when it clicked in my mind after years of therapy that i was spending all this time blaming myself and considering things normal because of rules that i engrained in my mind i had to relearn and rewire myself in a way i have still not recovered from.

it is everywhere and it is in the unwritten rule book that is forced upon us as treated as our fault if we don’t follow it from day one. everywhere. all the time. and women stop wrestling because of it. women are blaming themselves for this. all the time.

like idgaf if his talking about misogyny is performative as long as he isn’t assaulting a woman

AND JOHN WATERS LMFAO

omg my dad used to grow zucchinis in the yard and make bread when i was a kid all the time!

OWWWWWWWWW i think of that line a lot.

i know too much and can no longer feel happiness towards the things i once felt a sense of wonder for and i and everyone around me is worse for it ngl

it’s 2025 it happens to the best of us but checking randoms on the internet for things you would let slide from your mom or dad isn’t helping you make your world better.