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This is back in 2020 when I found out about Kokiri having a "crush" on me because the person in this dm was warning me about him. ( btw I use to be rosemaryvt aka rose a vtuber incase you're wondering )
November 25, 2025 at 10:11 AM
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that terrible scenario. Please keep your comments to your damn self.

Notes for the class: Seemingly "regular" things could be triggers to someone who has been in situations like this. If you need to familiarize yourself, here's a link:

ssaic.ca/learning-res...

Also, google is free.

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Triggers: What Are They? – Saskatoon Sexual Assault & Information Centre
ssaic.ca
November 20, 2025 at 10:47 PM
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Also, if you're judging someone who's *protecting themselves* from being in a situation that ended in a horrible thing, you need to check yourself.

It may seem harmless *to you*, but unless you've been there, trusted someone, said "it's probably harmless" to even yourself, and ended up in

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November 20, 2025 at 10:47 PM
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Hey Kokiri, or rather Born0fkokiri. Or David. Whichever you prefer big dawg. You're right dude, you aren't "ever going to get a girlfriend" if your attempts to get one continue revolving around acting as a friend to women just so you can wait for a moment of pain/grief/struggle/suffering to make a
November 19, 2025 at 2:00 AM