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Seth🌸
@sethmatsie.bsky.social
Helping women & parents heal, grow, and thrive through compassionate counselling and supportive coaching.✨️
Healing is a long, slow, and sometimes excruciating process. Remember this on the days when it feels like you're making zero progress.
March 28, 2025 at 9:05 PM
A person can mean well but engage in actions that cause harm. Addressing the harm caused does not necessarily bring into question their generally good character. It should be acceptable to make them aware that they caused harm so they have an opportunity to make it right.
December 4, 2024 at 10:09 PM
Keep a record of the good things that happen to you. ✨️
December 2, 2024 at 7:32 AM
Triggers are opportunities that present to us something that needs to be healed.
#women
November 26, 2024 at 10:44 AM
You can't make anyone love you, cherish you, or see you. They either do or they don't. There is no working our way to that. The sooner we make peace with that & go find those who just love, cherish, & see us, the better. They exist, I promise.
#Blacksky
November 22, 2024 at 2:54 PM
The way the likelihood of me buying a dress/skirt skyrockets when it has pockets concerns me. I'll be thinking "oh it's nice" then I'm instantly convinced, "It's incredible, and I've got to have it" when I see the pockets🤭🤭 they have me hacked I fear 😅 #blacksky
November 21, 2024 at 1:09 PM
"I can buy myself flowers
Write my name in the sand
Talk to myself for hours
Say things you don't understand
I can take myself dancing
And I can hold my own hand
Yeah, I can love me better than you can"
One of my favorite "reminder songs" that I can make me happy too🩵💜💚💛🩷
#love #growth #healing
November 19, 2024 at 4:29 PM
A lot of people believe what they believe because they want to. So you engaging in debates with them thinking that they'll change their minds when presented with new information is wasted energy. They'll keep pivoting & changing goal posts until they want to believe differently. Which may be never.
November 18, 2024 at 7:55 AM
To the me that's my ideal self because she's done the work: see you soon Beaut!✨️💛✨️
November 17, 2024 at 8:19 AM
Anything that works against you can work for you. In the same way you can say you'll watch only one episode then end up watching 3, just get your start in with your goals. Say you'll spend only 10 minutes on that task. Just a 5 minute stretch. Just a 3 minute walk outside & let momentum do the rest✨️
November 17, 2024 at 7:16 AM
Sometimes, the hurt we experienced as children leaves us in a waiting for someone else to protect us, accept us, or see us. We become obsessed with giving that which we hope someone will one day give to us -convinced that the way to receive love is to empty ourselves in service to others. 1
November 16, 2024 at 8:13 PM
Apt. The ultimate accomplishment in a world that thrives on the dislike of ourselves, is to actually like ourselves- flaws and all.
November 16, 2024 at 2:42 PM
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Bluesky,

Today is my 2nd day on here as an escapee from The Bad Place. I am BEGGING y’all to repost this

I have $80,000 in scholarship money to give away to women and girls NATIONWIDE. I worked so hard to raise this money. Applications open THIS week. I’m scared the mass migration will impact this
November 11, 2024 at 2:49 PM
People hear what they want to hear a lot of the time; even if you've been really careful about expressing yourself in a loving, kind & non-judgemental way.
November 15, 2024 at 5:54 PM
The trick is to find people who love peaches✨️
November 15, 2024 at 3:15 PM
“I hope you will go out and let stories, that is life, happen to you, and that you will work with these stories... water them with your blood and tears and your laughter till they bloom, till you yourself burst into bloom.” Women Who Run with Wolves #women #growth
November 15, 2024 at 9:04 AM
Quote this post with a random image you have saved.
November 15, 2024 at 7:55 AM
Introduce yourself with

one book 📚
one movie 🎥
one album 💿
one tv show 📺
November 15, 2024 at 7:46 AM
Humming is how I stimulate my vagus nerve, soothe myself and manage my anxiety.
November 15, 2024 at 7:04 AM
"If there was nothing else, reading would-obviously- be worth living for." Nuala O’Faolain
One of the best things in the world, the ability to read and access to wonderful things to read 📚
November 15, 2024 at 6:39 AM
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ALSO for newbies courtesy of @itsritz.bsky.social
November 8, 2024 at 4:05 PM
"When the dog bites, when the bee stings
When I'm feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don't feel so bad"🎶🎧🎶
I love that we can sometimes shift the focus, if only for a little while, to get us through to the next moment💛
November 14, 2024 at 8:20 PM
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November 14, 2024 at 6:10 PM
Love is still the most transformative force we have at our disposal.
November 14, 2024 at 12:47 PM