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Everyone keeps telling women to take a break.
Rest more. Slow down. Breathe.
But no one asks the real question — from what?
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Everyone keeps telling women to take a break.
Rest more. Slow down. Breathe.
But no one asks the real question — from what?
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I did not learn motherhood from books alone.
I learned it slowly, quietly—from nature.
Before I became a mother, I believed love was something you did. After motherhood, I learned love is something you become.
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I did not learn motherhood from books alone.
I learned it slowly, quietly—from nature.
Before I became a mother, I believed love was something you did. After motherhood, I learned love is something you become.
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Morning does not begin with an alarm for me.
It begins with light.
The first sunrays slip quietly through the window, touching the floor the way a child touches their mother—without asking, but with trust.
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Morning does not begin with an alarm for me.
It begins with light.
The first sunrays slip quietly through the window, touching the floor the way a child touches their mother—without asking, but with trust.
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For a long time, I thought time was against me.
Not loudly. Just constantly.
Like a reminder I couldn’t escape.
It felt too fast when I was happy and unbearably slow when I was hurting.
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For a long time, I thought time was against me.
Not loudly. Just constantly.
Like a reminder I couldn’t escape.
It felt too fast when I was happy and unbearably slow when I was hurting.
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Some days begin before the sun is ready.
Some days end before I am.
I move through my hours thinking of others —
their needs,
their worries,
their unfinished things.
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Some days begin before the sun is ready.
Some days end before I am.
I move through my hours thinking of others —
their needs,
their worries,
their unfinished things.
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People often ask me, “What’s your favorite thing to cook?”
I usually pause before answering. Not because I don’t know, but because the answer is deeper than just a recipe.
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People often ask me, “What’s your favorite thing to cook?”
I usually pause before answering. Not because I don’t know, but because the answer is deeper than just a recipe.
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I often sit by the river and wonder if it ever gets tired. I mean, it keeps moving every single day—over rocks, through narrow paths, past trees that lean heavy with rain—and still, it flows. Watching it, I feel a little seen,
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I often sit by the river and wonder if it ever gets tired. I mean, it keeps moving every single day—over rocks, through narrow paths, past trees that lean heavy with rain—and still, it flows. Watching it, I feel a little seen,
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I don’t have a favorite sport to watch or play.
Not because I lack interest—but because life never gave me the luxury of games.
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I don’t have a favorite sport to watch or play.
Not because I lack interest—but because life never gave me the luxury of games.
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Most answers are quick and predictable—houses, cars, travel, comfort.
But when I ask myself this question, I answer it as a woman—someone who has learned to think about care, continuity, and consequences.
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Most answers are quick and predictable—houses, cars, travel, comfort.
But when I ask myself this question, I answer it as a woman—someone who has learned to think about care, continuity, and consequences.
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I write in stolen moments.
Between finishing work and cleaning up.
After everyone else has slept.
In the quiet that only comes when I finally sit with myself.
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I write in stolen moments.
Between finishing work and cleaning up.
After everyone else has slept.
In the quiet that only comes when I finally sit with myself.
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Introduction
Some traditions are quiet—they don’t announce themselves loudly. They settle into your life so gently that one day, you realize they’ve shaped you. My favorite family traditions are like t
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Introduction
Some traditions are quiet—they don’t announce themselves loudly. They settle into your life so gently that one day, you realize they’ve shaped you. My favorite family traditions are like t
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The world is loud in ways people don’t always acknowledge. It speaks through expectations, timelines, opinions, and invisible rules about who I should be by now. It asks for answers even when I’m still learni
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The world is loud in ways people don’t always acknowledge. It speaks through expectations, timelines, opinions, and invisible rules about who I should be by now. It asks for answers even when I’m still learni
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Hampi holds centuries, but I haven’t found my way there.
Not because I didn’t want to go. Not because it was too far.
It has always been close enough to visit — close enough to plan — and yet, I never did.
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Hampi holds centuries, but I haven’t found my way there.
Not because I didn’t want to go. Not because it was too far.
It has always been close enough to visit — close enough to plan — and yet, I never did.
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You, little paws, warm eyes,
Snuggling next to me while I sip my tea,
Or curling up in my lap like you’ve always belonged.
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You, little paws, warm eyes,
Snuggling next to me while I sip my tea,
Or curling up in my lap like you’ve always belonged.
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I did not choose my name.
It came to me before I could speak, before I could understand the world, before I knew who I would become.
Someone looked at a tiny life and decided what I would be called.
That name stayed.
Life did the rest.
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I did not choose my name.
It came to me before I could speak, before I could understand the world, before I knew who I would become.
Someone looked at a tiny life and decided what I would be called.
That name stayed.
Life did the rest.
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My dream was to become a doctor.
It was not a careless dream. I was serious about my studies. I had the education. I was trying. I believed I could do it.
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My dream was to become a doctor.
It was not a careless dream. I was serious about my studies. I had the education. I was trying. I believed I could do it.
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For centuries, leadership has been defined as sacrifice — often silent, often invisible. Especially for women, leadership has meant adjusting more, speaking less,
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For centuries, leadership has been defined as sacrifice — often silent, often invisible. Especially for women, leadership has meant adjusting more, speaking less,
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There was a time when I believed that love always came with explanations. That I had to speak more, clarify more, justify my emotions, and prove that my feelings were valid. As women, many of us grow up learning this quietly.
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There was a time when I believed that love always came with explanations. That I had to speak more, clarify more, justify my emotions, and prove that my feelings were valid. As women, many of us grow up learning this quietly.
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People often ask me what my favorite animal is. It sounds like a very simple question, but my answer is connected to how I feel and how I see life. I am writing this post in a very natural way, just as I would share my thoughts with s
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People often ask me what my favorite animal is. It sounds like a very simple question, but my answer is connected to how I feel and how I see life. I am writing this post in a very natural way, just as I would share my thoughts with s
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I am writing—
without paper,
without ink,
only a screen that knows
the tremble of my fingers.
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I am writing—
without paper,
without ink,
only a screen that knows
the tremble of my fingers.
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I didn’t plan this.
I just knew I needed to go. Not away from people, but away from the weight inside me. My heart felt heavy, my thoughts loud, and I wanted a space where I could breathe without explanation.
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I didn’t plan this.
I just knew I needed to go. Not away from people, but away from the weight inside me. My heart felt heavy, my thoughts loud, and I wanted a space where I could breathe without explanation.
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by Mahananda Hadimani
Sometimes, the quietest moments tell the loudest stories.
It’s past midnight. The house is asleep. And here I am, standing in the kitchen, opening the fridge like it holds answers.
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by Mahananda Hadimani
Sometimes, the quietest moments tell the loudest stories.
It’s past midnight. The house is asleep. And here I am, standing in the kitchen, opening the fridge like it holds answers.
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I am a woman, and I am writing this myself.
Not with borrowed words.
Not with anyone correcting my tone.
Not with fear sitting on my shoulder.
Just me. My voice. My truth.
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I am a woman, and I am writing this myself.
Not with borrowed words.
Not with anyone correcting my tone.
Not with fear sitting on my shoulder.
Just me. My voice. My truth.
aarya045.com/2026/01/11/c...