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Acacia Thay DëQueer - Fae/They/Xe/He/She
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🎬Artist, writer, researcher, filmmaker, intimacy professional, choreographer, & educator 🧚🏻‍♂️Genderfluid disabled polyamorous 🎓Educated @ Vassar College & Principal Intimacy Professionals 🤷🏻Chronically too much & not enough 📍WEBSITE https://acacia.gay
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Apparently I’m worried about something going wrong when I hang out with friends.

#TherapyThoughts
I’m to the age where being called “young” is a complement. But still young enough that I call people older than me “adults.”
I’m not a poodle. I’m the ocean. You can’t train or tame me. You can only direct and redirect. And when my emotions spill out over whatever box you’ve put me in, you’d better be prepared.
I love teaching AP World History. Kids are usually learning seriously about the world and writing for the first time. I love showing them how to study history, gather evidence, and support their argument. 🥰🥰🥰

Book a lesson with me now:
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#APWorldHistory
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I help actors feel safe and supported in intimate scenes.
It’s called intimacy coordination—and it’s some of the most meaningful work I do.

I wrote about it here, through the lens of a compelling indie film I loved working on:
www.principalintimacy.com/blog/perfect...

#IntimacyCoordinator
Principal Intimacy Professionals
Writer/Performer Amanda Jane Stern and Intimacy Coordinator Acacia DëQueer reflect on their collaboration on “Perfectly Good Moment”.
www.principalintimacy.com
Decisions decisions. Which brand do you like better? Behr from Home Depot, Valspar from Lowe’s, or Dutch Boy from Menards?

#PickingPaint #HomeImprovement #Painting #Lowe’s #HomeDepot #Menards
Tudor explains my frustration, saying genre “can only be isolated on the basis of ‘principal characteristics’, which can only be discovered from the films themselves after they have been isolated” (Tudor).

#GenreStudies #FilmStudies #TVHistory
a man in a suit and tie is making a funny face with his eyes closed and his hands folded .
ALT: a man in a suit and tie is making a funny face with his eyes closed and his hands folded .
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At 16, a boy told me he wouldn’t have sex with me even if it was the apocalypse - like I was a bad apple with a bitter taste. Now, at the age of 28, I know how to give people a taste they can’t get enough of. Some things take time. Personally, I plan on hitting my peak at the ripe old age of 60.
It might surprise people, but I don’t miss living in an apartment at all. The only thing I miss is have a kitchen - which should be remedied when the van build is finished! I can’t wait to cook and bake in my van. 🥰

#VanLife #VanBuild #TinyHome #Nomad #Cooking
Today I told my therapist I love her at the end of my session. She said it gave her “warm fuzzy feelings.” So obviously I am capable of developing healthy attachments with the people in my life.

#Therapy #AttachmentStyle #HealthyAttachment #TherapyJoke
Today I found my first shirt/binder combo that makes my chest look flat without obviously outing me. I’m so happy. I was beginning to worry that somehow my body was broken and I would never achieve any sort of masculine look in a cis way. YAY!!!!😊

#Transgender #Nonbinary #Genderfluid #Binder #AFAB
Instead of saying I want to “settle” someplace long term, I’m going to start saying “become part of the local ecosystem.” It decolonizes the idea of living someplace. It emphasizes my interest in community values. And it paints an accurate picture of the fae I want to be, living in nature.
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Friendly reminder to use inclusive language when talking about abortion, because trans, nonbinary, and gender-diverse people get abortions too. ☺️ #AbortionIsHealthCare #AbortionIsGenderAffirming
Exciting news: I’ve been selected as a Judge Fellow for the Arlington International Film Festival!!!! 😄😍🥰

#FilmFestival #FilmCritic #FestivalJudge
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On this International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia, we not only stand with LGBTQIA+ communities — we work to amplify them. That means fighting for sets that mitigate risk, authentic representation, and space for queer artists to tell their own stories.

#IntimacyCoordinator
Diarrhea💩 ——> Menstrual Pad🩸 ——> Gender Dysphoria🧔🏻‍♀️ ——> Anxiety Attack😖

#💩 #GenderDysphoria #Nonbinary #Transgender
Sometimes things are dark, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be beautiful.

#Sunset #Purple #Pink
Our air mattress popped in the middle of the night. We took it as an opportunity to clean out and rearrange the van for our next phase. Feeling very happy with how we spun the situation into a good one. 😊

#VanLife #PositiveSpin
Ann Arbor is the kind of place, where, if you loose your wallet, you are likely to get it back completely in tact - and that makes me happy.

#AnnArbor #Michigan #Safety #Kindness #Honesty