For a min I thought it was an accidental tag for the person who actually raided yesterday. I was about to be like "I was there but I'm positive I was lurking" xD
(I did finally join the bongo cat crew tho! Lol)

You can't be there for people in your actionable circle if you're being flooded by stress about everyone and everything outside of it. (I have to remind myself of this a lot too)

I was SO confused for a second! xD

I FORGOT COMMISSION A BUNCH OF ARTISTS

Buy shelves without feeling guilty.
Own a bedframe.
Kitchen with a dishwasher and enough counter space to learn to cook without frustration over space, dirty dishes, and OCD all kicking my ass at the same time.
Laundry machine.
I could go on but these are what I came up with off the top of my head.

Could save to live somewhere we don't have to worry about being kicked out AND be able to do craft shit like furniture without angering neighbours.
We'd have more space to make our workspaces more ADHD friendly.
Be able to afford gifts for more of the family on Christmas.
Visit USA friends again.

at risk of angering the mob: shes like somewhere between a hallmark movie and an edgy teen flick to me. fine for what it is but cheesy, vaguely out of touch, and predictable. She's had some songs I've liked, but also blonde cheerleader marries football player feels so... idk US propaganda irl vibes?

-Employs ground-the-ai-user tactics, finds out he doesn't know what sycophant means- 😑