james, gay and tired, says
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james, gay and tired, says
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why can a shocking amount of discourse be boiled down to
June 5, 2025 at 10:32 AM
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They argue who is and who is not a woman in tune with the nation state's view on which women it wants to be wifed up and impregnated. It's why they degender both Black cis women (and brown cis women in general) and trans women. We are not doing the imperial role, so we can't be women like them.
June 5, 2025 at 11:43 AM
....add another six hours of troubleshooting to the counter....
June 2, 2025 at 10:21 PM
the real question is, what new computer skill will i be forced to teach myself in order to get a playable gamestate this time???
June 2, 2025 at 6:02 PM
me, staring at Vortex and the NVIDIA app, trying to figure out if the issue is my complex mod setup, my extremely out of date hardware, or unreal engine being a bitch: man, oblivion really is just the same as i remembered!!
June 2, 2025 at 6:02 PM
and obviously, yes, i could IN THEORY play without mods. we call that "booting up the second copy i bought for xbox".
June 2, 2025 at 6:00 PM
after 6+ hours of troubleshooting, a 14 hour ram test, and completely reinstalling the game, i've upgraded "crashes to desktop within three minutes of play" to "freezes within five minutes of play" so at least we're getting somewhere!!
June 2, 2025 at 5:58 PM
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at the same time, "calling these people 'trans woman' is Western colonialist but calling them 'non-binary third genders' is a totally value-neutral descriptive free of the discursive taint of the West!" is an opinion sincerely expressed by many such Very Serious Gender Theorists

incoherent
June 2, 2025 at 4:30 PM
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Androphilic trans women are not gay men, or vice versa. But there's something homoousian about our social locations and oppression.

"Homosexual" is a relatively modern construction. Transmisogyny and anti-effeminacy, though, are very old.
March 19, 2025 at 5:14 PM
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This is also why gay communities and other environments in which there's frequent sexual contact between "males" usually have implicit or explicit systems for working out gender hierarchy and proximity to masculinity. "Which one is the man?"
March 19, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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I promise I'll gussy it up in dense academic writing so you can all cite it without being embarrassed, but "IF YOU TAKE IT UP THE ASS YOU'RE A WOMAN, FAGGOT" has been a pretty core component of patriarchy and (trans)misogyny for a long, long time, in many, many cultures.
March 19, 2025 at 5:33 PM
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As a hobby, I have personally laid off 3,000 CIA agents who now have nothing but free time and resentment. This was probably a smart decision
March 9, 2025 at 5:12 PM