings me joy. Next, tattoo time!