Didn't mean for it to end up being 12k words, and need to add and work on the dialogue. Me and my big ideas, this was just meant to be a daft joke 😂

yeah, it's a weird debate that has really extreme views on both sides with people trying to police other people's bodies and I feel really uncomfortable when encountering either.

like, my enjoyment of it comes from their enjoyment, even though it's not making me feel anything.

I think that's probably the most inaccurate bit. I think I should be neutral but I think because I'm so negative against being completely dominated, it put me as dominant. What I prefer is an equal balance, and if I'm doing something to "dominate" someone, it's because it's their thing, not mine.

just let people be comfortable in their own bodies and make their own decisions. Trying to shame people by saying they're part of harmful practises or regimes seems unhelpful.

Just like, if someone is choosing to share their naked body with you, either through pornography or in a relationship, celebrate that person and be grateful? I am attracted to people with and without body hair, and I don't think others should try to dictate to anyone about how they should look.

arguments over hygiene are ridiculous, as it doesn't matter either way, that depends on how the person lives their life, their access to washing etc. I think people on either side need to stop making huge, sweeping generalisations that could cause massive body dysmorphia.

I dislike having it in certain places on my body and will remove it because it bothers me or makes me feel uncomfortable. I imagine that I'm not the only person who feels like that.

Yes. Yes I do.

the tapeworm has taken over her mind.

why does that happen?! I swear the horniest I'll ever get is when I'm sick.

I'm sure you get told this every 30 seconds but your hair is the most beautiful I've seen in my entire life. 😍