it's been a continual back and forth of wanting to get married one day and being so mistreated emotionally but also as a trans woman that it seemed at times not on the table. But she's the best there is, it's not even a question when it gets to that stage, I think it will. i'm so so lucky 💕🩷

it can help but it's only something that does anything at all if you're committed to working on it yourself and for yourself to heal. on it's own though, yeah it won't fix that at all

oooo i didn't realize that bleeding edge trans care could be a bad way to put it lol. it's just like actually getting the meds you need to prevent genital atrophy and basic bodily autonomy. which sadly is bleeding edge trans healthcare in the US at least. it's a sad state of things lol

as someone who has lived in NY 95% of my life, lived in CT, CA. It wasn't until I moved to Massachusetts that I felt at home. idk what it is, I just haven't felt even remotely as at home and comfortable as mass it's the best. it also helps that they have transhealth and bleeding edge trans care

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that being said these days I'm thankfully (and so luckily) insulated from that bc my wonderful girlfriend helps with stuff but like. I just want to work genuinely I want to make money so it can be easier on both of us. And i swear like I've applied everywhere they just are NOT hiring it sucks so bad

and like she was just a great fit? they've kept on terrible fits for the show that do a lot of nothing and stay on like 5 seasons but Jenny Slate wasn't a good fit? cmon. Season 35 is pretty peak SNL though I have to say like Jenny also included

thanks i appreciate hearing what has worked for you
wish you the best :)

that's what I've been incorporating that does seem to help i guess the problem for me is regularity(?) the bad adhd doesn't help but ive been getting in a good routine. Also it seems like having ehlor danlos stuff and pelvic floor weakness doesn't help so I've been trying to address that too