update: i found the deadname pencil and feel like an asshole

the problem with the deadname pencil is it was given to me in appreciation for several years of service at my first school so it has sentimental value even if it has my deadname on it. but it's written in japanese so it like... kinda doesn't count?

i will take it as being one of the types of randos who lucks into a following/finds lots of cool mutuals (and i definitely have lots of cool mutuals)

i was hot and cold on the vox machina series, but they have clearly learned a lot in making that and how they're adapting campaign 2 and just yeah, it's a good show so far

like i dunno, we try not thinking of it as t4t and she doesn't want to think of it as queer but it's *really* queer and finally admitted to as such so like i dunno there's hope for us all