I pray that your mother slips up & the truth is out in the open. Maybe they will come around. But keep living your life. Keep healing. It's hard to grieve people who are still living. People we thought we knew. It's hard to be blindsided. It always hurts. Journaling helped me feel it & get it out. 💜

There are many of us out there unfortunately. It's more common than you think. Happy to have you in this community. Healing takes time. One day at a time. Sometimes we need to revisit things we thought we healed. That's perfectly ok. Healing isn't linear.

Whatever she said, just know, it was a total lie. It was nothing that you did, said, or could have done differently. The shame and blame are not yours to carry. That belongs to your mother. She can have that back, and you remain blameless in this story. The blame lies with the abuser always. 🫶

Actually, the best health insurance would be universal health insurance. Covering everyone. Obama's ACA was as close to that as we were going to get.

Narcissists will always go for the things you love most. She went for the grandparents. The narc says, "If I can't control my daughter, and get her to talk to me, I'll take away something she loves." This was the grandparents.
Narcs are petty, selfish, ugly, pains in the a$$.
I'm so sorry 🫂💜

Narcissists are con artists. They're very good at the smear campaign. They have to lie, manipulate, smear others, for people to like & believe them. Your narc mom was doing this for a long time. If she can no longer control you, she'll control how others see you. She smeared U before U cut her out.

I'm so sorry. It really sucks when you start figuring out the enablers. It was bad enough that you had to deal with the abusers, but now you start seeing the people that weren't in your corner. It's awful. That being said, your truth is still the truth. Grandparents are believing a lie.