im reminded of an exam paper i wrote once (i study philsophy) about epistemolgical injustice (for anyone unfamilliar: the ways social construct and systems impact how we concive of ourselves and others) and the medicalization of transness, and honestly i feel thats at play here.

i can recommend, its quite delightful, and i feel like if i bark ill get your attention *giggles*

REAL

ive allways said with labels that if it helps you understand youreself great but you should try (not that its easy) to not let them limit you

thinking more about this: honestly a more apt comparison instead of gender may be sexuality, the whole debate about who can call themself a lesbian comes to mind yknow?

i said im glad twice lmfao

well im glad, its one of my most loved areas of philsophy so im glad <3

i think thats part of my point with epistimolgical injustice, it creeps up on you and you dont even realize its happending because its so inbuilt in the way we make sense of things, idk if im making sense word limit is fucking me lol, also i have a tendancy to ramble

its not an active thing but people are still forced to make sense of their kinks and "role" in relation to those normalized ideas, and the way others understand them is also based on them

im reminded of an exam paper i wrote once (i study philsophy) about epistemolgical injustice (for anyone unfamilliar: the ways social construct and systems impact how we concive of ourselves and others) and the medicalization of transness, and honestly i feel thats at play here.

i very much agree with this all, it really is the same conclusion that one can come to based on the lack of essentialist traits of gender, but for kink labels, not sure ive fully figured out my thougts or anything but its just a good point yknow?

you chould combine this with like possesion stuff for some fun results, also this is hot lol

clothing-related kinks are honestly so peak to me. being put in clothes? good
being put in someone else’s clothes? incredible
being put in someone else’s worn, sweaty clothes? transcendent