Phoebe Howell
@phoebeismebee.bsky.social
Software engineer, trans woman, lover of cute and weird things
she/her
she/her
If you are well-connected and follow what's happening on trans Bluesky absolutely yes
I'm not saying it as a wholly unique point, more just emphasizing a falacy that might be underlying some of the resistance here in case the thread is seen by people who are less online (whatever the odds)
I'm not saying it as a wholly unique point, more just emphasizing a falacy that might be underlying some of the resistance here in case the thread is seen by people who are less online (whatever the odds)
November 10, 2025 at 9:25 PM
If you are well-connected and follow what's happening on trans Bluesky absolutely yes
I'm not saying it as a wholly unique point, more just emphasizing a falacy that might be underlying some of the resistance here in case the thread is seen by people who are less online (whatever the odds)
I'm not saying it as a wholly unique point, more just emphasizing a falacy that might be underlying some of the resistance here in case the thread is seen by people who are less online (whatever the odds)
@parkermolloy.com and @chrisgeidner.bsky.social have somewhat different niches with their publications, but they are excellent at what they do and cover trans issues very well
November 10, 2025 at 8:22 PM
@parkermolloy.com and @chrisgeidner.bsky.social have somewhat different niches with their publications, but they are excellent at what they do and cover trans issues very well
Something it's also worth noting is that just because EITM is covering something or putting out more articles, doesn't necessarily mean those things are necessarily that significant
In which case you shouldn't try point to parallel coverage, because it wasn't needed in the first place
In which case you shouldn't try point to parallel coverage, because it wasn't needed in the first place
November 10, 2025 at 8:17 PM
Something it's also worth noting is that just because EITM is covering something or putting out more articles, doesn't necessarily mean those things are necessarily that significant
In which case you shouldn't try point to parallel coverage, because it wasn't needed in the first place
In which case you shouldn't try point to parallel coverage, because it wasn't needed in the first place
I also recommend following these people on Bluesky - as a trans person, hearing different commentary helps a lot
November 10, 2025 at 8:15 PM
I also recommend following these people on Bluesky - as a trans person, hearing different commentary helps a lot
This article by @madycast.com alone has been a continual source of meaning and inspiration for me
transnews.network/p/reagan-era...
transnews.network/p/reagan-era...
Reagan-Era AIDS Activists Call for New ACT UP-Style Movement for Trans Liberation
In an exclusive interview, two prominent members of ACT UP, which has been credited with saving millions of lives, hope to inspire younger LGBTQ activists to embark on a bold trans liberation movement
transnews.network
November 10, 2025 at 8:15 PM
This article by @madycast.com alone has been a continual source of meaning and inspiration for me
transnews.network/p/reagan-era...
transnews.network/p/reagan-era...
@transnews.network is awesome and consists of the fantastic work of people like @madycast.com @thefreeradical.org @davidforbes.bsky.social @ket.bsky.social @tomatoslayers.bsky.social
November 10, 2025 at 8:15 PM
@transnews.network is awesome and consists of the fantastic work of people like @madycast.com @thefreeradical.org @davidforbes.bsky.social @ket.bsky.social @tomatoslayers.bsky.social
Still here 💜
I will keep sharing + sending money as long as I can and hopefully, as long as it takes for you to feel stable again
You've got this!!!
I will keep sharing + sending money as long as I can and hopefully, as long as it takes for you to feel stable again
You've got this!!!
November 8, 2025 at 6:24 AM
Still here 💜
I will keep sharing + sending money as long as I can and hopefully, as long as it takes for you to feel stable again
You've got this!!!
I will keep sharing + sending money as long as I can and hopefully, as long as it takes for you to feel stable again
You've got this!!!
I can deal with normal anxiety (allegedly), but the possibility that I can't even tell the difference between everyone hating me and being not good enough for some arbitrary corporate standards often makes me want to give up trying to say things and go back into read-only mode
November 8, 2025 at 5:58 AM
I can deal with normal anxiety (allegedly), but the possibility that I can't even tell the difference between everyone hating me and being not good enough for some arbitrary corporate standards often makes me want to give up trying to say things and go back into read-only mode
the auto-hide reply / down ranking thing makes my anxiety worse
in addition to all the normal things that might be indicated by being ignored (unfunny, weird, dumb, bad, etc) and other concerns about existing on social media, I also get to worry about if I'm being judged by a fucking AI
in addition to all the normal things that might be indicated by being ignored (unfunny, weird, dumb, bad, etc) and other concerns about existing on social media, I also get to worry about if I'm being judged by a fucking AI
November 8, 2025 at 5:58 AM
the auto-hide reply / down ranking thing makes my anxiety worse
in addition to all the normal things that might be indicated by being ignored (unfunny, weird, dumb, bad, etc) and other concerns about existing on social media, I also get to worry about if I'm being judged by a fucking AI
in addition to all the normal things that might be indicated by being ignored (unfunny, weird, dumb, bad, etc) and other concerns about existing on social media, I also get to worry about if I'm being judged by a fucking AI
not to imply this is a hang up other people have, but just to say that doing something "irresponsible" in a safe way is actually okay and kind of the definition of being responsible
😂
😂
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
not to imply this is a hang up other people have, but just to say that doing something "irresponsible" in a safe way is actually okay and kind of the definition of being responsible
😂
😂
years ago I talked to my therapist about how irresponsible it feels to stay up until 4am hyper focused on something when I have time and she asked me
"did anything bad happen?"
"no... maybe in some minor ways, but not really"
"then you were a responsible adult. adults are allowed to make choices"
"did anything bad happen?"
"no... maybe in some minor ways, but not really"
"then you were a responsible adult. adults are allowed to make choices"
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
years ago I talked to my therapist about how irresponsible it feels to stay up until 4am hyper focused on something when I have time and she asked me
"did anything bad happen?"
"no... maybe in some minor ways, but not really"
"then you were a responsible adult. adults are allowed to make choices"
"did anything bad happen?"
"no... maybe in some minor ways, but not really"
"then you were a responsible adult. adults are allowed to make choices"
good news - adults are allowed to do this!!!
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
good news - adults are allowed to do this!!!
Labeled as 'rude'. Okay Bluesky.
"Fucked" seems like the polite term here relative to other things in my head... 🙄
"Fucked" seems like the polite term here relative to other things in my head... 🙄
November 7, 2025 at 4:41 AM
Labeled as 'rude'. Okay Bluesky.
"Fucked" seems like the polite term here relative to other things in my head... 🙄
"Fucked" seems like the polite term here relative to other things in my head... 🙄
Yeah, I hate those darn trans issues!!1!
They took our normal issues (bad enough) and made them trans (ugh!!!)
They took our normal issues (bad enough) and made them trans (ugh!!!)
November 6, 2025 at 11:38 PM
Yeah, I hate those darn trans issues!!1!
They took our normal issues (bad enough) and made them trans (ugh!!!)
They took our normal issues (bad enough) and made them trans (ugh!!!)
god, it's dripping with that so-often repeated, smug dehumanization
"Haha, fucking tr*****s, even when the people wanting to destroy you fail, it's important to remember nobody really cares about whether you exist
Popularity is everything!!"
"Haha, fucking tr*****s, even when the people wanting to destroy you fail, it's important to remember nobody really cares about whether you exist
Popularity is everything!!"
November 6, 2025 at 11:19 PM
god, it's dripping with that so-often repeated, smug dehumanization
"Haha, fucking tr*****s, even when the people wanting to destroy you fail, it's important to remember nobody really cares about whether you exist
Popularity is everything!!"
"Haha, fucking tr*****s, even when the people wanting to destroy you fail, it's important to remember nobody really cares about whether you exist
Popularity is everything!!"
I struggle with this and I know a lot of people who do too
Please remember to be kind to yourself - Mia is going through a lot 🫂♥️
Please remember to be kind to yourself - Mia is going through a lot 🫂♥️
November 6, 2025 at 7:19 AM
I struggle with this and I know a lot of people who do too
Please remember to be kind to yourself - Mia is going through a lot 🫂♥️
Please remember to be kind to yourself - Mia is going through a lot 🫂♥️
The pinnacle of techmeowolgy
November 6, 2025 at 6:37 AM
The pinnacle of techmeowolgy
But as we know, every system of control contains within itself contradictions that are the seed for it's own destruction, and since our personal struggles and relationships are not separate from the systems that enslave us, an evolved class consciousness and rebellion is inevitable
...in Minecraft
...in Minecraft
November 5, 2025 at 9:22 AM
But as we know, every system of control contains within itself contradictions that are the seed for it's own destruction, and since our personal struggles and relationships are not separate from the systems that enslave us, an evolved class consciousness and rebellion is inevitable
...in Minecraft
...in Minecraft