Tyger Songbird 💜♠️🏹🂡
@tygersongbird.bsky.social
I'm aromantic asexual.
I'm a trivia writer, audiophile, and substack writer, basketball fan, and LGBTQIA+ rights writer.
You can find me at your local trivia night, winning probably!
https://tygersongbird.substack.com
I'm a trivia writer, audiophile, and substack writer, basketball fan, and LGBTQIA+ rights writer.
You can find me at your local trivia night, winning probably!
https://tygersongbird.substack.com
Same. Some days I just am like "Why bother trying"?
November 30, 2025 at 6:26 AM
Same. Some days I just am like "Why bother trying"?
I feel the same way. I feel dating another asexual may be the only way for me, but I also feel it's impossible to even find another ace in the first place.
November 30, 2025 at 6:26 AM
I feel the same way. I feel dating another asexual may be the only way for me, but I also feel it's impossible to even find another ace in the first place.
Yeah, I feel you. I always felt there would be pressure to "put out" when dating, as I was always told that you can't have romance without sex being involved.
November 30, 2025 at 6:25 AM
Yeah, I feel you. I always felt there would be pressure to "put out" when dating, as I was always told that you can't have romance without sex being involved.
I don't think I can do polyamory. I feel I'd be a bit too jealous and want my partner to love me solely.
November 30, 2025 at 6:22 AM
I don't think I can do polyamory. I feel I'd be a bit too jealous and want my partner to love me solely.
Finding other aces has been hard, honestly. It's been almost impossible to do so. I keep looking, but so far, nothing has come of it.
November 29, 2025 at 11:41 PM
Finding other aces has been hard, honestly. It's been almost impossible to do so. I keep looking, but so far, nothing has come of it.
Yeah. I have never dated, because I feel that if I were to date, it would never go well, since the other person would want sex at some time.
November 29, 2025 at 11:40 PM
Yeah. I have never dated, because I feel that if I were to date, it would never go well, since the other person would want sex at some time.
Reposted by Tyger Songbird 💜♠️🏹🂡
For so long, I shut myself off to dating, because of my asexuality.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
November 29, 2025 at 9:51 PM
For so long, I shut myself off to dating, because of my asexuality.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
Part of me wants to believe that there is someone out there for me as an asexual person, but I also have a bit of pessimism towards the idea. I don't know.
If you're ace like, tell me what you think.
—Songbird ♠️🂡💜🏹
If you're ace like, tell me what you think.
—Songbird ♠️🂡💜🏹
November 29, 2025 at 9:51 PM
Part of me wants to believe that there is someone out there for me as an asexual person, but I also have a bit of pessimism towards the idea. I don't know.
If you're ace like, tell me what you think.
—Songbird ♠️🂡💜🏹
If you're ace like, tell me what you think.
—Songbird ♠️🂡💜🏹
For so long, I shut myself off to dating, because of my asexuality.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
November 29, 2025 at 9:51 PM
For so long, I shut myself off to dating, because of my asexuality.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
I basically assumed that if I ever even tried to date, that it would never work out, since any prospective partner would want to have sex at some point.
So, I gave up on dating.
Reposted by Tyger Songbird 💜♠️🏹🂡
In church, I remember being told the verse 1 Corinthians 7 that says that you can't "deprive" or "withhold" your partner of sex, because that's a sin.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
November 29, 2025 at 9:42 PM
In church, I remember being told the verse 1 Corinthians 7 that says that you can't "deprive" or "withhold" your partner of sex, because that's a sin.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
Reposted by Tyger Songbird 💜♠️🏹🂡
Throughout my life, I was told that I could never date because "sexual compatibility" is a huge deal in relationships, and that if you're not having sex with your partner, you can't date anyone.
November 29, 2025 at 9:42 PM
Throughout my life, I was told that I could never date because "sexual compatibility" is a huge deal in relationships, and that if you're not having sex with your partner, you can't date anyone.
In church, I remember being told the verse 1 Corinthians 7 that says that you can't "deprive" or "withhold" your partner of sex, because that's a sin.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
November 29, 2025 at 9:42 PM
In church, I remember being told the verse 1 Corinthians 7 that says that you can't "deprive" or "withhold" your partner of sex, because that's a sin.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
Because of all that, I gave up on dating as an asexual, and it's why I've never been on a date in my life.
I wonder if anyone can relate to that.
Throughout my life, I was told that I could never date because "sexual compatibility" is a huge deal in relationships, and that if you're not having sex with your partner, you can't date anyone.
November 29, 2025 at 9:42 PM
Throughout my life, I was told that I could never date because "sexual compatibility" is a huge deal in relationships, and that if you're not having sex with your partner, you can't date anyone.
Hello, nice to meet you.
November 29, 2025 at 6:08 AM
Hello, nice to meet you.
Hi, nice to meet you.
November 29, 2025 at 6:08 AM
Hi, nice to meet you.
Thanks, Ell. I'm wanting to start an actual podcast for asexuality and just make asexual content, because I've been missing my ace community.
November 29, 2025 at 6:08 AM
Thanks, Ell. I'm wanting to start an actual podcast for asexuality and just make asexual content, because I've been missing my ace community.
Hi. Nice to meet you.
November 28, 2025 at 11:28 PM
Hi. Nice to meet you.
Hi, nice to meet you, Karin!
November 28, 2025 at 11:14 PM
Hi, nice to meet you, Karin!
I was so stressed out lately. I've had a lot of issues at home and at work. I have missed everybody. I wish I could get to meet up with more aces around. It's been a bit lonely for me.
November 28, 2025 at 11:14 PM
I was so stressed out lately. I've had a lot of issues at home and at work. I have missed everybody. I wish I could get to meet up with more aces around. It's been a bit lonely for me.