Lost but Seeking
@redlost.bsky.social
Love to lose control over my mind and situation, to be used for someone else's pleasure. The more helpless you get me, the better 🤤.
Happy to chat and/or have some fun. DMs open (mid-30, male, Delft).
🇳🇱🧎♂️⛓️🪢🏳️🌈
Happy to chat and/or have some fun. DMs open (mid-30, male, Delft).
🇳🇱🧎♂️⛓️🪢🏳️🌈
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Lost but Seeking
@redlost.bsky.social
· Aug 1
Crave to please someone that'd enjoy having me helpless and under their control. Into gradual loss of control, bondage, denial, edging, submission, hypno. Also like (board)games, tRPGs, dance, theatre, and creative projects.
Happy to chat and/or have some fun!
🇳🇱🏳️🌈♂️🪢⛓️🧎
Mid-30s, pan, sub, Netherlands
Happy to chat and/or have some fun!
🇳🇱🏳️🌈♂️🪢⛓️🧎
Mid-30s, pan, sub, Netherlands
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February 10, 2026 at 1:19 AM
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A new JFF superfan is enjoying my 509 videos, 5690 photos, with 7737 likes. See ALL my content at: justfor.fans/JamesBondageSX?Source=NewFanBlueSky
February 11, 2026 at 10:35 PM
A new JFF superfan is enjoying my 509 videos, 5690 photos, with 7737 likes. See ALL my content at: justfor.fans/JamesBondageSX?Source=NewFanBlueSky
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February 11, 2026 at 11:56 PM
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After a long, hard week, it feels so good to get into bed for a long, hard struggle
February 7, 2026 at 2:24 AM
After a long, hard week, it feels so good to get into bed for a long, hard struggle
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January 28, 2026 at 5:41 PM
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Wish I was still struggling on @londonropetop.bsky.social 's floor 🥺
January 24, 2026 at 12:12 PM
Wish I was still struggling on @londonropetop.bsky.social 's floor 🥺
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January 24, 2026 at 5:39 AM
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Hotel kidnapping
📸⛓️: Lodorot (Recon)
📸⛓️: Lodorot (Recon)
January 23, 2026 at 8:05 AM
Hotel kidnapping
📸⛓️: Lodorot (Recon)
📸⛓️: Lodorot (Recon)
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Feeling inspired after being back in the #shibari studio for lessons last week and got to put it into practice for this #TiedUpTuesday
🐰 @wonderwoof.bsky.social
#meninrope #menropingmen #mentyingmen #malebondage #maleshibari #ropebondage
🐰 @wonderwoof.bsky.social
#meninrope #menropingmen #mentyingmen #malebondage #maleshibari #ropebondage
April 29, 2025 at 2:51 PM
Feeling inspired after being back in the #shibari studio for lessons last week and got to put it into practice for this #TiedUpTuesday
🐰 @wonderwoof.bsky.social
#meninrope #menropingmen #mentyingmen #malebondage #maleshibari #ropebondage
🐰 @wonderwoof.bsky.social
#meninrope #menropingmen #mentyingmen #malebondage #maleshibari #ropebondage
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A week ago, my lovely Dutch sub @redlost.bsky.social arrived in the UK for a weekend of introductory training as a sub boi. He is the most amazing courteous sub - a real inspiration to other sub bois.
Here he is losing his mind under the Christmas tree
Here he is losing his mind under the Christmas tree
December 19, 2025 at 5:27 AM
A week ago, my lovely Dutch sub @redlost.bsky.social arrived in the UK for a weekend of introductory training as a sub boi. He is the most amazing courteous sub - a real inspiration to other sub bois.
Here he is losing his mind under the Christmas tree
Here he is losing his mind under the Christmas tree
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The lovely Dutch boi is back for the weekend @redlost.bsky.social
January 9, 2026 at 7:49 PM
The lovely Dutch boi is back for the weekend @redlost.bsky.social
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How my boi slept @redlost.bsky.social
January 10, 2026 at 7:37 AM
How my boi slept @redlost.bsky.social
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Afternoon nap 😴
@ropekidnapper.bsky.social
@ropekidnapper.bsky.social
January 20, 2026 at 3:17 PM
Afternoon nap 😴
@ropekidnapper.bsky.social
@ropekidnapper.bsky.social
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Who’s an unbeweavably knotty orange rope doggo?
@puptang.bsky.social 🍊
@puptang.bsky.social 🍊
November 18, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Who’s an unbeweavably knotty orange rope doggo?
@puptang.bsky.social 🍊
@puptang.bsky.social 🍊
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Being an introvert had its drawbacks & he realized that the others had forgotten about him. Hours after smelling their barbecued dinner from the other side of the cabin, the muted noises from inside gave no indication of him being freed anytime soon & still he debated if he wanted to be freed or not
November 19, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Being an introvert had its drawbacks & he realized that the others had forgotten about him. Hours after smelling their barbecued dinner from the other side of the cabin, the muted noises from inside gave no indication of him being freed anytime soon & still he debated if he wanted to be freed or not
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... the intimacy of that photo afternoon was so incredibly intense...
July 19, 2025 at 4:51 PM
... the intimacy of that photo afternoon was so incredibly intense...
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... a great memory ... from the archives ..
November 2, 2025 at 8:44 AM
... a great memory ... from the archives ..
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presenting itself at Amsterdam's Club Church ... @greenboysub.bsky.social
November 7, 2025 at 12:59 PM
presenting itself at Amsterdam's Club Church ... @greenboysub.bsky.social
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'Cause you just wanna play games, but you never play fair
(w/ @switchinadam [insta])
(w/ @switchinadam [insta])
November 9, 2025 at 6:04 PM
'Cause you just wanna play games, but you never play fair
(w/ @switchinadam [insta])
(w/ @switchinadam [insta])