There are a lot of problems with social media and random people being able to tell at you.

That said it has forced collaborative people to learn to deal with the fact we can't make everyone happy.

I have had basically the same hobbies and interests for 20 years that have cycled between being uncool to currently being fairly cool.

So I'm not one to judge.

P.S. Literally got sat at the Pokemon tournament players table at the last wedding I went to. (I'm not even into Pokemon!)

Eventually I realized that abusers can't get away with it so easily unless they have some women in their lives they pretend to respect.

I was used as a pawn so he could be oh look I'm best friends with this hardcore Feminist I can't be a bad guy, well he was a bad guy!

I stopped being friends with my ex bestie abuser 2 years ago.

I spent quite a bit of time going back over our interactions and realized ya he was a bit jealous & undermined my confidence. But that said he really was on his best behavior with me. This really had nothing to do with me though.

The emails have Summers reporting to Epstein about his attempts to date a Harvard economics student & to hit on her during a seminar she was giving.

As someone in my 30s, young people think I'm uncool and do cringe things (like wearing ankle socks & skinny jeans) and I'm ok with that.

It's weird when one cares that much what the youth think. It's a rite of passage for the youth to criticize the non young.

I've actually never been to Comic Con or Anime Expo originally.

When I was young and wanted to go I didn't have money to go. Now that I'm older I just don't care that much.

I never liked undressing in locker rooms because I value my privacy.

For same reason, me refusing to show my booty to strangers at raves means I like my privacy. I can assure you I think I'm hot shit. But patriarchy demands that women perform their sexuality publicly.

But it's the other side of the coin of hypersexualization that when women dress "modestly" whatever that means, we're assumed by patriarchal culture to be either unconfident or conservative.

I am neither.

The reason this has always been a tricky topic is once women wearing extremely revealing clothing hits a certain tipping point, it becomes the culture and puts pressure on other women to wear less clothing to fit in. But that's because of the patriarchy ultimately.