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StayCoolMommio
@staycoolmommio.bsky.social
🙋Queer Elder Millennial - Educator by day, reader/creator/mom by night
🧑‍🧑‍🧒‍🧒Mom to 2 under 4
📚My TBR is infinite: SFF, Queer, and/or BIPOC tales in heavy rotation
🔗Reviews linked here: http://linktr.ee/staycoolmommio
… AI really just responded to this post about AI, huh 🫠🤣
December 11, 2025 at 2:36 AM
Oooh a historical fantasy novella AND the QLL has unlimited copies of the audiobook? Sign. Me. Up.
December 3, 2025 at 3:46 PM
So yes, please praise my husband for the incredible dad he is because he really does so much for us and loves us all so fully. But please pause and consider whether you’re praising him for things that would be “just part of being a parent” for the default (see: female in our case) parent. 5/5
November 30, 2025 at 7:28 AM
“Oh but he works outside the house and I’m just home with the kids all day” - even more reason to get some fkn sleep! You mean to tell me that he thinks it’s ok to trust his children’s lives and wellbeing to someone who is systematically sleep deprived? And you don’t find that problematic either? 4/
November 30, 2025 at 7:25 AM
Just the insinuation that it would automatically be the mom’s job to be up with the kids at night every single night for 4+ years now is mind-melting. It’s one thing if your body is feeding them and you haven’t figured out bottles. But why would only one of us have bad sleep at this age? Sexism. 3/
November 30, 2025 at 7:21 AM
“Oh wow you caught such a good one!” “What an amazing dad!” “Super dad alert!” — I agree on all counts, but not because of bare basic things like “babysitting” his own children or staying up with them at night. An atypical sleep schedule is the price of admission to parenting kids like ours. 2/
November 30, 2025 at 7:18 AM
Oh I cannot tell you how much that would make my day! I tried DMing you - not sure if it went through - but let me know do there’s a better way to get you my email 🥰
November 24, 2025 at 11:00 AM
I’ve got a whole little group of folks on the discord for a Different game playing it every day, thanks to your enthusiasm about it 🤩 We’re all quite smitten with it as well!
November 24, 2025 at 10:52 AM
I will once again throw myself upon the unforgiving pointed rocks of tor’s NetGalley rocky shore 😅😅 So many of my favorite authors are published by them and I’ve yet to get a single ARC 😭
November 24, 2025 at 8:34 AM
Oh you’ll love it! It’s seriously one of my top 5 reads this year. And I agree with my dear spouse: the catharsis is real. Like if the *gestures wildly* has ever made you think “but what if they Didn’t win for once? With fire?” It’s a very Satisfying book.
November 23, 2025 at 1:43 PM
Thanks I’m crying at 7am on Sunday now 😭😭
November 23, 2025 at 1:05 PM
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obviously i also do lots of other research but there is nothing like the specificity of the information you will receive from someone who begins with "okay, so--"
November 17, 2025 at 10:17 PM