泛依婷 Stefany Valentine
@booksbystefany.bsky.social
I write books⤵️
FIRST LOVE LANGUAGE (Out now!)
WHEN WE BECOME OURS (Out now!)
LOVE MAKES MOCHI (Feb, 2026)
FIRST LOVE LANGUAGE (Out now!)
WHEN WE BECOME OURS (Out now!)
LOVE MAKES MOCHI (Feb, 2026)
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Having vertigo in Taiwan means wondering if im experiencing an earthquake or if my inner ear is just being a little shit again 🤷♀️
September 14, 2025 at 11:38 AM
Having vertigo in Taiwan means wondering if im experiencing an earthquake or if my inner ear is just being a little shit again 🤷♀️
I wasn't much of a tea person before I moved to Taiwan. Now I'm obsessed!! Green tea and oolong are my favorite and that caffeine rush?!?!? Yowza!!
September 3, 2025 at 5:02 AM
I wasn't much of a tea person before I moved to Taiwan. Now I'm obsessed!! Green tea and oolong are my favorite and that caffeine rush?!?!? Yowza!!
Its my 3rd week in Taiwan. I just woke up from a dream where my long-distance husband got a boyfriend and honestly, I wasn't mad. I was like "im happy you're exploring this side of yourself" lol
August 30, 2025 at 12:01 AM
Its my 3rd week in Taiwan. I just woke up from a dream where my long-distance husband got a boyfriend and honestly, I wasn't mad. I was like "im happy you're exploring this side of yourself" lol
As an adoptee in reunion, I find myself navigating another dynamic--being the caretaker of an aging mother. I feel like the timing of this reunion has forced me to jump into the deep end without wading in. Now I'm caring for the mother who never got a chance to care for me.
August 25, 2025 at 12:36 PM
As an adoptee in reunion, I find myself navigating another dynamic--being the caretaker of an aging mother. I feel like the timing of this reunion has forced me to jump into the deep end without wading in. Now I'm caring for the mother who never got a chance to care for me.
Im dyslexic. Now that I'm in Taiwan learning Mandarin, my brain does that dyslexia buffer thing more often. Like I know I'm looking at words, but I can't read them. So I have to start my brain engine like 3 times before I can start comprehending what I'm seeing.
August 24, 2025 at 10:46 AM
Im dyslexic. Now that I'm in Taiwan learning Mandarin, my brain does that dyslexia buffer thing more often. Like I know I'm looking at words, but I can't read them. So I have to start my brain engine like 3 times before I can start comprehending what I'm seeing.
The cutest thing just happened. I taught my bio mom that in America, we say "thick" to mean that someone is fat in a complementary way. A couple days later, she still remembers this and says "my legs are thin but yours are...thick". Its just so freaking amazing to have a biological mom💖💖🥰
August 23, 2025 at 6:41 AM
The cutest thing just happened. I taught my bio mom that in America, we say "thick" to mean that someone is fat in a complementary way. A couple days later, she still remembers this and says "my legs are thin but yours are...thick". Its just so freaking amazing to have a biological mom💖💖🥰
Hot take but what if AI actually brings back critical thinking? We see a fake video online, feel ashamed that we fell for it, then learn to adapt. Learn to question the content we consume. Learn to navigate nuance. Wouldn't that be an unexpected twist?!
August 17, 2025 at 10:36 PM
Hot take but what if AI actually brings back critical thinking? We see a fake video online, feel ashamed that we fell for it, then learn to adapt. Learn to question the content we consume. Learn to navigate nuance. Wouldn't that be an unexpected twist?!
It's daytime in the US and nighttime in Taiwan. Getting used to the time zone thing is gunna suuuuuck lol
August 13, 2025 at 3:26 PM
It's daytime in the US and nighttime in Taiwan. Getting used to the time zone thing is gunna suuuuuck lol
I feel so defeated as an adoptee every time I see another viral "we adopted an (insert non white race here) baby" video. Yet when ADOPTEES (not adoptERS) speak up about our real experiences, we get told to shut up, we get called ungrateful, and our stories sure as shit don't go viral.
August 5, 2025 at 3:06 PM
I feel so defeated as an adoptee every time I see another viral "we adopted an (insert non white race here) baby" video. Yet when ADOPTEES (not adoptERS) speak up about our real experiences, we get told to shut up, we get called ungrateful, and our stories sure as shit don't go viral.
Moving to Taiwan as an adoptee in reunion comes with so many mixed emotions. Like yes, im excited, but i haven't been this exhausted, numb, sad, and unmotivated in a long time.
August 1, 2025 at 8:05 PM
Moving to Taiwan as an adoptee in reunion comes with so many mixed emotions. Like yes, im excited, but i haven't been this exhausted, numb, sad, and unmotivated in a long time.
Im a bit of a compression sock ho.
Long car rides?
Compression socks✅️
Flights?
Compression socks✅️
Walking my pup?
Compression socks✅️
Do I have a medical condition that requires me to wear compression socks? Nope. But imma do it anyway lol
Long car rides?
Compression socks✅️
Flights?
Compression socks✅️
Walking my pup?
Compression socks✅️
Do I have a medical condition that requires me to wear compression socks? Nope. But imma do it anyway lol
July 31, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Im a bit of a compression sock ho.
Long car rides?
Compression socks✅️
Flights?
Compression socks✅️
Walking my pup?
Compression socks✅️
Do I have a medical condition that requires me to wear compression socks? Nope. But imma do it anyway lol
Long car rides?
Compression socks✅️
Flights?
Compression socks✅️
Walking my pup?
Compression socks✅️
Do I have a medical condition that requires me to wear compression socks? Nope. But imma do it anyway lol
Despite genetically not being a likely candidate for a learning disability, I have dyslexia (and dysgraphia). But it wasn't until I realized that adoptees are 3x more likely to develop a learning disability that I really started to unpackage how deeply adoption trauma has impacted me
July 25, 2025 at 3:43 PM
Despite genetically not being a likely candidate for a learning disability, I have dyslexia (and dysgraphia). But it wasn't until I realized that adoptees are 3x more likely to develop a learning disability that I really started to unpackage how deeply adoption trauma has impacted me
Exciting translation news for FIRST LOVE LANGUAGE?!?!?!
July 24, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Exciting translation news for FIRST LOVE LANGUAGE?!?!?!
So im working on book 3 and my spouse just made me realize that the moral of the story im trying to tell is that we need to love our neighbors. Guys. I'm writing the Bible.
July 22, 2025 at 8:44 PM
So im working on book 3 and my spouse just made me realize that the moral of the story im trying to tell is that we need to love our neighbors. Guys. I'm writing the Bible.
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I'm so excited that I made this YouTube video, but for some reason the video quality sucks?! Oh well, it's still packed with lots of info on how to survive a book tour and working on the video quality gives me something to focus on for my next video!
I'm so excited that I made this YouTube video, but for some reason the video quality sucks?! Oh well, it's still packed with lots of info on how to survive a book tour and working on the video quality gives me something to focus on for my next video!
How to SURVIVE your first BOOK TOUR!
YouTube video by Stefany Valentine
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July 17, 2025 at 9:59 PM
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I'm so excited that I made this YouTube video, but for some reason the video quality sucks?! Oh well, it's still packed with lots of info on how to survive a book tour and working on the video quality gives me something to focus on for my next video!
I'm so excited that I made this YouTube video, but for some reason the video quality sucks?! Oh well, it's still packed with lots of info on how to survive a book tour and working on the video quality gives me something to focus on for my next video!
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Im moving to Taiwan next month and I'm documenting everything from my author life to my reunification with my mom! This is the first of many blogs I hope to make! Lmk what you think!
Im moving to Taiwan next month and I'm documenting everything from my author life to my reunification with my mom! This is the first of many blogs I hope to make! Lmk what you think!
1 ROAD TRIP • 3 STOPS • NOT ENOUGH TIME
YouTube video by Stefany Valentine
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July 10, 2025 at 7:03 PM
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Im moving to Taiwan next month and I'm documenting everything from my author life to my reunification with my mom! This is the first of many blogs I hope to make! Lmk what you think!
Im moving to Taiwan next month and I'm documenting everything from my author life to my reunification with my mom! This is the first of many blogs I hope to make! Lmk what you think!
COVER REVEAL!! Add to GoodReads share.google/cEDZUKmik6VC...
June 27, 2025 at 2:39 PM
COVER REVEAL!! Add to GoodReads share.google/cEDZUKmik6VC...
I love Texas land but I hate Texas crimes. Like fuck the ICE raids, racism, and limited access to education. But the June rainstorms and the wildlife is something I wish everyone could experience💖
June 24, 2025 at 2:15 PM
I love Texas land but I hate Texas crimes. Like fuck the ICE raids, racism, and limited access to education. But the June rainstorms and the wildlife is something I wish everyone could experience💖
I'm in Publisher's Weekly! www.publishersweekly.com/pw/by-topic/...
June 23, 2025 at 2:36 PM
I'm in Publisher's Weekly! www.publishersweekly.com/pw/by-topic/...
Proud dog mama lol
June 15, 2025 at 4:50 PM
Proud dog mama lol
Bahahha I just want people to read this book and scream at this character for being so in love and so deeply in the closet bahahahha
June 11, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Bahahha I just want people to read this book and scream at this character for being so in love and so deeply in the closet bahahahha
Writing closeted queer girlies is my new favorite thing bc it's one way to bypass all the religious trauma and just memory walk all the queer moments that were real to me💖💖
June 9, 2025 at 8:34 PM
Writing closeted queer girlies is my new favorite thing bc it's one way to bypass all the religious trauma and just memory walk all the queer moments that were real to me💖💖
Eekk!! FIRST LOVE LANGUAGEA is in great company! I've been meaning to pick up some of these books too! Happy summer reading yall!
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June 9, 2025 at 2:37 PM
Eekk!! FIRST LOVE LANGUAGEA is in great company! I've been meaning to pick up some of these books too! Happy summer reading yall!
#BIPOCQTchat Actually, I'd love to support YOU! If you're an adoptee and want to break into traditional publishing, im hosting free monthly webinars for adoptees who wanna build community and raise our voices! Fill out this form: docs.google.com/forms/d/1u0E...
June 2, 2025 at 1:10 AM
#BIPOCQTchat Actually, I'd love to support YOU! If you're an adoptee and want to break into traditional publishing, im hosting free monthly webinars for adoptees who wanna build community and raise our voices! Fill out this form: docs.google.com/forms/d/1u0E...
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SO FREAKING EXCITED to share the #LesbianaRereadChallenge details!
I'll be posting my answers here and would love to see yours too! Feel free to join in whatever capacity you can. You can log your progress daily on pagebound if you want the full book club experience here: bit.ly/3FsFMwM (part 1)
I'll be posting my answers here and would love to see yours too! Feel free to join in whatever capacity you can. You can log your progress daily on pagebound if you want the full book club experience here: bit.ly/3FsFMwM (part 1)
May 29, 2025 at 5:26 PM
SO FREAKING EXCITED to share the #LesbianaRereadChallenge details!
I'll be posting my answers here and would love to see yours too! Feel free to join in whatever capacity you can. You can log your progress daily on pagebound if you want the full book club experience here: bit.ly/3FsFMwM (part 1)
I'll be posting my answers here and would love to see yours too! Feel free to join in whatever capacity you can. You can log your progress daily on pagebound if you want the full book club experience here: bit.ly/3FsFMwM (part 1)