I'm really exhausted by queer people who's main concern is preserving the punk aesthetic of queerness to the point of rejecting or being put off by even the most insignificant forms of normalization.

I'll take a trans affirming hair salon with a "you're so valid" on their website given that the long-standing alternative has been companies that pretend we don't exist and companies that actively participate in our genocide.

im gonna go even further here & say that constant engagement in internet drama on sites like this one is included in that statement

yes i am equating your qrt dunking for your follower base with kiwifarms & drama alert, no i do not care what ethical tier list you have for those things