SN Désirée Cha
@sndesireecha.bsky.social
lightning + foam /she.hers/ bylines: Autostraddle; Rest for Resistance; The Rumpus; The Butter; The Nervous Breakdown; AlterNet.
no idea how much this will cost but Esmé is 12, has a mitral valve defect, grade 4 heart murmur, and is ataxic. ER vet will be at least $300. i am stressed but she is in medical emergency.
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PayPal none at the moment, but have GoFundMe.
Esmé needs your help. please help.
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PayPal none at the moment, but have GoFundMe.
Esmé needs your help. please help.
November 27, 2025 at 9:43 PM
no idea how much this will cost but Esmé is 12, has a mitral valve defect, grade 4 heart murmur, and is ataxic. ER vet will be at least $300. i am stressed but she is in medical emergency.
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PayPal none at the moment, but have GoFundMe.
Esmé needs your help. please help.
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PayPal none at the moment, but have GoFundMe.
Esmé needs your help. please help.
Please pray for Esmé. She had a seizure and her heart won’t stop racing. We are headed to the emergency vet. We need help.
November 27, 2025 at 8:55 PM
Please pray for Esmé. She had a seizure and her heart won’t stop racing. We are headed to the emergency vet. We need help.
🧵 If I can raise at lease $800 by 12/3, I’ll be able to stay warm, alive, & keep my interspecies family together through Dec.
It’s a small ask as I prepare to live in my car with nowhere to safely park, no access to bathrooms, and constant threat of arrest.
So if you can, please boost mutual aid.
It’s a small ask as I prepare to live in my car with nowhere to safely park, no access to bathrooms, and constant threat of arrest.
So if you can, please boost mutual aid.
November 27, 2025 at 3:00 PM
🧵 If I can raise at lease $800 by 12/3, I’ll be able to stay warm, alive, & keep my interspecies family together through Dec.
It’s a small ask as I prepare to live in my car with nowhere to safely park, no access to bathrooms, and constant threat of arrest.
So if you can, please boost mutual aid.
It’s a small ask as I prepare to live in my car with nowhere to safely park, no access to bathrooms, and constant threat of arrest.
So if you can, please boost mutual aid.
currently at 0/800 for 12/3 deadline. please help us stay warm and indoors through December. snow is here and my ESA dog and i won’t make it on the streets.
thank you for any and all help.
thank you for any and all help.
November 24, 2025 at 10:43 AM
currently at 0/800 for 12/3 deadline. please help us stay warm and indoors through December. snow is here and my ESA dog and i won’t make it on the streets.
thank you for any and all help.
thank you for any and all help.
still crowdfunding for winter survival while homeless and alone.
thankful for any shares and boosts.
thankful for any shares and boosts.
November 23, 2025 at 1:43 PM
still crowdfunding for winter survival while homeless and alone.
thankful for any shares and boosts.
thankful for any shares and boosts.
help this little dog and her human stay warm and indoors through December winter. we are reeling from a DV abuse stay that harmed both of us. please support a disabled woman of color and elderly ESA dog
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November 22, 2025 at 5:15 PM
help this little dog and her human stay warm and indoors through December winter. we are reeling from a DV abuse stay that harmed both of us. please support a disabled woman of color and elderly ESA dog
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happy 8-year adoptaversary to my ESA dog companion. when i picked her up from the county shelter post-spay, she was on trazodone for shelter stress and smelled of pee and fear. her hair was matted, she was skinny and shaking, but her eyes were alert and bright.
i love you, dear one.
i love you, dear one.
November 17, 2025 at 11:33 AM
happy 8-year adoptaversary to my ESA dog companion. when i picked her up from the county shelter post-spay, she was on trazodone for shelter stress and smelled of pee and fear. her hair was matted, she was skinny and shaking, but her eyes were alert and bright.
i love you, dear one.
i love you, dear one.
Alice Wong created so much beauty and community, embodied fearless love, laughed and loved and defied eugenics overculture, insisted on crip erotics, claimed all that could never be taken away, and that brilliance will live on and on and on. ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🌸💓
November 15, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Alice Wong created so much beauty and community, embodied fearless love, laughed and loved and defied eugenics overculture, insisted on crip erotics, claimed all that could never be taken away, and that brilliance will live on and on and on. ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🌸💓
counting the seconds until escape
November 14, 2025 at 4:59 PM
counting the seconds until escape
please send protection and safety my ESA’s and my way as we hopefully leave in 3 days.
thankful for continued crowdfunding. thankful for a rental car reservation.
thankful for continued crowdfunding. thankful for a rental car reservation.
November 13, 2025 at 12:51 PM
please send protection and safety my ESA’s and my way as we hopefully leave in 3 days.
thankful for continued crowdfunding. thankful for a rental car reservation.
thankful for continued crowdfunding. thankful for a rental car reservation.
It’s snowing outside.
November 12, 2025 at 5:34 PM
It’s snowing outside.
please help us leave. we are in danger every day we stay.
please help. it’s snowing outside.
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please help. it’s snowing outside.
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November 12, 2025 at 5:19 PM
please help us leave. we are in danger every day we stay.
please help. it’s snowing outside.
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please help. it’s snowing outside.
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Called 911. Police are here.
November 12, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Called 911. Police are here.
“this country makes a lot more sense when you realize the ultimate goal for the democratic party is to stop the left from gaining power and ultimate goal for the republican party is to bring back slavery”
—Robert R. Raymond, AT robpertray.bsky.social , August 21, 2025
—Robert R. Raymond, AT robpertray.bsky.social , August 21, 2025
November 12, 2025 at 12:22 AM
“this country makes a lot more sense when you realize the ultimate goal for the democratic party is to stop the left from gaining power and ultimate goal for the republican party is to bring back slavery”
—Robert R. Raymond, AT robpertray.bsky.social , August 21, 2025
—Robert R. Raymond, AT robpertray.bsky.social , August 21, 2025
November 11, 2025 at 2:27 PM
snow outside tonight
November 11, 2025 at 1:19 AM
snow outside tonight
Today Esmé the ESA is 12. I had a turkey stick in my stash since I cannot get to grocery stores and am trapped in DV situation. Help us get out of here ASAP for a birthday wish. We need help fundraising for rental car and safer solo temp stay 🌸
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November 9, 2025 at 5:58 PM
Today Esmé the ESA is 12. I had a turkey stick in my stash since I cannot get to grocery stores and am trapped in DV situation. Help us get out of here ASAP for a birthday wish. We need help fundraising for rental car and safer solo temp stay 🌸
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“Hence I have no mercy or compassion in me for a society that will crush people, and then penalize them for not being able to stand up under the weight.”
—Malcolm X, el-Hajj Malik el-Shabazz
—Malcolm X, el-Hajj Malik el-Shabazz
November 6, 2025 at 6:57 PM
“Hence I have no mercy or compassion in me for a society that will crush people, and then penalize them for not being able to stand up under the weight.”
—Malcolm X, el-Hajj Malik el-Shabazz
—Malcolm X, el-Hajj Malik el-Shabazz
NEED: immediate temp places to stay while i prepare my car for titling & registration. if i can fundraise enough, i will be able to finally drive the car i bought Aug 2025.
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
URGENT
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gofund.me/30f83e084
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
URGENT
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gofund.me/30f83e084
November 6, 2025 at 2:29 PM
NEED: immediate temp places to stay while i prepare my car for titling & registration. if i can fundraise enough, i will be able to finally drive the car i bought Aug 2025.
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
URGENT
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gofund.me/30f83e084
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
URGENT
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gofund.me/30f83e084
a box of onions on the floor; onions are toxic to dogs.
when i move them, i am told, “don’t touch my things.”
when i move them, i am told, “don’t touch my things.”
November 6, 2025 at 12:54 PM
a box of onions on the floor; onions are toxic to dogs.
when i move them, i am told, “don’t touch my things.”
when i move them, i am told, “don’t touch my things.”
this morning my elderly dog got diarrhea because yesterday the person causing me harm put cat food on the floor directly in front of my dog. this same person put a box of raw onions on the kitchen floor. onions are toxic to dogs. we are not safe here. i record for my safety.
November 6, 2025 at 12:48 PM
this morning my elderly dog got diarrhea because yesterday the person causing me harm put cat food on the floor directly in front of my dog. this same person put a box of raw onions on the kitchen floor. onions are toxic to dogs. we are not safe here. i record for my safety.
NEED: immediate temporary places to stay for the next month while i prepare my car for titling and registration. if i can fundraise enough, i will be able to finally drive the car i bought Aug 2025.
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
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gofund.me/30f83e084
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
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gofund.me/30f83e084
November 5, 2025 at 8:27 PM
NEED: immediate temporary places to stay for the next month while i prepare my car for titling and registration. if i can fundraise enough, i will be able to finally drive the car i bought Aug 2025.
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
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gofund.me/30f83e084
stuck in a verbally and physically abusive place.
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gofund.me/30f83e084
earlier today, before the attack
November 5, 2025 at 5:18 AM
earlier today, before the attack
If you can help me fundraise to get out of here, please share my fundraiser. I am genuinely scared for my physical safety.
gofund.me/c3a9fc00e
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November 5, 2025 at 5:04 AM
If you can help me fundraise to get out of here, please share my fundraiser. I am genuinely scared for my physical safety.
gofund.me/c3a9fc00e
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