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"Please remit payment."
Say less.
Say less.
January 28, 2026 at 10:31 PM
"Please remit payment."
Say less.
Say less.
It's been 22 years since Mandy Patinkin was in Dead Like Me, but I never stopped saying "I gotta make a sissy"
January 28, 2026 at 3:43 PM
It's been 22 years since Mandy Patinkin was in Dead Like Me, but I never stopped saying "I gotta make a sissy"
For me, autism understands stillness as regulatory.
For me, PTSD understands stillness as powerlessness.
For me, stillness is both the safest place, and a reminder of danger.
PTSD doesn't just dislike quiet: PTSD interrupts quiet aggressively.
For me, PTSD understands stillness as powerlessness.
For me, stillness is both the safest place, and a reminder of danger.
PTSD doesn't just dislike quiet: PTSD interrupts quiet aggressively.
January 28, 2026 at 3:52 AM
For me, autism understands stillness as regulatory.
For me, PTSD understands stillness as powerlessness.
For me, stillness is both the safest place, and a reminder of danger.
PTSD doesn't just dislike quiet: PTSD interrupts quiet aggressively.
For me, PTSD understands stillness as powerlessness.
For me, stillness is both the safest place, and a reminder of danger.
PTSD doesn't just dislike quiet: PTSD interrupts quiet aggressively.
Today I had the distinct privilege of joining my 14 year old son in a walkout to protest the presence of Immigration and Customs Enforcement in Arizona schools.
I'm proud to carry on the tradition of civil disobedience with my children, and beyond.
I'm proud to carry on the tradition of civil disobedience with my children, and beyond.
January 28, 2026 at 2:14 AM
Today I had the distinct privilege of joining my 14 year old son in a walkout to protest the presence of Immigration and Customs Enforcement in Arizona schools.
I'm proud to carry on the tradition of civil disobedience with my children, and beyond.
I'm proud to carry on the tradition of civil disobedience with my children, and beyond.
"Lawful speech is speech that remains protected unless ... it is adjudicated to fall within a recognized constitutional exception."
Read Part 2 of Lawful Speech Versus "Free Speech": Anticipated Objections and Responses, from The Onion Madder Archives
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Read Part 2 of Lawful Speech Versus "Free Speech": Anticipated Objections and Responses, from The Onion Madder Archives
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January 28, 2026 at 1:35 AM
"Lawful speech is speech that remains protected unless ... it is adjudicated to fall within a recognized constitutional exception."
Read Part 2 of Lawful Speech Versus "Free Speech": Anticipated Objections and Responses, from The Onion Madder Archives
onionmadder.com/archives/fir...
Read Part 2 of Lawful Speech Versus "Free Speech": Anticipated Objections and Responses, from The Onion Madder Archives
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Me, a New Hampshirite from birth: I am not inherently pro-gun, but I am an American and therefore firmly believe in the Second Amendment.
My husband, an Indian from birth: I am inherently anti-gun, but as a green card holder in 2026, I firmly believe in the Second Amendment.
My husband, an Indian from birth: I am inherently anti-gun, but as a green card holder in 2026, I firmly believe in the Second Amendment.
January 27, 2026 at 7:36 AM
Me, a New Hampshirite from birth: I am not inherently pro-gun, but I am an American and therefore firmly believe in the Second Amendment.
My husband, an Indian from birth: I am inherently anti-gun, but as a green card holder in 2026, I firmly believe in the Second Amendment.
My husband, an Indian from birth: I am inherently anti-gun, but as a green card holder in 2026, I firmly believe in the Second Amendment.
Without being dramatic, or with my very best attempts to refrain from being so:
I have come to understand that some specific set of people are attempting to engineer a situation in which my innate psychological inadequacies are abused to cause my social, emotional, or possibly physical demise.
I have come to understand that some specific set of people are attempting to engineer a situation in which my innate psychological inadequacies are abused to cause my social, emotional, or possibly physical demise.
January 27, 2026 at 7:03 AM
Without being dramatic, or with my very best attempts to refrain from being so:
I have come to understand that some specific set of people are attempting to engineer a situation in which my innate psychological inadequacies are abused to cause my social, emotional, or possibly physical demise.
I have come to understand that some specific set of people are attempting to engineer a situation in which my innate psychological inadequacies are abused to cause my social, emotional, or possibly physical demise.
Symbolic compliance performs "restraint" to preserve legitimacy and retain control.
The biggest risk in this moment is something sociologists call “symbolic compliance.”
That’s when an institution that is violating civil rights gives the public just enough symbolic victories that accountability efforts lose steam before there has been any meaningful change.
That’s when an institution that is violating civil rights gives the public just enough symbolic victories that accountability efforts lose steam before there has been any meaningful change.
January 27, 2026 at 5:22 AM
Symbolic compliance performs "restraint" to preserve legitimacy and retain control.
I am tired, I need to rest. This is so much more exhausting than I realized it would be.
More tomorrow, if I can.
I'm gonna need another bottle of gin.
More tomorrow, if I can.
I'm gonna need another bottle of gin.
January 27, 2026 at 5:08 AM
I am tired, I need to rest. This is so much more exhausting than I realized it would be.
More tomorrow, if I can.
I'm gonna need another bottle of gin.
More tomorrow, if I can.
I'm gonna need another bottle of gin.
I was unaware that my stalker had managed to attend four separate hearings, attempting to acquire an HRO which they refused to grant until they finally gave up and issued by default, with no appearance by me, and not signed by a judge
A blank default order: never served, never argued, never signed
A blank default order: never served, never argued, never signed
January 27, 2026 at 5:07 AM
I was unaware that my stalker had managed to attend four separate hearings, attempting to acquire an HRO which they refused to grant until they finally gave up and issued by default, with no appearance by me, and not signed by a judge
A blank default order: never served, never argued, never signed
A blank default order: never served, never argued, never signed
After I sent the C&D to her and the Indian man claiming to her attorney, I shut off the part of my brain which was aware of her existence and continued to live my life.
My father had a stroke in October of 2024, and I spent the rest of the year traveling to take care of him or for holidays.
My father had a stroke in October of 2024, and I spent the rest of the year traveling to take care of him or for holidays.
January 27, 2026 at 5:04 AM
After I sent the C&D to her and the Indian man claiming to her attorney, I shut off the part of my brain which was aware of her existence and continued to live my life.
My father had a stroke in October of 2024, and I spent the rest of the year traveling to take care of him or for holidays.
My father had a stroke in October of 2024, and I spent the rest of the year traveling to take care of him or for holidays.
While I was aware of her claims of an HRO beginning in July 2024, her statements were impossible because I had only ever spoken to her once, and had never been served any notice to appear
On August 19 2024, I sent her a Cease and Desist regarding her multiple false claims
On August 19 2024, I sent her a Cease and Desist regarding her multiple false claims
January 27, 2026 at 5:01 AM
While I was aware of her claims of an HRO beginning in July 2024, her statements were impossible because I had only ever spoken to her once, and had never been served any notice to appear
On August 19 2024, I sent her a Cease and Desist regarding her multiple false claims
On August 19 2024, I sent her a Cease and Desist regarding her multiple false claims
At the same time, in July of 2024, my stalker began telling people she had a restraining order against me and that's why I was abusing her.
That all of my behavior was because I had allegedly been "caught" sending her nude images to people.
That all of my behavior was because I had allegedly been "caught" sending her nude images to people.
January 27, 2026 at 4:54 AM
At the same time, in July of 2024, my stalker began telling people she had a restraining order against me and that's why I was abusing her.
That all of my behavior was because I had allegedly been "caught" sending her nude images to people.
That all of my behavior was because I had allegedly been "caught" sending her nude images to people.
Immediately after I distanced myself from her socially, the attacks began.
I began receiving comments across various social medias, private messages, and even text messages from people I had never given my number to.
All of them accusing me of having a mental breakdown and being abusive.
I began receiving comments across various social medias, private messages, and even text messages from people I had never given my number to.
All of them accusing me of having a mental breakdown and being abusive.
January 27, 2026 at 4:50 AM
Immediately after I distanced myself from her socially, the attacks began.
I began receiving comments across various social medias, private messages, and even text messages from people I had never given my number to.
All of them accusing me of having a mental breakdown and being abusive.
I began receiving comments across various social medias, private messages, and even text messages from people I had never given my number to.
All of them accusing me of having a mental breakdown and being abusive.
After I discovered the extent of the damage she had caused, I publicly disavowed any connection to the woman who had been claiming to be my sister for the last two years.
January 27, 2026 at 4:47 AM
After I discovered the extent of the damage she had caused, I publicly disavowed any connection to the woman who had been claiming to be my sister for the last two years.
Before July of 2024, despite warnings from my husband, I had publicly supported my stalker on social media.
While I didn't agree with her actions, I believed at the time that she was a low income single mother, and that being targeted on social media would have a negative impact.
While I didn't agree with her actions, I believed at the time that she was a low income single mother, and that being targeted on social media would have a negative impact.
January 27, 2026 at 4:46 AM
Before July of 2024, despite warnings from my husband, I had publicly supported my stalker on social media.
While I didn't agree with her actions, I believed at the time that she was a low income single mother, and that being targeted on social media would have a negative impact.
While I didn't agree with her actions, I believed at the time that she was a low income single mother, and that being targeted on social media would have a negative impact.
I have bipolar disorder, ptsd, and autism. I was deliberately targeted due to my status as a highly visible autistic "leftbook" oriented content creator whose "callout" could be memed.
January 27, 2026 at 4:42 AM
I have bipolar disorder, ptsd, and autism. I was deliberately targeted due to my status as a highly visible autistic "leftbook" oriented content creator whose "callout" could be memed.
Please understand that this topic is incredibly painful for me. I have attempted to tell this story many times, in multiple spaces.
Every time I try to tell my story, I'm targeted with abuse reports, fake restraining orders, people who claim to be lawyers, and the police.
Every time I try to tell my story, I'm targeted with abuse reports, fake restraining orders, people who claim to be lawyers, and the police.
January 27, 2026 at 4:39 AM
Please understand that this topic is incredibly painful for me. I have attempted to tell this story many times, in multiple spaces.
Every time I try to tell my story, I'm targeted with abuse reports, fake restraining orders, people who claim to be lawyers, and the police.
Every time I try to tell my story, I'm targeted with abuse reports, fake restraining orders, people who claim to be lawyers, and the police.
During this same period of time, mid 2024, it came to be publicly known that this same women had been simultaneously engaged to six different Indian men that she had met on social media. These relationships were both physical and financial in nature.
January 27, 2026 at 4:34 AM
During this same period of time, mid 2024, it came to be publicly known that this same women had been simultaneously engaged to six different Indian men that she had met on social media. These relationships were both physical and financial in nature.
I began to get messages from dozens of young men, claiming that this woman was my sister and had given permission for "tribute" group chats on WhatsApp, where nude images of both myself and this other woman were allegedly posted and masturbated to, with the resulting videos sent to the obsesser
January 27, 2026 at 4:28 AM
I began to get messages from dozens of young men, claiming that this woman was my sister and had given permission for "tribute" group chats on WhatsApp, where nude images of both myself and this other woman were allegedly posted and masturbated to, with the resulting videos sent to the obsesser
What began as a parasocial obsession by a random follower turned into restraining orders, falsified court documents, death threats, a doj investigation, and a federal lawsuit.
January 27, 2026 at 4:25 AM
What began as a parasocial obsession by a random follower turned into restraining orders, falsified court documents, death threats, a doj investigation, and a federal lawsuit.
For the last two years, I have been the target of a stalking and harassment campaign that began when a woman I have never met and barely spoken to became obsessed with me, my life, and my husband.
January 27, 2026 at 4:24 AM
For the last two years, I have been the target of a stalking and harassment campaign that began when a woman I have never met and barely spoken to became obsessed with me, my life, and my husband.
Oh no I mixed up two of the keys!
January 27, 2026 at 3:50 AM
Oh no I mixed up two of the keys!
Yes to all four but I'll do you one better: I still have the standalone nfc reader
January 26, 2026 at 5:26 PM
Yes to all four but I'll do you one better: I still have the standalone nfc reader
I tried to understand a Tesseract but I couldn't so it should stop existing, right now
January 26, 2026 at 3:14 PM
I tried to understand a Tesseract but I couldn't so it should stop existing, right now