Yvonne Lam
@yvonnezlam.bsky.social
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I play with books, cats, food, yarn, and dirt, not all at the same time. Software engineer. Society of People Interested in Boring Things. She/her, cis.
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clairewillett.bsky.social
it makes me angry every day that they’ve arranged their lives so that the right has constant access to them and the left has none but they frame that as neutrality
lebassett.bsky.social
I do not want to see a Supreme Court justice’s face on cable news, period
atrupar.com
Amy Coney Barrett defends heavy use of the shadow docket: "If we wrote a long opinion, it might give the impression that we have finally resolved the issue, and in none of these cases have we finally resolved the issue."
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
This thing has to be plugged in. It sits on a desk. It won't let me connect to it with my laptop because it uses a phone app. The opportunities to make my use of this thing as inconvenient as possible are endless.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
Me just now: "What model of label maker do we have? The app wants to know."
Partner: "I dunno. It's on my desk downstairs."

It's not even discoverable on the home network!
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
I find it easier to understand why someone would want a wireless lathe than a wireless label maker because lathes are dangerous to fingers.
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courtneymilan.com
One of the reasons I like this is because I think a lot of people freeze because they do not know what to say.

You don’t have to say anything.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
If I have to be next to the thing in order to use it, making it wireless and controlled by an app is not in fact what I want.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
This is up there with the wireless feature on the immersion circulator. (Yes, I know it's about cheapness. It's still annoying.)
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
The old one works fine.
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musicologyduck.bsky.social
also the fact that i'm still not even remotely caught up on housekeeping, life administration, e-mail, phone calls, meal prep or exercise is always a stark reminder of how much time and energy these things take and why i'm always behind
musicologyduck.bsky.social
man, the amount i have slept in the past week is making my level of burnout i had reached a lot clearer
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
I'm trying to understand why we need a wireless label maker.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
Also a Stephen Sondheim musical; I heard actors from the West End production singing the opening song last week and now I want a full cast recording:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvfy...
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levistahl.bsky.social
“He admitted that he was ‘unprepared for this specific situation, or for any situation at all.’”

We know the feeling, T. S. Eliot.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
O no. That sounds awful. When my friends' kids have the occasional bout of existential lamentation, I pretty much lose my mind from the combination of irritation and helplessness.
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kith51.bsky.social
www.regulations.gov/commenton/EA...

In 2 days, right-wing election groups have submitted over 200,000 new comments to the Election Assistance Commission to require Americans to show a passport or citizenship document for voter registration. We must drive comments to oppose this before 10/20.
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yvonnezlam.bsky.social
Thinking too about the scene in Gaudy Night where Harriet and Miss deVine talk about the lies they can't tell.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
Let me rephrase that: I'm emotionally on the side of the antagonist. I don't know whether I think they did the right thing or not, but I absolutely understand to my marrow how everyone not Saying The Thing made them feel.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
I've been thinking for a while about the anecdote in Anne Lamott's Bird by Bird where the punchline is something like, "You don't always have to cut with the Sword of Truth. Sometimes you can point with it." It's time to admit that, right or wrong, I'm on the side of the antagonist in the anecdote.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
...Say The Thing without warning; I definitely work on giving people who may not be in a mood to hear The Thing a chance to get out while there's still time. And I try not to blurt it out in moments of stress, not that I always succeed.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
...(perhaps self-)defensively cushioning the truth.

I've noticed that my personal tolerance for people Not Saying the Thing is extremely low. Whether it's age/hormones, rebelling against the lack of veracity of the current moment, or what, I don't know. I try not to be unkind and I try not to ...
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
Thinking of the scene in A Civil Campaign when Miles has to tell the heroine's son <spoiler>. The heroine is mildly horrified by a black-humored joke he makes, then notices her son finds it reassuring. She thinks about how saying the thing can be a good alternative to secrets, whispers, and ...
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
Most of what I'm cutting back is spent, bedraggled, or in the way. I'm going to dig and divide it once it's of manageable size.
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
I am ruthlessly cutting back a giant phlomis. Yes, I know it's the wrong time of the year, but the thing is huge. One of my tenets of gardening in zone 8 is "do it when you think of it, have the time, and have the tools to hand."
yvonnezlam.bsky.social
today in adhd gardening: it took me two minutes to transplant a rootbound potted bay tree. I've been dreading it for weeks.
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sorrowscopes.bsky.social
Taurus: You will have the opportunity to exact a terrible vengeance. Take it. Treat yourself.