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The Crucial Cs If I have the Crucial Cs If I don't have the Crucial Cs I feel secure I can reach out I can make friends I co-operate CONNECT I believe I belong I need communication skills I feel insecure, isolated I am more susceptible to peer pressure I seek attention I compete I feel competent I have self-control & self discipline I am self reliant CAPABLE I believe I can do it I need self-discipline I feel inadequate I try to control others I become dependent I seek power I feel valuable I can make a difference I contribute COUNT I believe I matter I need to assume responsibility I feel insignificant I may try to hurt back I seek revenge I feel hopeful I am willing to try I am resilient COURAGE I believe I can handle what comes I need Good Judgement I feel inferior I may give up I use avoidance Bettner, B.L. & Lew, A. (1990): Raising Kids Who Can. Newton Ctr MA: Connexions Press.
January 5, 2026 at 7:32 PM