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oh man, and relatedly "is it 'I'm just trying this to please you' or 'I think it would be a good and healthy thing for me to stretch and grow a bit'????"

Additionally no other country on earth has the policing capability of the U.S. And those of us who have spent our adult lives warning about what this would mean, can only say that people should have moved decades ago to shrink law enforcement and in some of our estimation to abolish it.

There are parents out there really truly trying to do their best, and they turn to people they trust. And those people pass on bigotry where they should pass on love.

Bad theology kills.

… And he did.

I think him doing that saved our relationship.

My heart goes out to all the relationships James Dobson destroyed.