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@youralaskanbf.bsky.social
37, they/he, yup’ik/sugpiaq, recovering internet user. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🪶🍉♑️🧩🎵🎮🚗 sober words, high thoughts, and filtered selfies. 🔞
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self soothing isn’t working. thinking about SH’ing. or calling this person out by name, because i already gave him over 7 years of my life.
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i’m a writer. i don’t expect anyone to agree with me, and i’m nonverbal 95% of the time, but boy do i love making words appear
February 3, 2026 at 3:08 AM
i’m a writer. i don’t expect anyone to agree with me, and i’m nonverbal 95% of the time, but boy do i love making words appear
crashing the notes app server with paragraphs but one thing about me if i ever get married is that i will absolutely write the fuck out of my vows
February 3, 2026 at 3:05 AM
crashing the notes app server with paragraphs but one thing about me if i ever get married is that i will absolutely write the fuck out of my vows
the wellbutrin sweats are shakes are back. blasting the air conditioning while i starfish across my bed wearing just my lady gaga diy crop top
February 2, 2026 at 12:26 AM
the wellbutrin sweats are shakes are back. blasting the air conditioning while i starfish across my bed wearing just my lady gaga diy crop top
it might be less of a question of “good enough” than we think
February 1, 2026 at 11:00 PM
it might be less of a question of “good enough” than we think
consuming hopeful content about relationship advice as if it’s magically gonna bring him to me, finally
January 29, 2026 at 11:21 PM
consuming hopeful content about relationship advice as if it’s magically gonna bring him to me, finally
self soothing isn’t working. thinking about SH’ing. or calling this person out by name, because i already gave him over 7 years of my life.
January 29, 2026 at 9:46 PM
self soothing isn’t working. thinking about SH’ing. or calling this person out by name, because i already gave him over 7 years of my life.
hard to be faithful to a god that my parents used to pray to for me to be str8. and maybe they still do, because why else do i feel fucking cursed
January 27, 2026 at 6:36 PM
hard to be faithful to a god that my parents used to pray to for me to be str8. and maybe they still do, because why else do i feel fucking cursed
posted 10 years ago today! happy 10 years of hope! 🥳 on.soundcloud.com/TXn0UFn4dOft...
hope. (feat. Alex Mac)
Apple's voice synthesis software reads some Emily Dickinson poetry over Garage Band beats.
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January 17, 2026 at 5:18 PM
posted 10 years ago today! happy 10 years of hope! 🥳 on.soundcloud.com/TXn0UFn4dOft...
reading plot summaries on wikipedia while listening to romantic-era piano music because i won’t get the first two books in until later this week. can’t remember the last time i was this enthralled by a series
January 12, 2026 at 7:41 PM
reading plot summaries on wikipedia while listening to romantic-era piano music because i won’t get the first two books in until later this week. can’t remember the last time i was this enthralled by a series
i mention my budget spreadsheet once and of course someone mentions 🤖 software making one for them. what goes into a budget spreadsheet that i’m missing? what can 🤖 do that i, an auDHDist, can’t??
January 9, 2026 at 6:34 PM
i mention my budget spreadsheet once and of course someone mentions 🤖 software making one for them. what goes into a budget spreadsheet that i’m missing? what can 🤖 do that i, an auDHDist, can’t??
that was a bigger vape cloud than i was expecting
spongebob squarepants is standing in a kitchen with a life preserver on the wall behind him
ALT: spongebob squarepants is standing in a kitchen with a life preserver on the wall behind him
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January 7, 2026 at 6:48 AM
that was a bigger vape cloud than i was expecting
need someone to queen out with over heated rivalry. or at least someone like an ayahuasca guide or whatever they’re called
January 7, 2026 at 2:50 AM
need someone to queen out with over heated rivalry. or at least someone like an ayahuasca guide or whatever they’re called
the spa and laundry area, aka the spaundry,
January 6, 2026 at 2:49 AM
the spa and laundry area, aka the spaundry,
can i say where i ordered from?? it’s an adult website that might not technically be able to ship to alaska. i guess we’ll see!
forgetting what i ordered. now there’s a feeling i haven’t felt in a while
January 5, 2026 at 10:41 PM
can i say where i ordered from?? it’s an adult website that might not technically be able to ship to alaska. i guess we’ll see!
forgetting what i ordered. now there’s a feeling i haven’t felt in a while
January 5, 2026 at 10:37 PM
forgetting what i ordered. now there’s a feeling i haven’t felt in a while
these are all the platforms i’m subbing/re-subbing to for the foreseeable future. am i missing any? any recommendations?
January 2, 2026 at 2:10 AM
these are all the platforms i’m subbing/re-subbing to for the foreseeable future. am i missing any? any recommendations?
it is actually exhausting to keep up this delusion that everything and everyone is against me somehow. i’m gonna leave it up to other people to use their words
December 31, 2025 at 6:51 PM
it is actually exhausting to keep up this delusion that everything and everyone is against me somehow. i’m gonna leave it up to other people to use their words
i’m not celebrating my birthday anymore. not after today. if people aren’t traveling for the holidays, they’re at home sick. i really thought i’d be able to shake feeling like everything is my fault, but i haven’t yet!
December 28, 2025 at 10:13 PM
i’m not celebrating my birthday anymore. not after today. if people aren’t traveling for the holidays, they’re at home sick. i really thought i’d be able to shake feeling like everything is my fault, but i haven’t yet!
listen. i paid for my entire birthday party this year, so if anyone’s feeling generous my handle on pp/vm/ca is nolanlind 🎉
December 28, 2025 at 5:00 PM
listen. i paid for my entire birthday party this year, so if anyone’s feeling generous my handle on pp/vm/ca is nolanlind 🎉
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Happy 71st Birthday to one of the greatest actors of all time, Denzel Washington! 🐐
December 28, 2025 at 5:05 AM
Happy 71st Birthday to one of the greatest actors of all time, Denzel Washington! 🐐
finally posted my yearly hair-growth journey on socials. never thought i’d live to see myself with waist-length hair.
December 26, 2025 at 11:47 PM
finally posted my yearly hair-growth journey on socials. never thought i’d live to see myself with waist-length hair.
is total isolation the only cure for anxious attachment?
December 24, 2025 at 11:24 PM
is total isolation the only cure for anxious attachment?
i don’t think i’ve had ketchup or plain mustard since the first time i tried them in 2010-11. i don’t get it. are these too plain of flavors for me?? why do i love honey mustard but not regular mustard? marinara and tomato basil soup but not ketchup??
December 19, 2025 at 3:16 AM
i don’t think i’ve had ketchup or plain mustard since the first time i tried them in 2010-11. i don’t get it. are these too plain of flavors for me?? why do i love honey mustard but not regular mustard? marinara and tomato basil soup but not ketchup??
how do i be gentle with myself?
December 17, 2025 at 2:53 AM
how do i be gentle with myself?