Hi

Hey! @pupivory.bsky.social and @puplexxi.bsky.social were there too! We love you Capo was so good to see you!

I shared this thread because so many people who I *don't* fuck (or who are jealous of whom I do fuck with) with want to make it because I'm shallow.

Truth is there is a lot to me they don't see because I don't reveal it to everyone.

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.

People who can keep up with me.

I'm ADHD. I'm always on the go. I am scatter-brained *squirrel!* If someone gets annoyed by that, they need to go. People have tried to change me. Hell, I've tried to change me. It caused me pain and shame. I'm past that point. Rock with my boat, or disembark!

People who have confidence.

Self-deprecating humor notwithstanding, easiest way to lose my interest is to lack confidence. I'll switch from wanting to date/fuck you to being a big bro and encouraging you, but even if you find that confidence, our ship has sailed.

People who are driven.

I work hard. I take initiative. I had a relationship with someone who did the minimum and never wanted more. It created so much tension and I'll never do it again. Wanting something in life and actually working towards it is my biggest turn on.

People who are shorter or smaller.

I am the eldest of a large family. I was always looked up to by my siblings, and always the tallest and biggest. I find being the bigger person physically is a safe space for me where I feel I naturally belong.

People who have less hair.

I had a full chest of hair and bushy beard at 16. I was bullied for it. I never liked my own hair. I find those with less hair to be sexy.

And I a still find a fuzzy butt very sexy.

People who have a penis, regardless of their expressed gender and expression of gender norms.

Because I like peen and I value authenticity.