other people, obsessed with micro-managing your own comfort levels and oblivious to how you're shutting others down.

Everyone is different and everyone is a little bit uncomfortable or off-putting because of that. Learn to make friends with some discomfort and get over yourself.

responding to them with your initial reaction instead of a charitable one. You're not going to stop and consider your biases. You won't do something difficult for the sake of helping someone in need. You'll just stay in your little tar pit and wonder why you don't have any true connections with

adult topics in a thoughtful way in the safe space of fiction, even if it makes you uncomfortable, primes you to better parse all sort of new and initially off-putting things even irl. Ideas, people, etc.
If you constantly turn away things that make you uncomfortable, you're going to start

I think people should be mindful of other's boundaries but I think that being made "uncomfortable" isn't an excuse to limit free discussion and hurts people's ability to accept others' differences. This is why subversive and uncomfortable art is so important to be openly shared; learning to approach

OH NOOOO.... what goofballs. Hope recovery is going well still 💕

And my spouse is the most supportive of them all 💕💕💕
Love being able to share the same porn and be the most comfortable with them. It's genuinely done so much for my mental health, it's crazy.