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Depressedkeanu
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Sandwich maker

Not particularly bright but I try to stay informed


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That weeds got Dino DNA
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February 10, 2026 at 11:41 PM
When I think of malleability I think of Pewter, specifically the little monopoly figurines it’s very soft metal.

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D&D Pewter Miniatures! Yard sale score?? Let's paint some...
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February 10, 2026 at 2:26 AM
Change and growth is of course different from Malleability, you should be somewhat malleable that’s expected in any social structure.

Knowing the difference and when they align or conflict is where you should be inquiring I think.
February 10, 2026 at 2:23 AM
Individual change and growth is always much faster than institutional change and growth.

Institutions by design are much harder to fully reform.
February 10, 2026 at 2:15 AM
Im pretty sure they’re just bipolar.

If it’s baked in then there’s no hope for them or me.

That’s a bleak prospect

I don’t know, I refrain from harsh judgments considering I’m swimming in the wake of their mental illness.

I did not get out unscathed or well adjusted.
February 10, 2026 at 1:17 AM
If had been raised by my father I’d probably have a whole different set of neuroses but it was my mom so dealing with those while not completely over correcting into reactionary misogyny is a challenge.
February 10, 2026 at 1:06 AM
They would fight and then they would both vent to me separately about why they each feel the other sucked and didn’t love them.

I would try to play peacekeeper but you can’t really make people to get along.
February 10, 2026 at 12:56 AM
Damn, that’s rough I’m sorry.

I live with my mom rn, I have the opposite value system, I don’t really believe in cutting family off.

My mom and my grandma don’t talk at all, they’ve always fought with each as long is I’ve been around.

I would get caught in between and I hated it.
February 10, 2026 at 12:54 AM
I love my mom, hopefully she knows that but I think it’s pretty normal to have a conflicting relationship with your parents.

Especially as you mature and fall into your own identity, independent of the one they foisted upon you.
February 10, 2026 at 12:39 AM
I would tell her that’s how I feel but I don’t think she would react well nor would it be productive.
February 10, 2026 at 12:31 AM
I’m gonna be as honest from my perspective as I can.

I don’t think my mother is good person.

I wish that she was, but I’ve been wishing on that star for a while now.
February 10, 2026 at 12:30 AM
Undecided
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February 9, 2026 at 2:31 AM