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Bex

@bexcommunicated.bsky.social

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Spoonie. Cat lady. Living in Detroit but left my heart in Buffalo. Lawyer. Legal editor. (she/her) I lost my place but I can’t stop this story 🎶

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · Nov 6

My tweet from the night of the 2016 election. It stayed pinned to my profile until Biden won. I guess I should have spent more time harness-training the girls.

Nov 8, 2016
Do you think the cats have to be harness-trained before I pack up & find a cave to live in? Or can we figure it out when we get there?

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2h

In a mood.

Don’t worry. It’s not about either of the weirdos I skeeted about earlier. It’s about the guy those guys were supposed to make me forget 🙃

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 9d

In a mood today

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 4h

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 4h

Yeah I probably should have done that sooner tbh

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 5h

😂 this was pretty much my reaction

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 6h

So our 7pm date is now 7:30. Then after 7pm he texts he’s leaving in 30. Which means now after 8pm
Me: dude
Him: what
Me: our date was at 7 & now you’re not coming until after 8?
Him: well you didn’t answer your phone
Me: I was getting ready so I’d be ready at 7!
Him: ok. Never mind. Take care
Me: 🙃

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 6h

Wednesday morning I ask what the plan is. He says 7pm & we pick a bar. 6pm I’m getting out of the shower, doing my hair & makeup & my phone is on the charger. At 6:30 I see he had texted at 6. I replied & he said “I’m leaving in 20. It takes me 30 min to get there” so I say okay.

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 6h

I wasn’t going to share the dating horror stories on here but since I already started, I might as well share the other one.

Tuesday I set a date for Wednesday to have drinks, but no details. The guy had been wishy washy all along so I was just waiting for him to take the lead

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 6h

I’m remembering now why I don’t do this often 😂 who has the energy for this kind of nonsense

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 7h

EVERYWHERE

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 7h

So yesterday he texts to ask about our date tonight but I was busy & didn’t get back to him. Then this morning I was going to text him but I noticed he unmatched me on Tinder so I figured I wouldn’t worry about it. Just now he texts & tells me I’m ghosting & how disappointed he is 🙃 IT WAS ONE DATE

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 7h

In the meantime I signed up for Hinge and Bumble. Except it showed him my profile & marked me as new so he knew I set them up *after* our date 🤦‍♀️ so he confronted me about it & I just told him that honestly I’m going to continue dating around 🤷‍♀️ he seemed weird about it which rubbed me the wrong way

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 7h

Omg. So story time. I went on a date Saturday. We went to the drive-in to see the new Conjuring and Weapons. Anyway. It wasn’t a great date, in my opinion. We just didn’t vibe well. But it turned out he thought the exact opposite 😕 so I agreed to a second date just to see if it was 1st date jitters

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 15h

I went to Target Tuesday & I went to find some Halloween decorations in that little part in the front of the store where they have cheap seasonal stuff. It was all Christmas already 😑

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 1d

This is my favorite found footage movie because that clown gives me so much anxiety

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 1d

They’re surprisingly nice too!!!

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 1d

WALE AND JEREMIH IN THE SAME SHOW AND I CAN’T EVEN BE THERE?!?! 😭😭😭😭

An email showing a concert poster for a concept with Wale and Jeremih November 14th in DC

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 1d

Stopped by the store to pick up some alcohol & it came with Lions glasses! Score!

A box with a fifth of Jack Daniel’s whisky with two Detroit Lions glasses in the box

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

YAAAAYYYYY!!! CONGRATS!!

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

Y’ALL!! I don’t have to have surgery anymore!! My eyes have improved and they no longer consider my Thyroid Eye Disease to be active 🙌🙌🙌 and because it stabilized in such a way that I’m closer to “normal” there’s no need to correct the eyelids anymore

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

😂😂😂 thank you!

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

At the eye surgeon’s office this morning. Meeting with the actual surgeon for the first time since I started coming here. Hoping he says surgery isn’t necessary. Please send me all your good vibes 🤞🤞

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

Oh and I paid for a week of the pro plan or whatever just for my first week on the app so I could see who was liking me. That’s how I know conservative men are liking me

Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 2d

My goal is not to meet the love of my life but to get out and meet some people 🤷‍♀️