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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 2d

In my #feelings; the death and wasted opportunity, #relationships that kill, I had to let go and turn around. They won't change, I tried so hard. #toxic and #cruel for no benefit, it ended with my #disgust, because the truth was too hard? Whatever, they can rot.
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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 3d

I just watched #Crush (2022) and it is such a beautiful #love story! It was also wonderful to see #RowanBlanchard get her high school years that I missed when #GirlMeetsWorld ended. I love her acting and #MeganMullally is a #queen! I appreciated the development and friendships, just wonderful.

Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 4d

Today i realized 3 things. A partner wants to grow with you, love brings peace not pain, and our exes were creepy fucking weirdos and we would have left sooner. Helping someone who kills you inside daily isn't worth it. #narcissisticex #abuserecovery #relationships #healing #doingbetter

Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11d

It's a "fuck that #ex who #drained your #light every chance they had" kind of wake up. So I'll wrap in that #energy and use it as #fuel to #beBetter, to #liveBetter, to #loveBetter!
#relationships #healing

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Just Like a Pill

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13d

Orpheum tonight served! Dead On A Sunday and Bridge City Sinners gave the flavor tonight! They were so good and had the crowd in their hands! #goth #music #DeadOnASunday #BridgeCitySinners #concerts #transjoy

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 17d

But I have them the chance. Now the cord is thoroughly cut and they're dead to me. Firmly in my mind. I cannot tell you how much lighter I feel! Omg, this was so good for me! The gaslighting gang are thoroughly washed from me. #CutTies #relationships #drama #toxicEx #abuse #healing

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 17d

So I took the day, arguing with myself, trying to decide if the dream counted. I couldn't sleep. I just kept thinking, "Do not disappoint Lilith." So I did it. I sent Ex#3 a message just as described.

The response was just as expected. I was not surprised at the lies, the avoidance. Pathetic

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 17d

Gods I feel so much better! This past weekend was so wonderful that I was inspired to commune with Lilith.

So I made an agreement. If I had a dream that night with Ex#3 and it was positive, I would reach out. I even gave a framework for what I would say. I had the dream.
#Lilith #dreams #toxicEx

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19d

Still buzzing from Absolution Fest Night 2! Dildox burned the room down. Dead Cool had us all enthralled. Dancing Plague was pure chaos and passion. Creux Lies with dark elegance and a cover of “Cuts You Up.”, and Qual brought aggrotech chaos. 🖤
#AbsolutionFest #Goth #Darkwave #CommunionAfterDark

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 20d

Just got back from Absolution Fest Night 1 at Crowbar in Tampa. Incredible night, but I fell completely in love with Alice — hypnotic, haunting, and utterly unforgettable. 👑 It is known. #AbsolutionFest #Goth #Darkwave #Crowbar #CommunionAfterDark

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Me and You

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 22d

Pride is a protest
rise of the oppressed
pick a side are you peaceful or possessed
imitation game operation minced meat
algorithm making sure eyes dont see
#BambiThug #REDRUM #Pride
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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 25d

a scripture I wrote. on a body that I own
#tattoos #ink #bodyautonomy #mybodyismine

Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 27d

You could still be what you want to be
What you said you were when you met me
You could still be what you want to
What you said you were when I met you
#relationships #healing #becoming #yourself #again #emotions

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Medicine

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 29d

Amplifying for our men. #goodboy #patriarchy #toxicmasculinity #weareinthistogether #leavenoonebehind #parispaloma #corruption

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Good Boy

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · Sep 22

Still vibrating from The Orpheum last night—Lead Into Gold, Clock DVA, and then Front Line Assembly feeding my soul. 🔥 Black Widow cider, bass shaking the bar, flirting with strangers & vibing with friends, Communion. 🖤

#FrontLineAssembly #Industrial #Goth #EBM #ClockDVA #LeadIntoGold

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InternetTheo @internettheo.bsky.social · Sep 20

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A ★★★½ review of Honey Don't! (2025)

Massively horned up and dark comedy lesbian focused detective story with a great lead performance from Margaret Qualley. Fun chemistry between her and Charlie Day as the police captain constantly aski...

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · Sep 20

An amazing start to the weekend! The local farmers market, boiled peanuts, fresh lemonade with passion fruit and mango popping boba, local raw honey that is the best I've ever tasted, and fresh baked sourdough bread with apple and one with pumpkin!
#bearssfarmersmarket #locallygrown #supportthearts

Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · Sep 19

The highlight of my night, I just pierced two friends! One, it was their first piercing! #piercing #cool #moments only a little #blood