Skyler Jay
@skylerjay.bsky.social
Just a bisexual flight attendant with a theology degree. Would rather be dancing. They/them.
I declared 2025 my year of sapphic romance and it has NOT disappointed
April 13, 2025 at 2:12 AM
I declared 2025 my year of sapphic romance and it has NOT disappointed
I can’t stop thinking about the crew. Securing the cabin for landing, strapping into their jumpseats, grateful to be almost done with their day - to finally rest and have a hot meal. The things I do every work day. And then in an instant, just, gone.
January 31, 2025 at 6:03 PM
I can’t stop thinking about the crew. Securing the cabin for landing, strapping into their jumpseats, grateful to be almost done with their day - to finally rest and have a hot meal. The things I do every work day. And then in an instant, just, gone.
It’s been a really rough 12 hours for flight crew in the US. We all know the risks of the job, but it’s hard to reckon with the worst case scenario actually happening. #unitedbywings
January 30, 2025 at 2:07 PM
It’s been a really rough 12 hours for flight crew in the US. We all know the risks of the job, but it’s hard to reckon with the worst case scenario actually happening. #unitedbywings
Coping with the inauguration by doing counselor recruitment for queer camp feels like the right move today
January 20, 2025 at 9:46 PM
Coping with the inauguration by doing counselor recruitment for queer camp feels like the right move today
Freezing January day in Boston, and I’m in the parking garage in my dress and heels trying to fix my tire pressure. And all I can think is that I’m not this kind of lesbian.
January 15, 2025 at 8:45 PM
Freezing January day in Boston, and I’m in the parking garage in my dress and heels trying to fix my tire pressure. And all I can think is that I’m not this kind of lesbian.
Apparently working an inhumane schedule over the holidays leads to pneumonia. Who knew. So glamorous.
January 13, 2025 at 12:50 AM
Apparently working an inhumane schedule over the holidays leads to pneumonia. Who knew. So glamorous.
Speechless and full of gratitude at finally being able to hold my book in my hands. You can order it here if you haven’t already! www.ethelzine.com/shop/encount...
February 15, 2024 at 9:07 PM
Speechless and full of gratitude at finally being able to hold my book in my hands. You can order it here if you haven’t already! www.ethelzine.com/shop/encount...
Sneak peak: behind the table of contents! Pre-order ENCOUNTERS IN THE CRISIS ORDINARY here, shipping in February! www.ethelzine.com/shop/encount...
January 23, 2024 at 7:32 PM
Sneak peak: behind the table of contents! Pre-order ENCOUNTERS IN THE CRISIS ORDINARY here, shipping in February! www.ethelzine.com/shop/encount...
Preorder is live for my debut poetry collection, ENCOUNTERS IN THE CRISIS ORDINARY (Or, Embodiment Has Not Been Kind to Me Lately).
Meditations on grief and chronic illness. Ghosts, dreams, dancing and breaking at the edge of the void. It’s got it all, order now!
Meditations on grief and chronic illness. Ghosts, dreams, dancing and breaking at the edge of the void. It’s got it all, order now!
Pre-Order: Encounters in the Crisis Ordinary by Skyler J Keiter-Massefski — Ethel
*Pre-order: Will ship the beginning of February
2024/50 copies limited edition
Skyler Jay Keiter-Massefski is a theological anthropologist and flight
attendant. They have a degree in anthropology f...
www.ethelzine.com
January 15, 2024 at 7:33 PM
Preorder is live for my debut poetry collection, ENCOUNTERS IN THE CRISIS ORDINARY (Or, Embodiment Has Not Been Kind to Me Lately).
Meditations on grief and chronic illness. Ghosts, dreams, dancing and breaking at the edge of the void. It’s got it all, order now!
Meditations on grief and chronic illness. Ghosts, dreams, dancing and breaking at the edge of the void. It’s got it all, order now!
Where are my AAR people at? Looking forward to being in San Antonio with y’all next weekend!!
November 14, 2023 at 1:20 PM
Where are my AAR people at? Looking forward to being in San Antonio with y’all next weekend!!
I thank you god for this amazing day, and also for coffee. Mostly for coffee.
November 14, 2023 at 11:56 AM
I thank you god for this amazing day, and also for coffee. Mostly for coffee.
This body is a good body, because all bodies are good bodies. Even when it’s unwieldy. Even when it feels like my body and brain are at war with each other. Even when embodiment feels anything but kind to me. This body is such a good body.
Here’s to 10 years in recovery.
Here’s to 10 years in recovery.
November 11, 2023 at 2:54 AM
This body is a good body, because all bodies are good bodies. Even when it’s unwieldy. Even when it feels like my body and brain are at war with each other. Even when embodiment feels anything but kind to me. This body is such a good body.
Here’s to 10 years in recovery.
Here’s to 10 years in recovery.
How my day started: adorable kid who gave me cute drawings
Vs.
How my day is ending: broken plane
Vs.
How my day is ending: broken plane
November 9, 2023 at 10:47 PM
How my day started: adorable kid who gave me cute drawings
Vs.
How my day is ending: broken plane
Vs.
How my day is ending: broken plane
Sunrise over the tarmac *almost* makes up for the fact that crew scheduling woke me up at 2am
November 8, 2023 at 10:59 AM
Sunrise over the tarmac *almost* makes up for the fact that crew scheduling woke me up at 2am
Overworked. Underslept. Thriving.
November 7, 2023 at 12:07 AM
Overworked. Underslept. Thriving.
Fascinated by the people on planes who hold onto their empty plastic cups when I’m coming through to collect waste as if it’s their emotional support trash
November 5, 2023 at 5:25 PM
Fascinated by the people on planes who hold onto their empty plastic cups when I’m coming through to collect waste as if it’s their emotional support trash
Part of me feels like I’m back in high school, but wow we love a good sapphic flirtation
November 5, 2023 at 1:35 PM
Part of me feels like I’m back in high school, but wow we love a good sapphic flirtation
Anyone know fun things to do in Detroit? I’ve got an entire day there on Monday and have never been before!
November 4, 2023 at 5:19 PM
Anyone know fun things to do in Detroit? I’ve got an entire day there on Monday and have never been before!
It’s been a long week:
5 days
7 airports
35 flight hours
13,728 miles flown
3 crew scheduling mishaps
1 mechanical delay
Not enough sleep
No idea what time zone I’m in
A lot of gratitude for this whole wild ride
5 days
7 airports
35 flight hours
13,728 miles flown
3 crew scheduling mishaps
1 mechanical delay
Not enough sleep
No idea what time zone I’m in
A lot of gratitude for this whole wild ride
October 31, 2023 at 10:04 PM
It’s been a long week:
5 days
7 airports
35 flight hours
13,728 miles flown
3 crew scheduling mishaps
1 mechanical delay
Not enough sleep
No idea what time zone I’m in
A lot of gratitude for this whole wild ride
5 days
7 airports
35 flight hours
13,728 miles flown
3 crew scheduling mishaps
1 mechanical delay
Not enough sleep
No idea what time zone I’m in
A lot of gratitude for this whole wild ride
I got called away to work a 3 day trip and accidentally left my meds in Portland. Had a panic attack because I didn’t know how to get through work without them. But…instead of crashing all this fog in my brain lifted and I felt more myself than I’ve been in like a year??? Wacky.
October 30, 2023 at 4:55 PM
I got called away to work a 3 day trip and accidentally left my meds in Portland. Had a panic attack because I didn’t know how to get through work without them. But…instead of crashing all this fog in my brain lifted and I felt more myself than I’ve been in like a year??? Wacky.
I don’t care if it’s 3 years from now, the next Orlando flight I work will be too soon
October 28, 2023 at 6:39 PM
I don’t care if it’s 3 years from now, the next Orlando flight I work will be too soon
I didn’t come to Vegas for the casinos. I came for the canyons.
October 25, 2023 at 8:49 PM
I didn’t come to Vegas for the casinos. I came for the canyons.
Nice to know that I still get the night-before-vacation excitement flutters while packing even though I mostly live out of suitcases and am always flying for work
October 23, 2023 at 11:45 PM
Nice to know that I still get the night-before-vacation excitement flutters while packing even though I mostly live out of suitcases and am always flying for work
I went to church this morning and managed to get roped into playing brass for Christmas Eve and uhhhhh…I guess I need to get my face in shape
October 22, 2023 at 11:43 PM
I went to church this morning and managed to get roped into playing brass for Christmas Eve and uhhhhh…I guess I need to get my face in shape
What if we kissed in the bar under the sign that says “um, gay”???
October 19, 2023 at 6:19 PM
What if we kissed in the bar under the sign that says “um, gay”???