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Visible Restraint
@visiblerestraint.bsky.social
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Queer & post-gender. I'm a kink/sex educator, porn creator, and event producer. Let's talk hypnosis.

Near Seattle.

I follow creators whose original content I vibe with.
Also find me @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social
Hypnosis Skill Drills
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM to 9 PM - TONIGHT
Gallery Erato (Seattle)
Free Event

Erotic Hypnosis skills practice event!
November 10, 2025 at 5:13 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social and I playing at Club Z 2019. The full 4 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...

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November 10, 2025 at 4:04 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social, my then-partner Shadow, and I playing together in 2019. The full 9 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...

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November 9, 2025 at 4:01 PM
This exercise is SO GOOD. Do it with your friends. Do it with play partners!
#hypnovember 7: Words With Friends (With Benefits)

I've got a weird little game/exercise/experience I like to run kink partners through to help them explore their internal processes.

Let's talk about it!
November 8, 2025 at 5:38 PM
Ugh. This is so important to remember for both hypnotists and subjects. And he's right! Most of us can get better with practice.
#hypnovember 7: On Myself as a Subject + Sensory Modalities

I've been writing a lot about my experiences as a tist and what I love about learning theory and technique, but I also want to give credit to what that same learning has done for me as a subject.

So let's talk about it!
November 8, 2025 at 5:37 PM
Reposted by Visible Restraint
#hypnovember Discourse 6: Pace and Lead

So, I went through a long, weird hypno funk. I didn't okay, I didn't read, and when I tried to come back, I fumbled at things that used to be second nature.

Let's talk about how I got my groove back!
November 7, 2025 at 4:40 AM
This. Always this. Always.
(And like all hypno, the best part is that even if the partner knows what you're doing, that doesn't stop it from working. It's a special magic trick that works BETTER when you know how's it done.)
November 8, 2025 at 5:32 PM
Ericksonian ambiguity is a pretty important skill to learn. Read this. And then practice it with your friends.
#hypnovember discourse #5: Sensory Imagery and Lawyer Talk

A lot of new tists I know tend to get really deep into sense imagery--and that's a super useful thing to know! But I think it can sometimes set you up for dissonance with your partner.

Let's talk about that.
November 8, 2025 at 5:29 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social and I just having sex in 2022. I love this video. The full 37 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...

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November 8, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Yes.
You look like you need a Pit Stop 😏⛽️
November 8, 2025 at 2:20 AM
Hypnosis Skill Drills
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM
Gallery Erato
Free event

Erotic hypnosis practice session for hypnotists and subjects
November 7, 2025 at 9:54 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social under the influence of very heavy hypnotic triggers + edging. My beautiful tiger is LOUD in this video. The full 4.5 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...

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November 7, 2025 at 4:05 PM
I mean... Sure. The lighting.

🔥
I liked the lighting
November 5, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Jesus. That's beautiful.
November 5, 2025 at 6:20 PM
My boy Rev Rope suspended (and this was a huge cumshot) from 2022. A 1.5 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...

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November 5, 2025 at 4:05 PM
#hypnovember

Subjects should do the right thing and respond to @emdashery.bsky.social's invitation to engage at the end of his thread because I'm curious to read your answers too.

Get to work!
#hypnovember discourse 4: Skills Are Separable

I like to think of subject skills as a total RPG skill tree, except everyone's tree looks different. I'd call it a hypno sphere grid, but it's also less straightforward than that (and it would make @thestatus.bsky.social happy, which isn't allowed)
November 4, 2025 at 11:22 PM
The cock and ball torture workshop. Tickets at www.strangertickets.com/events/15948...
November 4, 2025 at 9:09 PM
ME administering the TBIP and a LOT of hypnosis to @qwerk.bsky.social from 2023. A nearly 20 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 4, 2025 at 4:03 PM
My events in November! Happy Hypnovember!

Tickets for the Portland full weekend hypnosis event are at btt.boldtypetickets.com/events/17405...
November 4, 2025 at 12:11 AM
#hypnovember

Preach!
#hypnovenber Discourse 3: A Short Rant on Hypno Research

I fekkin' love reading hypno stuff, including the latest research, but I find myself feeling like the kinksters are achieving stuff that researchers can't. Obviously, some of that's for good reason--IRBs don't approve drone play (usually)
November 3, 2025 at 11:04 PM
#hypnovember

Read this now.
#hypnovember discourse #2: Depth, Rapport, and Boiling the Frog:

So, lots of time in hypnokink, folks chase "depth" without really giving much thought to what it is. There's an assumption that deep trance = better trance. Let's talk about that. 🧠🐸🫕
November 3, 2025 at 11:02 PM
#hypnovember

The trigger series is still going, obviously... This one is about trigger SAFETY. You should probably watch it.

youtube.com/shorts/HxKcs...

By the way. My favorite t-shirt. 😎@spacepupsilver.com

❤️
93. Triggers (Part Six)
YouTube video by Visible Restraint
youtube.com
November 3, 2025 at 4:45 PM
My bf @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social administering the TBIP onto @qwerk.bsky.social - from 2023. Ugh. Such a good video. They're SO PRETTY together. Full 7.5 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...

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November 3, 2025 at 4:03 PM
I want to commemorate some fucking 🔥 hypnosis play I just did with my boy @thestatus.bsky.social

😵‍💫

#hypnovember
November 3, 2025 at 6:05 AM
November 2, 2025 at 4:23 PM