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We often condemn people for being stuck in victimhood, but rarely ask whether they have the skills, the tools, hell, even the *will* to live, that can flip them from victimhood to survivorship.

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12 Notes - On Life and Creativity
Quincy Jones
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June 23, 2025 at 1:16 PM
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What do we really mean when we say “victim mentality”? We should talk about it.

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Victim Mentality External locus of control Perception of injustice Sense of entitlement Chronic anger and resentment Anxiety and fear Hopelessness and despair Self-pity Avoidance and withdrawn Complaining and ruminating Seeking validation Passive behaviour Identification with victim role Fragile self-esteem Resistance to change Maladaptive coping Dependence on others Fixed mindset Avoidance strategies Blame and accusation Manipulative behaviours Isolation Chronic stress and mental health issues Impaired relationships Stagnation Survivor Mentality Internal locus of control Resilience Sense of empowerment Hope and optimism Peace and acceptance Pride and accomplishment Confidence Active engagement Problem solving Sharing experiences constructively Positive social interactions Integrated self-concept Healthy self-esteem Openness to change Adaptive coping Self-reliance Growth mindset Proactive coping Healthy boundaries Empathy and support Collaborative relationships Mental wellbeing
June 23, 2025 at 1:15 PM