Coaching Confidence with Jen Waller
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Coaching Confidence with Jen Waller
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Daily quotes and coaching questions - just like before but gentler now. Coaching Confidence returns with more heart and stillness.
Created by Jen Waller (JenWaller.co.uk)
#QuestionsForCoaches cont
What shifts when you recognise an expectation you’ve been carrying?
Which long-held “shoulds” feel different when you look beneath them?
How might things open up when you lean into your own wisdom instead?

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November 13, 2025 at 3:02 PM
And yet, when an assumption is gently noticed, it often softens.
Awareness makes space for choice, and choice makes room for what feels more aligned and true.

#QuestionsForCoaches
Where do you notice an unwritten rule shaping your decisions or your client’s?

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November 13, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Whether clearly expressed, subtly suggested, or taken to mean something no one intended, these expectations often weave themselves into the background of our lives. Once there, they can look so much like truth that we don’t think to take a closer look.

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November 13, 2025 at 3:01 PM
#QuestionsForCoaches cont
What happens when you look for the quiet intelligence beneath the surface of events?

You don’t need to answer every question, just notice which one speaks to you.

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November 12, 2025 at 10:13 AM
#QuestionsForCoaches
What moments in your life or coaching practice have felt guided rather than planned?
How does your perspective shift when you trust the timing of things?
Where do you see the line between chance and choice?

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November 12, 2025 at 10:12 AM
A delay that reveals itself as perfect timing.

Whether we use words like luck, coincidence, or divine order, moments like these often seem to have a quiet intelligence of their own.
It’s as if life knows how to unfold, even when we don’t.

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November 12, 2025 at 10:12 AM
#QuestionsForCoaches cont:
When you pause to remember, what helps you soften rather than brace?

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November 11, 2025 at 10:02 AM
If today is one of those days for you,
may there be gentleness in the remembering
and comfort in knowing that love never really leaves.

#QuestionsForCoaches
What does remembrance mean to you?
How do you honour what still lives on in your heart?

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November 11, 2025 at 10:01 AM
For some, that remembering may bring warmth or gratitude.
For others, it may stir feelings that are still raw.
And for many, it’s both.

There’s no right way to remember.
Sometimes it’s a silent thought,
a name held close,
a breath,
a small gesture of love that continues on.

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November 11, 2025 at 10:01 AM
#QuestionsForCoaches cont
When clients speak of wanting more, what do you hear they might already be touching?
How does your own sense of meaning influence the space you hold for others?
What changes when you stop searching for meaning and begin noticing what’s already quietly there?

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November 10, 2025 at 4:12 PM
You might sense it in moments of stillness, in beauty, or in the simple awareness of being alive, as though life itself points beyond what it can tangibly offer.

#QuestionsForCoaches
What moments remind you of the depth and mystery beneath everyday life?

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November 10, 2025 at 4:12 PM
#QuestionsForCoaches
Where do you see quiet courage show up in your own life or the lives of others?
What does strength of heart look like to you?
How do you help clients reconnect with their own deeper resilience?
What reminds you that valor doesn’t always need to be loud to be felt?

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November 9, 2025 at 2:31 PM
The kind that keeps showing up with compassion, even when hearts are heavy.

True valor isn’t only found in acts of war or great sacrifice, but also in the quiet moments when someone chooses understanding over anger, kindness over indifference, or hope when it would be easier not to.

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November 9, 2025 at 2:31 PM
#QuestionsForCoaches cont:
When everything feels uncertain, what reminds you that things are, at their core, all right?

You don’t need to answer every question, just notice which one feels alive for you.

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November 8, 2025 at 3:53 PM
#QuestionsForCoaches
Where do you go when you need to reconnect with a sense of perspective?
What helps your thinking quiet enough to feel the vastness beyond it?
How do you support clients in seeing beyond the edges of their current view?

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November 8, 2025 at 3:53 PM
And if you normally do and then find, just once, that your thoughts are too loud to appreciate the beauty in front of you, that doesn’t mean it’s stopped working.

It’s all still there.
Sometimes it just takes a little while for our minds to quiet enough to notice.

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November 8, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Some people find that they naturally drop into a sense of peace, awe, or simple calm when they’re around something vast or natural.
It’s not the only way, and it doesn’t mean you’re broken if that feeling doesn’t come easily.

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November 8, 2025 at 3:52 PM
#QuestionsForCoaches cont:
What shifts when you see it not as a flaw, but as a meeting of thought and circumstance?
How do you help clients explore what’s underneath the pull, rather than the behaviour itself?
What changes when awareness steps in before action?

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November 7, 2025 at 10:32 AM
It only takes shape when two things meet: a thought that feels real and the opportunity to act on it.
When we see the thought for what it is, its grip loosens.
When our minds quiet, new possibilities appear.

#QuestionsForCoaches
Where do you notice temptation showing up for you or your clients?
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November 7, 2025 at 10:32 AM