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𝔯𝔢(𝔱𝔦𝔯𝔢𝔡) 𝔢𝔪𝔬 𝔨𝔦𝔡
𝔞𝔩𝔱 𝔟𝔬𝔶 𝔱𝔬𝔶 𝔬𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔥𝔞𝔲𝔰 𝔬𝔣 𝔠𝔬𝔫𝔱𝔯𝔬𝔩
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𝔞𝔩𝔱 𝔟𝔬𝔶 𝔱𝔬𝔶 𝔬𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔥𝔞𝔲𝔰 𝔬𝔣 𝔠𝔬𝔫𝔱𝔯𝔬𝔩
Gentle reminder that you don't need to be muscular, hairy, tall, have a deep voice, pass in public, take HRT, have any surgeries, OR WANT to do any of those things to be transmasc 🙂↕️
February 5, 2026 at 11:49 PM
Gentle reminder that you don't need to be muscular, hairy, tall, have a deep voice, pass in public, take HRT, have any surgeries, OR WANT to do any of those things to be transmasc 🙂↕️
Obsessed with fortnite, I fear
January 27, 2026 at 11:15 PM
Obsessed with fortnite, I fear
Sometimes I think about how I let white emo twinks make me believe that you can't be black or have curly hair and still have an alternative style so bad that I fried my hair for 10 straight years and masked my blackness.
Black people literally invented rock music.
Black people literally invented rock music.
January 27, 2026 at 7:40 PM
Sometimes I think about how I let white emo twinks make me believe that you can't be black or have curly hair and still have an alternative style so bad that I fried my hair for 10 straight years and masked my blackness.
Black people literally invented rock music.
Black people literally invented rock music.
My job keeps sending folks to Pune to train new hires and just announced that like 7 of our offices are closing..
Pros: STL is closing so I get to work fully remote again soon
Cons: I'll probably be laid off (again) in the next 6-8 months.
Pros: STL is closing so I get to work fully remote again soon
Cons: I'll probably be laid off (again) in the next 6-8 months.
January 19, 2026 at 4:38 PM
My job keeps sending folks to Pune to train new hires and just announced that like 7 of our offices are closing..
Pros: STL is closing so I get to work fully remote again soon
Cons: I'll probably be laid off (again) in the next 6-8 months.
Pros: STL is closing so I get to work fully remote again soon
Cons: I'll probably be laid off (again) in the next 6-8 months.
I get slightly irritated seeing yt trans mascs with super light/faded top surgery scars.. like happy for y'all but also black people are so much more likely to have darkened scars (me) or keloids and it isn't fair 😭
January 14, 2026 at 5:47 PM
I get slightly irritated seeing yt trans mascs with super light/faded top surgery scars.. like happy for y'all but also black people are so much more likely to have darkened scars (me) or keloids and it isn't fair 😭
But also the constant up and down in temp has had my allergies and sinus pressure on 10 for like... 2 straight months.
January 5, 2026 at 4:47 PM
But also the constant up and down in temp has had my allergies and sinus pressure on 10 for like... 2 straight months.
Climate change is obv not good but this year may be the first time that it isn't absolutely freezing or otherwise not great outside for my birthday so that's cool
January 5, 2026 at 4:46 PM
Climate change is obv not good but this year may be the first time that it isn't absolutely freezing or otherwise not great outside for my birthday so that's cool
Being in tech support for a company that makes payroll/HR software means that it only gets WORSE after Christmas for the next 4ish weeks 🥲
December 26, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Being in tech support for a company that makes payroll/HR software means that it only gets WORSE after Christmas for the next 4ish weeks 🥲
It's officially *mandatory* to use AI (ch@tgpt specifically) at my job for every case we handle. I hate it here.
They're also trying to convince us that we're only training the AI to help us do our jobs, not to replace us.. who's hiring in the STL/Metro East area? 😭
They're also trying to convince us that we're only training the AI to help us do our jobs, not to replace us.. who's hiring in the STL/Metro East area? 😭
December 18, 2025 at 3:48 PM
It's officially *mandatory* to use AI (ch@tgpt specifically) at my job for every case we handle. I hate it here.
They're also trying to convince us that we're only training the AI to help us do our jobs, not to replace us.. who's hiring in the STL/Metro East area? 😭
They're also trying to convince us that we're only training the AI to help us do our jobs, not to replace us.. who's hiring in the STL/Metro East area? 😭
It is disturbingly warm outside for Christmas to be next week.. I just saw a living wasp outside 😭
December 17, 2025 at 8:36 PM
It is disturbingly warm outside for Christmas to be next week.. I just saw a living wasp outside 😭
Time for my annual peak cold and flu season drag hiatus.
Using this time to craft some new looks, update some of my go-to pieces, and finish projects I've started.
7 years in and I feel like I'm only recently doing drag in a way that feels completely authentic and I can't wait to build on that!
Using this time to craft some new looks, update some of my go-to pieces, and finish projects I've started.
7 years in and I feel like I'm only recently doing drag in a way that feels completely authentic and I can't wait to build on that!
December 10, 2025 at 2:51 PM
Time for my annual peak cold and flu season drag hiatus.
Using this time to craft some new looks, update some of my go-to pieces, and finish projects I've started.
7 years in and I feel like I'm only recently doing drag in a way that feels completely authentic and I can't wait to build on that!
Using this time to craft some new looks, update some of my go-to pieces, and finish projects I've started.
7 years in and I feel like I'm only recently doing drag in a way that feels completely authentic and I can't wait to build on that!
Want to... start filling my torso with black and grey American traditional work 👀
November 22, 2025 at 3:05 PM
Want to... start filling my torso with black and grey American traditional work 👀
Girl saying you've been turned down opportunities 'because of your body' in a room with multiple queer, black men..? Bold.
November 20, 2025 at 2:40 AM
Girl saying you've been turned down opportunities 'because of your body' in a room with multiple queer, black men..? Bold.
My job essentially forcing everyone in the company to use chatgpt to write our annual reviews just adds to the growing list of reasons I want to leave
October 6, 2025 at 4:49 PM
My job essentially forcing everyone in the company to use chatgpt to write our annual reviews just adds to the growing list of reasons I want to leave
Okay wait what ✨vibes do I give off out of drag??
September 24, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Okay wait what ✨vibes do I give off out of drag??
This pollen can catch these hands. My face has been swollen for weeeeeeeeks despite meds.
September 17, 2025 at 5:36 PM
This pollen can catch these hands. My face has been swollen for weeeeeeeeks despite meds.
September 16, 2025 at 8:35 PM
H8 that I'm one of maybe 3 queer people and 1 of 6 BIPOC folks in my entire office.
Everyone is nice enough but it's a red flag to have a ton of "allies" and claim to be an inclusive company when the demographic of the office and upper management is entirely beige.
Everyone is nice enough but it's a red flag to have a ton of "allies" and claim to be an inclusive company when the demographic of the office and upper management is entirely beige.
September 11, 2025 at 9:30 PM
H8 that I'm one of maybe 3 queer people and 1 of 6 BIPOC folks in my entire office.
Everyone is nice enough but it's a red flag to have a ton of "allies" and claim to be an inclusive company when the demographic of the office and upper management is entirely beige.
Everyone is nice enough but it's a red flag to have a ton of "allies" and claim to be an inclusive company when the demographic of the office and upper management is entirely beige.
I believe the phrase is "unfortunately worth it", right?
September 10, 2025 at 8:59 PM
I believe the phrase is "unfortunately worth it", right?
Sooo was that a trial run?
September 10, 2025 at 8:53 PM
Sooo was that a trial run?
Did my T shot and the leaves are subtly changing color. Have a post gym pic😌
September 10, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Did my T shot and the leaves are subtly changing color. Have a post gym pic😌
I'm a day late on my shot and fightiiiing the urge to sad boy post all day
September 9, 2025 at 1:55 PM
I'm a day late on my shot and fightiiiing the urge to sad boy post all day
Trans mascs and drag kings are left out of every conversation and it's just so tiring explaining your existence at every turn
September 9, 2025 at 12:11 PM
Trans mascs and drag kings are left out of every conversation and it's just so tiring explaining your existence at every turn
Coming into the office to do Zoom meetings is so asinine.
August 28, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Coming into the office to do Zoom meetings is so asinine.