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scantquarter.bsky.social
carl 🧡🤍🩷
@scantquarter.bsky.social
she/her • 31 • AuDHD • lesbian • friend of dorothea

former lurker learning to lurk less so I stop annoying my friends/family about my special interest

also bartending in washington dc as the world is ending so occasionally that too 🇵🇸

18+ pls
ALEXA PLAY KARMA IS MY BOYFRIEND
December 18, 2025 at 8:33 PM
there is at least one week a year where it’s my most streamed song (rip the neighbor that shares a shower wall with me)
December 17, 2025 at 5:33 PM
HA to me yes! i have a couple huge taylor playlists that have a good chunk of the discography on there but it’s rare that i go rogue like this
December 17, 2025 at 4:50 PM
okay i know i’m late to this buuut

fav on least fav is im only me when im with you (but my real answer is i’d lie)

least fav on fav is so high school
December 17, 2025 at 2:19 PM
happy birthday!!! i understand that particular feeling about aging very well. so glad you’re here 🩷🫂
December 17, 2025 at 2:12 PM
it’s definitely a tricky line to walk! i feel a little more pressure to give great service because i know what im asking of people when they pay, but the restaurant is also in the business district & most people are relieved to have an accurate receipt that they can expense without thinking too much
December 15, 2025 at 2:40 PM
I work in a fairly upscale restaurant in DC that has an auto grat (of 20%) and even though its printed on the menus we are REQUIRED to highlight it on the checks, verbally tell the guest as they’re paying, and remove it for takeaway orders. an obscure 25% is insane and dishonest.
December 15, 2025 at 2:33 PM
SAME i am so stoked to see it!!!
December 15, 2025 at 1:10 PM
my thoughts exactly!!! i had to back it up because it surprised me so much
December 13, 2025 at 5:05 AM
and this is all coming at a time where i’ve decided to be completely sober and feel all of my feelings all the time instead of self medicating, so the distraction/endorphins i’ve gotten all day are so needed. just lots of love over here 🥰🥰🥰
December 13, 2025 at 3:30 AM
distant parasocial way. i always feel like there’s a rule book i wasn’t given when it comes to social interactions (even online), and im just really appreciate of this space as a place where i can kind of work some of those things out for myself.
December 13, 2025 at 3:30 AM
when my ex broke off our engagement because she wasn’t “in love with all of me anymore” after i realized i was autistic. i’m not as good at all the theories as most of you are and you’re all so fucking smart and make me feel so seen for loving this special little part of myself, even in a very
December 13, 2025 at 3:29 AM
i want to get “sleeper cell of autistic sapphics” on a tote bag or something omg
December 12, 2025 at 7:54 PM