Yooooo, where did you get those pants 👀 Do they come in different colors?

And they don't come off 👀

Oh let's go! The next 60 will fly by!

ANYWAYS. Off my soap box.

I may be an ABDL, but the best thing I can do for myself is to strive to be the well rounded adult that I always looked up to as a kid. Someone who can handle the things that come in front of me with patience and confidence and chillness. That goes for everyone too.

No same! I struggle a lot with getting in the shower and brushing. And like, while you aren't a bad or weak person for dealing with those things, it *is* bad and weak minded to think that it's not something you are working to build.

As someone with my own addictions that I'm working through, the *last* thing I need is for it to be enabled. It is *not* ok that you aren't brushing your teeth every day, or letting your own anxieties and emotions make decisions *for* you.

This kind of goes deeper into a problem I constantly see in the furry community of not just seeing the value in personal discipline, health, and austerity, but actively rejecting those values in favor of hedonism. Alcohol and cigs, yes, but more basic things like habit building or emotional growth.