@damecorbeau.bsky.social un bulbi !!!! 🥹

...I have this very clear idea of her, of someone who treats kids as people, but also then all people below her age as kids (which was mentioned before). Which makes for a very funny combo.
Her son has Opinions about it. Come on, he's not a teen anymore...

About Beryl, aside for the pressure she puts herself under - I also wanted to add that she is SO, SO proud of her kids! She wears friendship bracelets her grandkids made for her, even those who don't suit her style. They gotta know that they're cherished and that they do good things!

(I think this post is the first instance of me mentioning Ruadh. He doesn't even have a fixed design yet!)

They took care of a whole bunch of kids, but only adopted one, their son Taku. He's now a dad too.

Other than that... well, Margot and Ruadh are in a lavender marriage, and that's about it.

I think it goes nicely with the smaller but still considerable red flag "the only physical contact you had with them since establishing your relationship was on accident. Now that they're gone (dead??????) it doesn't actually change anything for you"

Though, to be honest, "attempted murder, then ran off leaving you to deal with the consequences while they ghosted you for several years", *is* the biggest Karavi red flag.

there was only so much space, for me it was part of the anger issues bahaha. but you're right!

Part 158 of 200 in historically interesting things to inspire your ttrpg

16th century German ring that unfolds into an astronomical sphere

The worst thing is that I'm lucky that I didn't lose any more friends since then. I know it's not the case for everyone.

I couldn't visit their grave for a while because it was far away, and now I don't have any contacts left with people who could show me where he is. It was almost ten years ago.

I still think it was cruel of them not to tell other people who cared about him how he died. Years later I still feel like there is no closure to this, because of the constant wondering.

Their family was extremely adamant about not telling anyone what happened... which prompted the immediate certitude in me that they were too ashamed to say how he died, that their kid took his own life. I will never know for sure. I hope that I'm wrong.