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I totally get the reaction to what seems like people complaining about paying per se but I think it most cases it's not about that--it's how it's presented (and I don't blame people for presenting it that way!)
December 8, 2025 at 4:33 PM
I agree there's no need to apologize--but I also think frustation is understandable here. Not about the principle of having to pay, but how it feels to think you're being asked to carry on a conversation and then to pay for the right to do so.
December 8, 2025 at 4:31 PM
if there's a lack of an international analogue that's still weird though no?
December 8, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Also how many eg public statues do we have celebrating emancipation? versus celebrating people who fought in opposition.
December 8, 2025 at 3:13 PM
There are also used to be something about the way hairstyles etc trended that seemed to mark people more. Like if you watched 80's dating game reruns 20 years later those 23-year-old contestants looked 40 because people stuck with those looks.
December 7, 2025 at 9:44 PM
Oh Norwegian TV may explain what felt like a sort of gratuitous Haaland reference there?
December 6, 2025 at 11:51 PM
I hear you. Maybe there are compromises where you don't have to give it up entirely but as someone with all-or-nothing tendencies myself my view is it may not be worth all the effort and cutting it off entirely may be simpler, easier, better. Would miss you on here though
December 6, 2025 at 11:42 PM
Def Leppard debut
December 6, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Escape
December 6, 2025 at 7:14 PM
oh shit no way. how did i miss this
December 6, 2025 at 3:54 AM
where is it available to watch
December 6, 2025 at 3:52 AM
I think it's mocking efforts to win back MAGA voters by adopting positions designed to appeal to them, regardless of the merits of those positions
December 6, 2025 at 12:03 AM
fair enough, you kind of have to, but you can understand how frustrating it is that she just keeps getting attention
December 5, 2025 at 9:51 PM
Yes, certainly. And best of luck to Ken when he expains that to his wife who coincidentally just completed a marathon walk and then upon declining a social engagement received from Ken a carefully modulated, supportive, not overly-enthusiastic response.
December 5, 2025 at 9:49 PM
SHE CAN READ THIS KEN
December 5, 2025 at 8:33 PM
Denmark would add a couple of extremely high-end restaurants which would round it out well
December 5, 2025 at 7:54 PM
plus whatever euro they get will probably be complementary
December 5, 2025 at 7:44 PM
OH GOD WHICH GROUP AM I IN
December 5, 2025 at 6:37 PM
Like Cava is not going to replace date night for us but maybe it will for grabbing stuff for the kids when we're lazy--or we just always have to cook for them
December 5, 2025 at 5:43 PM
is there a predictable pattern for fast casual when people have less money to spend? spitballing i can see it going either way
December 5, 2025 at 5:41 PM
Bronny is playing at a Chris Paul (2025 version) level
December 5, 2025 at 5:31 PM
SIGN ME UP
December 5, 2025 at 5:29 PM
though if they truly mean out blue *cities* the options are pretty limited
December 5, 2025 at 5:21 PM
i guess they could just host all matches in texas and florida
December 5, 2025 at 5:20 PM