#darvo
Anti-Trans DARVO Examples

‘DARVO’ is an anagram for a common tactic used by abusers:

Deny (everything)
And
Reverse
Victim and
Offender

It is also a part of the propaganda campaign used by anti-trans proponents. 1/17
October 27, 2025 at 4:27 AM Everybody can reply
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All it would have taken was “I messed up and I know I have to win back your trust but I am prepared to try to do that”. Instead he really went with DARVO. The reaction is itself disqualifying.
October 28, 2025 at 7:31 PM Everybody can reply
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There’s a crisis in America where no one takes responsibility for their own actions. It’s why the political/religious right is so poisoned but it’s also behind all the worst parts of the center and left.

People talk about bringing back shame, and yes that’d help, but we also need to reject DARVO.
October 29, 2025 at 2:57 AM Everybody can reply
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Violation of first amendment rights in support of terrorist state of Israel.

Israel commits a genocide but anyone who says “stop committing genocide” is the terrorist?

Everyone needs to learn about DARVO and how to combat it
October 27, 2025 at 3:56 AM Everybody can reply
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Yep. And the “stop purity tests” line in response is such a DARVO move
October 28, 2025 at 4:45 PM Everybody can reply
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Every time there's BlueSky discourse, it's DARVO.

Every...damn...time...
October 30, 2025 at 3:10 AM Everybody can reply
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Vague “Leftists eat their own.” posts get big numbers bc folks can project whatever specific scenario from their own life onto them and feel like everyone else is approaching it just the same way. Even if it turns out OP is subposting DARVO to protect their abusive buddy (many such cases.)
October 27, 2025 at 4:30 PM Everybody can reply
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All week I've been reminded of what happens when an abusive pastor is exposed. Their followers & peers will twist themselves into knots defending the indefensible. The pastors will play victim & DARVO those speaking out. No one is owed these positions of trust.

Platner has disqualified himself.
October 29, 2025 at 11:05 AM Everybody can reply
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"maybe if you could laugh at yourself" darvo dumbass 🤬
October 29, 2025 at 3:00 PM Everybody can reply
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The phrase “concern trolling” drifted so far out of context that its become a way people soft pedal the most insidious form of abuse next to DARVO

And allowed the privileged members of marginalized groups a way to replicate dominance
October 28, 2025 at 4:05 AM Everybody can reply
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El otro día lo vi en un bluit y se me quedó

Táctica DARVO

De manual

es.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
October 24, 2025 at 8:50 AM Everybody can reply
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BESSENT: its psyops. they are gaslighting and sea lioning and thats never ok. its DARVO through the back door
WELKER: Why is the president setting trade policy based on a TV ad he doesn't like?

BESSENT: This is a kind of propaganda against US citizens. It's psyops
October 26, 2025 at 4:51 PM Everybody can reply
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The types of viral DARVO rhetoric that have been leveraged against celebrity women like Amber Heard are now being weaponized against everyday, working-class women who report sexual violence. And AI is helping accelerate these narratives. My latest dispatch from hell:
spitfirenews.com/p/doordash-a...
DoorDash and DARVO attacks on working-class women
A woman said her customer exposed himself to her. How did she become the villain?
spitfirenews.com
October 24, 2025 at 8:54 PM Everybody can reply
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"As long as misogyny continues to profit and resonate with mass audiences, there’s nothing stopping the churn, and AI can further accelerate the spread of DARVO narratives online."
The types of viral DARVO rhetoric that have been leveraged against celebrity women like Amber Heard are now being weaponized against everyday, working-class women who report sexual violence. And AI is helping accelerate these narratives. My latest dispatch from hell:
spitfirenews.com/p/doordash-a...
DoorDash and DARVO attacks on working-class women
A woman said her customer exposed himself to her. How did she become the villain?
spitfirenews.com
October 24, 2025 at 9:38 PM Everybody can reply
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Very good thread on DARVO and common anti-trans talking points. I suspect a lot of people who follow me know most of this anyway, but I'd suggest bookmarking it so you can send it on to anyone who starts with the "but what about..." line
Anti-Trans DARVO Examples

‘DARVO’ is an anagram for a common tactic used by abusers:

Deny (everything)
And
Reverse
Victim and
Offender

It is also a part of the propaganda campaign used by anti-trans proponents. 1/17
October 27, 2025 at 5:21 PM Everybody can reply
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It's also DARVO and gaslighting. It very much is hateful. It always has been so. They BRAG about how much they want trans people to suffer, trans people are monsters, we're a "huge problem for a sane world."

They bathe in hate nightly and spew it from their pores every day.
All these shit arguments à la "It's not hateful/discrimination!" always rely on the idea that we trans people cannot be trusted on all self-statements, that we're inherently false, wrong & constantly lying & have only false body/psyche-perception which is hateful & transphobic in itself.
October 30, 2025 at 12:12 PM Everybody can reply
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Bingo!

DARVO gaslighting 101.
October 23, 2025 at 5:24 AM Everybody can reply
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bruce harrell, DARVO dipshit

"DARVO ("Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender") is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing... may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior... it is a common manipulation strategy of psychological abusers."
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
October 27, 2025 at 6:42 PM Everybody can reply
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Es DARVO. Su única respuesta a todo.
October 26, 2025 at 9:03 AM Everybody can reply
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I get so frustrated when I see people advising employees experiencing institutional abuice to report the problem to Human Resources. Reporting to HR transforms victims into the problem. Don’t let HR’s name fool you. It should be called the Department of DARVO.
October 28, 2025 at 3:23 PM Everybody can reply
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The article is just this clique's DARVO thing again, where they pretend that calling other trans people "cissexual" (a synonym for cisgender) is magically instead them talking about their own needs, and therefore they are being victimized when their targets object to being aggressively misgendered.
October 28, 2025 at 6:37 AM Everybody can reply
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"'m a Muslim woman of colour who literally needs security every day because of the threats I receive. I live with that reality; I don*t need it explained to me."

Is this DARVO? I believe it is.
October 27, 2025 at 1:57 PM Everybody can reply
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I was going to let that second harassment account you made slide without mention, thinking this might stop, but you’re make account after account specifically to stalk & harass me
That’s right, YOU are the stalker, the creep & any other insult or accusation you’ve thrown at me
DARVO 🖕
October 28, 2025 at 3:30 PM Everybody can reply
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