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Inherently political
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This week's #MonochromeMonday photo is brought to you by the shitshow that is the current state of the world, and a quote from the first gay romance I read that had a happy ending for the couple.
Because #queer joy is rebellion and there is no separation between the personal and political.
#gay
#mcm
Because #queer joy is rebellion and there is no separation between the personal and political.
#gay
#mcm
December 15, 2025 at 8:30 AM
This week's #MonochromeMonday photo is brought to you by the shitshow that is the current state of the world, and a quote from the first gay romance I read that had a happy ending for the couple.
Because #queer joy is rebellion and there is no separation between the personal and political.
#gay
#mcm
Because #queer joy is rebellion and there is no separation between the personal and political.
#gay
#mcm
December 9, 2025 at 6:23 AM
December 8, 2025 at 10:40 PM
Overheard at the house, re a set of interesting noises coming from upstairs:
Husband - Is he chanting or is he bottoming?
*Intense listening*
Both of us - Bottoming.
Upstairs neighbor - * emits the groan of the well fucked*
/End scene
#gay
Husband - Is he chanting or is he bottoming?
*Intense listening*
Both of us - Bottoming.
Upstairs neighbor - * emits the groan of the well fucked*
/End scene
#gay
December 7, 2025 at 9:31 PM
Overheard at the house, re a set of interesting noises coming from upstairs:
Husband - Is he chanting or is he bottoming?
*Intense listening*
Both of us - Bottoming.
Upstairs neighbor - * emits the groan of the well fucked*
/End scene
#gay
Husband - Is he chanting or is he bottoming?
*Intense listening*
Both of us - Bottoming.
Upstairs neighbor - * emits the groan of the well fucked*
/End scene
#gay
Talking to my husband about Shane and Ilya and Shane being a power bottom:
Me- Ilya is like "challenge accepted " until he is horrified to realize that he's catching feelings.
Husband - Yeah, well, those are the risks you run, when first you stick it in the bun.
😆☠️🤣😂😂😂
#HeatedRivalry
#Gay
Me- Ilya is like "challenge accepted " until he is horrified to realize that he's catching feelings.
Husband - Yeah, well, those are the risks you run, when first you stick it in the bun.
😆☠️🤣😂😂😂
#HeatedRivalry
#Gay
December 7, 2025 at 2:36 AM
Talking to my husband about Shane and Ilya and Shane being a power bottom:
Me- Ilya is like "challenge accepted " until he is horrified to realize that he's catching feelings.
Husband - Yeah, well, those are the risks you run, when first you stick it in the bun.
😆☠️🤣😂😂😂
#HeatedRivalry
#Gay
Me- Ilya is like "challenge accepted " until he is horrified to realize that he's catching feelings.
Husband - Yeah, well, those are the risks you run, when first you stick it in the bun.
😆☠️🤣😂😂😂
#HeatedRivalry
#Gay
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I remember your dogs, LiveJournal friends. The dogs that brought us together are all gone now, but I remember them, yours and mine.
December 5, 2025 at 5:30 PM
I remember your dogs, LiveJournal friends. The dogs that brought us together are all gone now, but I remember them, yours and mine.
No lies detected
December 5, 2025 at 3:50 AM
No lies detected
I'm raw today.
As a 🏳️🌈 man who spent his entire adult life with the GOP 🎯 on my back, as a 40 y.o. former throwaway kid who got lucky & landed in the arms of a 🏳️🌈 community that raised me to adulthood, I live with survivor'a guilt and I mourn the friends and lovers sacrificed to the #GOP.
#WoldAIDSday
As a 🏳️🌈 man who spent his entire adult life with the GOP 🎯 on my back, as a 40 y.o. former throwaway kid who got lucky & landed in the arms of a 🏳️🌈 community that raised me to adulthood, I live with survivor'a guilt and I mourn the friends and lovers sacrificed to the #GOP.
#WoldAIDSday
December 2, 2025 at 1:52 AM
I'm raw today.
As a 🏳️🌈 man who spent his entire adult life with the GOP 🎯 on my back, as a 40 y.o. former throwaway kid who got lucky & landed in the arms of a 🏳️🌈 community that raised me to adulthood, I live with survivor'a guilt and I mourn the friends and lovers sacrificed to the #GOP.
#WoldAIDSday
As a 🏳️🌈 man who spent his entire adult life with the GOP 🎯 on my back, as a 40 y.o. former throwaway kid who got lucky & landed in the arms of a 🏳️🌈 community that raised me to adulthood, I live with survivor'a guilt and I mourn the friends and lovers sacrificed to the #GOP.
#WoldAIDSday
From WHAT'S LEFT IS TENDER: a poem in honor of my former partner who passed from AIDS-related opportunistic infectons and in gratitude of the AIDS poets who shaped so much of my formation as a gay man and poet. Monette taught me about the power of queer anger, and it has suffused my work.
December 2, 2025 at 1:34 AM
In a time when the GOP once again seeks to ensure HIV spreads and kills as many people they deem undesirable as possible, people like us, it is more important than ever to speak truth to power.
Mourn the dead and fight like hell for the living.
Silence=Death
#WorldAIDSday
#gay
#queer
#HIV
#AIDS
Mourn the dead and fight like hell for the living.
Silence=Death
#WorldAIDSday
#gay
#queer
#HIV
#AIDS
Commemorating #WorldAIDSday is an act of defiance against ideology driven policies that will end our progress to end the epidemic.
December 1, 2025 at 10:42 PM
In a time when the GOP once again seeks to ensure HIV spreads and kills as many people they deem undesirable as possible, people like us, it is more important than ever to speak truth to power.
Mourn the dead and fight like hell for the living.
Silence=Death
#WorldAIDSday
#gay
#queer
#HIV
#AIDS
Mourn the dead and fight like hell for the living.
Silence=Death
#WorldAIDSday
#gay
#queer
#HIV
#AIDS
Happy #MonochromeMonday from a #bear who is just happy to be home from the holiday weekend.
#mcm
#gay
#queer
#mcm
#gay
#queer
December 1, 2025 at 6:47 AM
Happy #MonochromeMonday from a #bear who is just happy to be home from the holiday weekend.
#mcm
#gay
#queer
#mcm
#gay
#queer
On the record:
Judge - Mr Litigant, have you received the email from counsel?
Pro-se - Yes
Judge - good, now open it.
Its Thanksgiving eve at the Courthouse....
#ThatFamilyLawLife
#Litigation
#StraightPeople
Judge - Mr Litigant, have you received the email from counsel?
Pro-se - Yes
Judge - good, now open it.
Its Thanksgiving eve at the Courthouse....
#ThatFamilyLawLife
#Litigation
#StraightPeople
November 26, 2025 at 10:59 PM
On the record:
Judge - Mr Litigant, have you received the email from counsel?
Pro-se - Yes
Judge - good, now open it.
Its Thanksgiving eve at the Courthouse....
#ThatFamilyLawLife
#Litigation
#StraightPeople
Judge - Mr Litigant, have you received the email from counsel?
Pro-se - Yes
Judge - good, now open it.
Its Thanksgiving eve at the Courthouse....
#ThatFamilyLawLife
#Litigation
#StraightPeople
November 24, 2025 at 7:22 PM
November 21, 2025 at 8:12 AM
Overheard at the house:
Him: you know, we had a whole another box of dishwasher detergent under the sink.
Me: Where was it?
Him: Behind the almost empty one.
Me: I didn't see it last night.
Him: did you move the old box all the way out?
Me: no...
Him: OMG you're so cis! 🤦
#GayMarriage
#queee
Him: you know, we had a whole another box of dishwasher detergent under the sink.
Me: Where was it?
Him: Behind the almost empty one.
Me: I didn't see it last night.
Him: did you move the old box all the way out?
Me: no...
Him: OMG you're so cis! 🤦
#GayMarriage
#queee
November 18, 2025 at 8:14 PM
Overheard at the house:
Him: you know, we had a whole another box of dishwasher detergent under the sink.
Me: Where was it?
Him: Behind the almost empty one.
Me: I didn't see it last night.
Him: did you move the old box all the way out?
Me: no...
Him: OMG you're so cis! 🤦
#GayMarriage
#queee
Him: you know, we had a whole another box of dishwasher detergent under the sink.
Me: Where was it?
Him: Behind the almost empty one.
Me: I didn't see it last night.
Him: did you move the old box all the way out?
Me: no...
Him: OMG you're so cis! 🤦
#GayMarriage
#queee
This week's #MonochromeMonday is brought to you by my husband and me fooling around in the bath.
#mcm
#gay
#gaymarriage
#queer
#mcm
#gay
#gaymarriage
#queer
November 18, 2025 at 12:35 AM
This week's #MonochromeMonday is brought to you by my husband and me fooling around in the bath.
#mcm
#gay
#gaymarriage
#queer
#mcm
#gay
#gaymarriage
#queer
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Connections
Puzzle #889
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November 16, 2025 at 8:09 AM
Connections
Puzzle #889
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Be still my nerdy heart.
And dang it, @yournewdadxxx.bsky.social I've been listening to this thing on a loop for the past hour.
And dang it, @yournewdadxxx.bsky.social I've been listening to this thing on a loop for the past hour.
The simple answer is they’re dancers. www.instagram.com/reel/DQHPZV_...
David Rudewick on Instagram: "Hump day dance party"
Get ready to groove with the Disco Snails, tiny creatures that embody the spirit of disco. From their funky dance moves to their love of funk and disco music, these tiny party animals will have you da...
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November 16, 2025 at 4:22 AM
Be still my nerdy heart.
And dang it, @yournewdadxxx.bsky.social I've been listening to this thing on a loop for the past hour.
And dang it, @yournewdadxxx.bsky.social I've been listening to this thing on a loop for the past hour.
November 14, 2025 at 12:36 AM
NYT has lost whatever shreds of credibility it had left.
turns out the emails we should have been reading in 2016 were from the NYT
November 12, 2025 at 11:52 PM
NYT has lost whatever shreds of credibility it had left.
Happy #MonochromeMonday from our anniversary beach trip.
All the more reason to celebrate since the Supreme Court will not be forcibly divorcing us just yet.
#mcm
#queer
#gay
All the more reason to celebrate since the Supreme Court will not be forcibly divorcing us just yet.
#mcm
#queer
#gay
November 10, 2025 at 11:42 PM
Happy #MonochromeMonday from our anniversary beach trip.
All the more reason to celebrate since the Supreme Court will not be forcibly divorcing us just yet.
#mcm
#queer
#gay
All the more reason to celebrate since the Supreme Court will not be forcibly divorcing us just yet.
#mcm
#queer
#gay
Y'all,
The book was wonderful.
The documentary is necessary.
If you got the moolah, throw some $$$ at this project.
There's enough stories about us told by vanilla folk.
Time for our stories to be told by us.
#kink
#queer
The book was wonderful.
The documentary is necessary.
If you got the moolah, throw some $$$ at this project.
There's enough stories about us told by vanilla folk.
Time for our stories to be told by us.
#kink
#queer
All welcome, but if anyone knows a deep pockets kinksters or kinkster ally person who might want to be a major funder, contact me.
Here is the direct link to help with the film series.
www.documentaries.org/films/divine...
Here is the direct link to help with the film series.
www.documentaries.org/films/divine...
November 8, 2025 at 10:34 PM
November 8, 2025 at 4:34 AM