amanda
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probably definitely have to pee rn
my favorite thing about being very online is when i see some niche drama slowly radiate out until weeks later when i see completely disconnected people reacting to it… waves in a pond…
December 9, 2025 at 7:58 PM
my favorite thing about being very online is when i see some niche drama slowly radiate out until weeks later when i see completely disconnected people reacting to it… waves in a pond…
i now hate the phrase "toxic masculinity."
December 8, 2025 at 7:24 PM
i now hate the phrase "toxic masculinity."
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There's a Crisis of Masculinity in this country and the only way to solve it is to let me act like a cross between a baby and a movie villain
February 15, 2025 at 8:25 PM
There's a Crisis of Masculinity in this country and the only way to solve it is to let me act like a cross between a baby and a movie villain
half walnut and raisin for the grownups and half choccy chips for everyone else this is awesome theyre so lumpy
December 7, 2025 at 2:40 AM
half walnut and raisin for the grownups and half choccy chips for everyone else this is awesome theyre so lumpy
im gonna drink beer and bake persimmon cookies tonight more to come later
December 6, 2025 at 5:58 PM
im gonna drink beer and bake persimmon cookies tonight more to come later
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One thing I always want to ask these masculinity entrepreneurs is why men can’t look to women as role models, and can’t see in women models of human virtue and thriving that are worth emulating. After all, women look to men for these all the time.
Sure, Galloway is better than Peterson
But he still believes the natural order of things requires men to be supreme. Men must protect, provide and procreate. It's dressed in progressive language, but it's fundamentally a patriarchal box to trap men in
www.theguardian.com/society/2025...
But he still believes the natural order of things requires men to be supreme. Men must protect, provide and procreate. It's dressed in progressive language, but it's fundamentally a patriarchal box to trap men in
www.theguardian.com/society/2025...
Scott Galloway on the masculinity crisis: ‘I worry we are evolving a new breed of asexual, asocial males’
When his book Notes on Being a Man was released last month, it raced to the top of the bestseller lists. The US author, tech entrepreneur and podcaster explains his theories on dating, crying – and th...
www.theguardian.com
December 3, 2025 at 5:28 PM
One thing I always want to ask these masculinity entrepreneurs is why men can’t look to women as role models, and can’t see in women models of human virtue and thriving that are worth emulating. After all, women look to men for these all the time.
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i think a major issue with the “trans sports debate” is that most people see sports as a divinely ordained path to legendary status instead of just reality tv
December 2, 2025 at 2:55 PM
i think a major issue with the “trans sports debate” is that most people see sports as a divinely ordained path to legendary status instead of just reality tv
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i’ll never understand why public transit haters discourage use of public transit and want to defund it. if less people use cars the roads will have less traffic and you’ll get to where you want faster with your own car. stupid people
Mamdani hires car-hating activist Ben Furnas to transportation team: ‘war on drivers’
Mamdani hires car-hating activist Ben Furnas to transportation team: ‘war on drivers’
Car-hating Transportation Alternatives boss Ben Furnas has been appointed to Mamdani's transition team for transportation, climate and infrastructure – and his agenda is a nightmare for the city's drivers.
nypost.com
November 30, 2025 at 8:34 PM
i’ll never understand why public transit haters discourage use of public transit and want to defund it. if less people use cars the roads will have less traffic and you’ll get to where you want faster with your own car. stupid people
had a dream last night that this happened to me
November 29, 2025 at 10:17 PM
had a dream last night that this happened to me
i love this bc this is clearly much more walkable than 99% of the USA… not a stroad in sight…
November 28, 2025 at 10:00 PM
i love this bc this is clearly much more walkable than 99% of the USA… not a stroad in sight…
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To heal our divided nation I propose splitting Game of the Year awards into two categories:
- Game of the Year That’s 3D and You Use a Sword and/or Gun to Explode a Guy
- Game of the Year That’s Some Gay Bullshit Indie Meditation on Grief or Whatever
- Game of the Year That’s 3D and You Use a Sword and/or Gun to Explode a Guy
- Game of the Year That’s Some Gay Bullshit Indie Meditation on Grief or Whatever
November 28, 2025 at 1:49 PM
To heal our divided nation I propose splitting Game of the Year awards into two categories:
- Game of the Year That’s 3D and You Use a Sword and/or Gun to Explode a Guy
- Game of the Year That’s Some Gay Bullshit Indie Meditation on Grief or Whatever
- Game of the Year That’s 3D and You Use a Sword and/or Gun to Explode a Guy
- Game of the Year That’s Some Gay Bullshit Indie Meditation on Grief or Whatever
second time that gf and i have gone on a double date with couple friends and i have had a ton in common with the man. masculine woman powers go
November 26, 2025 at 5:16 PM
second time that gf and i have gone on a double date with couple friends and i have had a ton in common with the man. masculine woman powers go
i looooove my internet weirdos i love watching them argue its my stories its my morning paper
November 25, 2025 at 10:15 PM
i looooove my internet weirdos i love watching them argue its my stories its my morning paper
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twitter this last week
November 25, 2025 at 4:37 PM
twitter this last week
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what we should ban from women’s sports is male coaches. it’s so jarring to watch a match, especially on mute, and they cut to some dude glowering on the sidelines
November 23, 2025 at 3:21 AM
what we should ban from women’s sports is male coaches. it’s so jarring to watch a match, especially on mute, and they cut to some dude glowering on the sidelines
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“Men are in trouble. Unchallenged private sphere domination over women and children is a solution.”
November 24, 2025 at 3:52 PM
“Men are in trouble. Unchallenged private sphere domination over women and children is a solution.”
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“we need to be nicer to men” bro they didn’t let women have their own credit cards til 50 years ago
November 23, 2025 at 10:39 PM
“we need to be nicer to men” bro they didn’t let women have their own credit cards til 50 years ago
i prefer nyc and ive never even been there
is LA just strip malls and expensive coffee shops with nowhere to sit down? serious question
November 24, 2025 at 2:47 AM
i prefer nyc and ive never even been there
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They should put the Gilmore Girls in Fortnite
November 21, 2025 at 6:26 PM
They should put the Gilmore Girls in Fortnite
every bar should serve BONE-IN wings
November 22, 2025 at 1:27 AM
every bar should serve BONE-IN wings
im so glad my life stage has changed from swiping on dating apps to obsessively checking zillow for houses with big kitchens and a yard
November 21, 2025 at 6:15 PM
im so glad my life stage has changed from swiping on dating apps to obsessively checking zillow for houses with big kitchens and a yard
ive found trans women are generally right about most things
November 21, 2025 at 12:12 AM
ive found trans women are generally right about most things
gendered clothing sumptuary laws something something
November 20, 2025 at 8:29 PM
gendered clothing sumptuary laws something something
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We keep acting like America’s car dominance was inevitable.
But no country accidentally bans mixed-use housing, outlaws duplexes, mandates parking, and then shrugs: “Guess people love driving!”
We engineered car dependence, with zoning maps.
But no country accidentally bans mixed-use housing, outlaws duplexes, mandates parking, and then shrugs: “Guess people love driving!”
We engineered car dependence, with zoning maps.
November 20, 2025 at 4:30 AM
We keep acting like America’s car dominance was inevitable.
But no country accidentally bans mixed-use housing, outlaws duplexes, mandates parking, and then shrugs: “Guess people love driving!”
We engineered car dependence, with zoning maps.
But no country accidentally bans mixed-use housing, outlaws duplexes, mandates parking, and then shrugs: “Guess people love driving!”
We engineered car dependence, with zoning maps.