steve o’grady
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steve o’grady
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helped found redmonk. if you see someone at a tech conference wearing a Red Sox hat, that's probably me. otherwise found in the great state of Maine. wrote the new kingmakers and the software paradox. married to @girltuesday.org. eph.
and zooming out, given the state of the system, which has more pitching on the way than hitting, maybe it makes sense to spend bigger on bats than pitching?
November 26, 2025 at 1:17 AM
and i didn't even get into the "too much bourbon on the bourbon glazed ham at too high a temp" that exploded and burned off her eyebrows and bangs because that didn't happen on thanksgiving.
November 25, 2025 at 3:52 AM
my brother and i flat out refused to eat it. my dad took a bite and was like no thanks.

my best friend, meanwhile, looked at me, with real fear, like "wtf is this? do i have to try it if you won't? i have serious regrets about coming here."

and that's why we still talk about the pumpkin soup.
November 25, 2025 at 3:47 AM
my best friend who couldn't fly home had come home with me for thanksgiving. due to issues with actually making the soup - mixer fail, maybe? i can't remember - and then the timing of trying to keep soup warm in an actual pumpkin, the result was a stringy, seedy goddawful mess of cold, pumpkin soup.
November 25, 2025 at 3:47 AM
the story she hears most about to this day though is the pumpkin soup. she'd gotten the idea to serve pumpkin soup in an actual pumpkin. we tried to talk her out of it, to no avail.
November 25, 2025 at 3:47 AM
it looked awful, and my brother and i watched my dad try it and almost gag. my mom took a bite, jumped up and ran into the kitchen and threw it up.

we were excused, therefore, from having to try it.
November 25, 2025 at 3:47 AM
later, when she'd learned to cook well, she'd get bored of having the same thing over and over, and experiment.

one year, she tried some sort of smoked fish. it was supposed to be trout, but they didn't have that and she got something else. can't remember what.
November 25, 2025 at 3:47 AM
my mom, who is otherwise an excellent cook, has had some spectacular thanksgiving "events."

when my parents were first married she called her mom for her turkey recipe. the recipe was for a turkey twice the size of what she had. she somehow managed to cram 2X the stuffing in, and so it exploded.
November 25, 2025 at 3:47 AM
if by “good quality” you mean “not off amazon,” then no, i did not.

but all i need is 2. we’ll see how it does.
November 23, 2025 at 2:31 AM
all i need is 2 from the modem to the router. after that it’s all gravy.
November 23, 2025 at 1:17 AM
i'll be paying for 2GB, so anything over 1GB is gravy
November 23, 2025 at 12:07 AM
the cable between the router and the modem is the problem. modem comes in upstairs, router is in the basement.
November 22, 2025 at 11:59 PM